The Art of Female Seduction (Page 3)

[newlysingleca]

Gosh I shut down in front of a guy I am interested in. No amount of planning and self pep talks have worked so I dont think this works for everyone. Maybe I just have been around the block enough 🤔

[LexyIsSexy23]

I think most are more shy and more laid back then myself

[jkm1864]

My advice find out if He is sexually active with anyone or if He is alone. If He is alone then make Your move and if He is attracted to You He will reciprocate. I mean lets be honest a man will never turn down sex if He finds You attractive and especially if He has went through a long dry spell. My EX for example We were friends first and when I saw Her for the first time it was like something slapped Me in the face and My first thought was damn She could be a model. Well She was dating an acquaintance so She was off limits in My book so I just acted like Myself which I'm very playful and when I'm happy My friends are always laughing around Me. We were watching a cheesy 1970's action flick and of coarse I'm a very irritating person to watch a movie with because I'll either narate or point out all the stupid scenes. Well in one scene they had a cheesy car chase and the primary car hit something and one of the fenders on the right side got damaged but in another scene it was not damaged meaning multiple stunt cars so I'm making fun of this movie and everyone is rolling around on the floor laughing except for the boyfriend. We would even go out dancing sometimes and I'd get a few drinks in Me and I'd go out dancing by myself because I just didn't give a damn I just wanted to have fun where as Her boyfriend was acting like a stump on a log sitting down all night.

[jkm1864]

So She saw Me as the one man party and saw Her boyfriend as a bore so She eventually broke up with Him and started coming by to hang out with Me. We started doing stuff together as friends because neither one of us was sure how the other felt so We played it safe. I believe the first date We went to an Italian restaurant and back to Her place to watch a movie. As We were watching the movie She went to the bathroom for some reason and when She came back She mounted Me like a cow girl because She was horsing around and without hesitation I kissed Her and needless to say I never finished watching oceans 11 until maybe 12 years later. The point I'm trying to make is She made the first move and I reciprocated and after playing around for a week or two I actually fell in love with Her because our personalities fit perfectly like a glove.

[RickPen]

Seduction, to me, is a common form of manipulation and deception, only possible when the receiving person allows themselves to be seduced.

[EABsTUQ]

So you like this post or dislike it?

[LexyIsSexy23]

@EABsTUQ ❤️

[RickPen]

@EABsTUQ I stated my opinion about seduction. That's all I'm going to post.

[LexyIsSexy23]

Nobody ask you though?

[RickPen]

I posted a reply. Nobody asked me to post one, just as nobody asked you to post your opinion on seduction.

[EABsTUQ]

@LexyIsSexy23 ❤️

[LexyIsSexy23]

@EABsTUQ thank you

[RickPen]

Oh, you're so welcome.

[LexyIsSexy23]

I wouldn't say that to you or anything really

[red324]

I like the strong eye contact part. I sometimes forget that this is where it all begins. I've found that if I just walk up to a women who hasn't acknowledged my existence yet, then the interaction doesn't go as well.

[LexyIsSexy23]

It's hard I know

[jkm1864]

Not for Me because I make eye contact with everyone I'm talking to. I don't know if its because I'm an aries butit comes naturally to Me. The funny thing is I'll walk up to a guy and shake His hand and look Him in the eye and they will literally shirk away in fear. I asked the EX about it and She said I'm a very intimidating guy and I intimidate people sometimes. I don't try to be that way and honestly I'm not huge maybe 210 6'1 but I have that look with a shaved head with dark menacing eyes and when I speak My voice is very loud and deep..

[Plitty-Tank]

Yes. Plenty of women are good at being seductive. I bet they enjoy that.

[LexyIsSexy23]

No most don't have the nerve

[jkm1864]

I knew this young bartender named Dell whom might have been 85 pounds soaking wet with a flat chest and skinny ass. That woman though when You talked to Her She made You feel like the center of the universe and I'm not kidding when I say that. She had a way of wrapping You around Her little pinkie and I admit I had a major crush on Her but She was dating another guy at the time. I introduced Her to My roomie and He chatted with Her for like 15 minutes and He came back to Me saying man I want to get with Her. Yeah She was cute in a tom boy sort of way but it was how She made You feel that really worked.

[bluehen46]

It if were not for female seduction to deal with dense guys i not only would still be a virgin but would not have been with the super majority of girls i had been with.

[DJZest]

There are higher mechanisms in place that determine who gets to "control the situation" which you don't address, but anybody below this level of psychological debauchery might appreciate your tactics.

But going blank is the fun part.

[Cahittinsan01]

Very good, thanks for Ur myTake, ı will reading. :).

[LexyIsSexy23]

Thanks for reading

[Cahittinsan01]

Not at all. 🌹.

[mick05]

Don't rate this advice. Coming from a guy well versed in both worlds. You do you girls

[Cherokeehp]

“Never approach a guy without a plan first” ctfu. That is ridiculous.

[Radio4men]

HAH NO! females do nothing. They have no social skills, no pickup tactics, they just stand there.
a guy needs to 75000 different skills to get a p**Sy!

[Sualina]

I just be myself when it comes to talking to a guy :) I don't try to be nothing I'm not.

[COMMODOREII]

I'd like to see you try this on me. 😏

[LexyIsSexy23]

I adapt to the guy it's a southern woman thing

[COMMODOREII]

Interesting. I am ready. 😎

[LexyIsSexy23]

We are few but strong

[R4vedave]

Absolutely fantastic advice

[LexyIsSexy23]

Thank you dear

[marc94]

I know you took the time to write this thing, but in all honesty this won't help anyone in anyway. This post is full of useless generalizations.

[bulletbob555]

Goes well with todays theme of female empowerment. I d like to see more of this for sure

[LexyIsSexy23]

Thanks

[Will23v]

Now we just need instructions for a guy to seduce a girl

[LexyIsSexy23]

I can't do everything
I don't pick up chicks

[Will23v]

Neither do i

[LexyIsSexy23]

Dang it man

[Vencam]

Love that self-roast <3

[Massageman]

Good points. Thanks for posting.

[LexyIsSexy23]

Thanks for reading

[worldscolide]

Nice my take as usual my friend.

[LexyIsSexy23]

Thanks buddy

[worldscolide]

Welcome!!

[Kreem4urkitty]

Id appreciate it more than u know if you tell me how to seduce a woman now. Please

[IHateBeingaMan]

women approaching a guy? c'mon, that obviously normally doesn't happen, it's not the norm

[jkm1864]

Actually I'm a very shy guy and all the women I have dated seriously chased Me. My biggest problem is I have resting asshole face and when I'm in a bar due to social anxiety I look very mean so women are afraid to approach Me. I would say all in all though that women are a lot more aggressive than You think its just most guys are not able to pick up on the body language or have the confidence to pursue the relationship further. I would also argue that a woman puts out body language naturally that signals that they want You to approach and 9 times out of 10 if they are not using that body language they will tell You to get lost so in essence they are the ones that chose their mates not the men.

[IHateBeingaMan]

@jkm1864 so the women you dated, did they approach you or ask you out first?

[IHateBeingaMan]

@jkm1864 plus, the vast majority of those men are oblivious to those subtle signs and hints thrown out by women

[jkm1864]

They chased for sure and since I was single at the time I was like sure why not. My EX it was kind of mutual We were both attracted to each other and We both didn't want to make the move just in case it would drive the other away. So We just sort of went to places together as friends and one night She wanted to horse play and I just kissed Her without thinking and then We took off.

[IHateBeingaMan]

@jkm1864 so it sounds like they were point blank with you about being interested, attracted to you, they were not so subtle about it, they were direct and upfront

[jkm1864]

Hahaha no it was the to the point that I couldn't deny the fact.

[IHateBeingaMan]

@jkm1864 did they approach you first or not?

[jkm1864]

Does it matter whom first walked up and started a conversation? I mean seriously just talking to someone is easy if You just take the steps to walk toward them. The hard part is actually taking the first move because You never know how its going to go.

[IHateBeingaMan]

@jkm1864 well it is the theme or topic of this post

[jkm1864]

Look just assume Your not getting laid and walk up and start a conversation it's simple as that. Some guy on here was like WTF do I talk about. You can talk about anything but the best thing to do is ask questions about their life, childhood, job, and dreams. It doesn't take a genius to figure out because that's the easy part. You also need to make Your that You smile a lot and keep eye contact throughout the conversation. The hard part is moving in for the kill because We all have doubts and confidence issues that stop us but You won't ever know till You try. I was never good at reading body language and I was always afraid to move which confused the women and frustrated them but if they really like You they will either make a blatant move or they will beat around the bush and if You can get the hint then You will know.