I like the strong eye contact part. I sometimes forget that this is where it all begins. I've found that if I just walk up to a women who hasn't acknowledged my existence yet, then the interaction doesn't go as well.
Not for Me because I make eye contact with everyone I'm talking to. I don't know if its because I'm an aries butit comes naturally to Me. The funny thing is I'll walk up to a guy and shake His hand and look Him in the eye and they will literally shirk away in fear. I asked the EX about it and She said I'm a very intimidating guy and I intimidate people sometimes. I don't try to be that way and honestly I'm not huge maybe 210 6'1 but I have that look with a shaved head with dark menacing eyes and when I speak My voice is very loud and deep..
I knew this young bartender named Dell whom might have been 85 pounds soaking wet with a flat chest and skinny ass. That woman though when You talked to Her She made You feel like the center of the universe and I'm not kidding when I say that. She had a way of wrapping You around Her little pinkie and I admit I had a major crush on Her but She was dating another guy at the time. I introduced Her to My roomie and He chatted with Her for like 15 minutes and He came back to Me saying man I want to get with Her. Yeah She was cute in a tom boy sort of way but it was how She made You feel that really worked.
It if were not for female seduction to deal with dense guys i not only would still be a virgin but would not have been with the super majority of girls i had been with.
There are higher mechanisms in place that determine who gets to "control the situation" which you don't address, but anybody below this level of psychological debauchery might appreciate your tactics.
HAH NO! females do nothing. They have no social skills, no pickup tactics, they just stand there. a guy needs to 75000 different skills to get a p**Sy!
Actually I'm a very shy guy and all the women I have dated seriously chased Me. My biggest problem is I have resting asshole face and when I'm in a bar due to social anxiety I look very mean so women are afraid to approach Me. I would say all in all though that women are a lot more aggressive than You think its just most guys are not able to pick up on the body language or have the confidence to pursue the relationship further. I would also argue that a woman puts out body language naturally that signals that they want You to approach and 9 times out of 10 if they are not using that body language they will tell You to get lost so in essence they are the ones that chose their mates not the men.
They chased for sure and since I was single at the time I was like sure why not. My EX it was kind of mutual We were both attracted to each other and We both didn't want to make the move just in case it would drive the other away. So We just sort of went to places together as friends and one night She wanted to horse play and I just kissed Her without thinking and then We took off.
@jkm1864 so it sounds like they were point blank with you about being interested, attracted to you, they were not so subtle about it, they were direct and upfront
Does it matter whom first walked up and started a conversation? I mean seriously just talking to someone is easy if You just take the steps to walk toward them. The hard part is actually taking the first move because You never know how its going to go.
Look just assume Your not getting laid and walk up and start a conversation it's simple as that. Some guy on here was like WTF do I talk about. You can talk about anything but the best thing to do is ask questions about their life, childhood, job, and dreams. It doesn't take a genius to figure out because that's the easy part. You also need to make Your that You smile a lot and keep eye contact throughout the conversation. The hard part is moving in for the kill because We all have doubts and confidence issues that stop us but You won't ever know till You try. I was never good at reading body language and I was always afraid to move which confused the women and frustrated them but if they really like You they will either make a blatant move or they will beat around the bush and if You can get the hint then You will know.
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Seduction, to me, is a common form of manipulation and deception, only possible when the receiving person allows themselves to be seduced.
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@EABsTUQ I stated my opinion about seduction. That's all I'm going to post.
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I posted a reply. Nobody asked me to post one, just as nobody asked you to post your opinion on seduction.
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Oh, you're so welcome.
I wouldn't say that to you or anything really
I like the strong eye contact part. I sometimes forget that this is where it all begins. I've found that if I just walk up to a women who hasn't acknowledged my existence yet, then the interaction doesn't go as well.
It's hard I know
Not for Me because I make eye contact with everyone I'm talking to. I don't know if its because I'm an aries butit comes naturally to Me. The funny thing is I'll walk up to a guy and shake His hand and look Him in the eye and they will literally shirk away in fear. I asked the EX about it and She said I'm a very intimidating guy and I intimidate people sometimes. I don't try to be that way and honestly I'm not huge maybe 210 6'1 but I have that look with a shaved head with dark menacing eyes and when I speak My voice is very loud and deep..
Yes. Plenty of women are good at being seductive. I bet they enjoy that.
No most don't have the nerve
I knew this young bartender named Dell whom might have been 85 pounds soaking wet with a flat chest and skinny ass. That woman though when You talked to Her She made You feel like the center of the universe and I'm not kidding when I say that. She had a way of wrapping You around Her little pinkie and I admit I had a major crush on Her but She was dating another guy at the time. I introduced Her to My roomie and He chatted with Her for like 15 minutes and He came back to Me saying man I want to get with Her. Yeah She was cute in a tom boy sort of way but it was how She made You feel that really worked.
Say that you are still untouched then it will turn them on.
I'm not lying to them.
It if were not for female seduction to deal with dense guys i not only would still be a virgin but would not have been with the super majority of girls i had been with.
Very good, thanks for Ur myTake, ı will reading. :).
Thanks for reading
Not at all. 🌹.
There are higher mechanisms in place that determine who gets to "control the situation" which you don't address, but anybody below this level of psychological debauchery might appreciate your tactics.
But going blank is the fun part.
Don't rate this advice. Coming from a guy well versed in both worlds. You do you girls
“Never approach a guy without a plan first” ctfu. That is ridiculous.
HAH NO! females do nothing. They have no social skills, no pickup tactics, they just stand there.
a guy needs to 75000 different skills to get a p**Sy!
I just be myself when it comes to talking to a guy :) I don't try to be nothing I'm not.
I'd like to see you try this on me. 😏
I adapt to the guy it's a southern woman thing
Interesting. I am ready. 😎
We are few but strong
Absolutely fantastic advice
Thank you dear
I know you took the time to write this thing, but in all honesty this won't help anyone in anyway. This post is full of useless generalizations.
Goes well with todays theme of female empowerment. I d like to see more of this for sure
Thanks
Now we just need instructions for a guy to seduce a girl
I can't do everything
I don't pick up chicks
Neither do i
Dang it man
Love that self-roast <3
Good points. Thanks for posting.
Thanks for reading
Nice my take as usual my friend.
Thanks buddy
Welcome!!
Id appreciate it more than u know if you tell me how to seduce a woman now. Please
women approaching a guy? c'mon, that obviously normally doesn't happen, it's not the norm
Actually I'm a very shy guy and all the women I have dated seriously chased Me. My biggest problem is I have resting asshole face and when I'm in a bar due to social anxiety I look very mean so women are afraid to approach Me. I would say all in all though that women are a lot more aggressive than You think its just most guys are not able to pick up on the body language or have the confidence to pursue the relationship further. I would also argue that a woman puts out body language naturally that signals that they want You to approach and 9 times out of 10 if they are not using that body language they will tell You to get lost so in essence they are the ones that chose their mates not the men.
@jkm1864 so the women you dated, did they approach you or ask you out first?
@jkm1864 plus, the vast majority of those men are oblivious to those subtle signs and hints thrown out by women
They chased for sure and since I was single at the time I was like sure why not. My EX it was kind of mutual We were both attracted to each other and We both didn't want to make the move just in case it would drive the other away. So We just sort of went to places together as friends and one night She wanted to horse play and I just kissed Her without thinking and then We took off.
@jkm1864 so it sounds like they were point blank with you about being interested, attracted to you, they were not so subtle about it, they were direct and upfront
Hahaha no it was the to the point that I couldn't deny the fact.
@jkm1864 did they approach you first or not?
Does it matter whom first walked up and started a conversation? I mean seriously just talking to someone is easy if You just take the steps to walk toward them. The hard part is actually taking the first move because You never know how its going to go.
@jkm1864 well it is the theme or topic of this post
Look just assume Your not getting laid and walk up and start a conversation it's simple as that. Some guy on here was like WTF do I talk about. You can talk about anything but the best thing to do is ask questions about their life, childhood, job, and dreams. It doesn't take a genius to figure out because that's the easy part. You also need to make Your that You smile a lot and keep eye contact throughout the conversation. The hard part is moving in for the kill because We all have doubts and confidence issues that stop us but You won't ever know till You try. I was never good at reading body language and I was always afraid to move which confused the women and frustrated them but if they really like You they will either make a blatant move or they will beat around the bush and if You can get the hint then You will know.