A boy texts you "hello beautiful" and "hey sexy", but....

[Andriana098]

He always keeps the texting flirty and fun. He will text me the whole day without stop, but not creepy or anything. When we see each other he's a bit more laid back but still flirtatious. Problem; he has a girlfriend. What exactly does this all mean? Plus he's pretty shy at first and he's never cheated on a girl and he usually actually dates his girlfriends for longer periods of time than most my age.

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+1 y

Problems been resolved guys.

:) I trusted my instincts and decided to

take it as flirting but when he asked me out

I said no. Luckily I did, he was still seeing the other

girl. He's just a player.

Oh well

[sassy88]

you need let him know that he has a girlfriend and he has seem to of forgotten that.. girl trust me you don't want to get involved in that if his girl found out that's a whole lot more drama than you probably need in your life.. tell him if he wants to flirt with you he needs to leave his girl because obviously he is either not happy or a player and if he is the last one you don't need that either.. you seem to really like him otherwise you wouldn't of asked this question.. but if he is texting you like this with him having a girlfriend imagine what he would do to you if he dated you.. imagine how she would feel if she found out..girl I would end him talking to me like that untill he dumped her ass..lol

[Andriana098]

Thank you so much. Those are all questions I have, so it's nice to know that I'm not the only one thinking it. And too have a second opinion. I know I should talk to him, and I have been seriously considering it. My only fear is that it'll effect the realationship so hopefully he likes me as much as he let's on and if not he wasn't worth it.

[This_Gives_Life]

People can't help flirting. In fact, a lot of people do it without realizing it. I would say do nothing. I made the mistake of being "the other girl" once back in high school. and though no one knows about it I still feel terrible and wish I could take it all back. I kept thinking how would I feel if my boyfriend was doing this to another girl and the girl just let it go on with out any thought or concern for my feeling.

always remember, if they do it WITH you they could do it TO you just as easily.

[Anonymous]

Him flirting with you could be his personality and the way he is but he should not be doing that if he has a girl cause he is inviting something to happen. or he may like you and just warming you up to finally doing something. If so, if he tries something, then he wants you on the side and you don not want that.

[PolloLoco32]

Being flirtatious is fun. I flirt even when I'm in a relationship, not to cheat (though some people consider it cheating), but just as a self confidence booster. Everyone wants to know they are hot right?

The big problem is knowing who is disciplined enough to not cross the line, hence why some people consider it cheating. There is no 100% indicators for that. Sounds like he's just having fun. I'd give it a 70% chance, but we are all still imperfect humans.

[Anonymous]

He might be attracted to you but still attracted to his girlfriend as well. If he hasn't cheated, I don't think he will.

[nsjain101]

i think he likes you but doesn't want to hurt her, my best friend went through this, he wanted to leave his girlfriend and be with my bff but he didn't know how. trust your instincts and intuition they are usually right.

[girlygirl2]

if my boyfriend sent flirty msg's out then I'll get p*ssed.

sounds like he's a player.

i mean think if you were in that's girls position and that was ur boyfriend would you be ok with it?

[kingofkings092]

he could just be kidding around and just being nice or he could just be a natural flirt