Recently my crush and my friend have gotten the chance to get to know each other better, which to me was great because I figured that we all would be able to got out sometimes and things wouldn't be weird. Things were going good until I gave her his number which I thought would only be used that one time, but apparently I was wrong.
I found out that over the past couple weeks that they have texted each other, now from what I've been told it was/is nothing serious but I don't care, I don't like it at all!
She's told me that he's sent her a few random texts, which is like him he'll do that, but then I find out that she's initiated her own texts to him. WHY?!?! Now she knows that I like him and that I have liked him for a while so why would you take it upon yourself to start texting him knowing the situation? I don't like the fact that she does that and doesn't tell me about it, she'll slowly come out with parts of the conversation that they had which drives me CRAZY! It's like she's hiding something from me and I don't like it. I know that she's not trying to get with him for a fact but I must admit that it's kind of crazy that she forming this relationship with him.
My questions is: How do I tell her without it coming off as weird that I don't like their communication? I know he's not my boyfriend or anything but she knows how I feel about him, also I knew him first so it's not like they were friends and then I came along. I feel like it's an unwritten rule that you don't do something like that, and I'm confused as to why she doesn't feel like it's a big deal. I'm very upset with this whole thing and don't want to end up blowing up on her. Any suggestions?
I found out that over the past couple weeks that they have texted each other, now from what I've been told it was/is nothing serious but I don't care, I don't like it at all!
She's told me that he's sent her a few random texts, which is like him he'll do that, but then I find out that she's initiated her own texts to him. WHY?!?! Now she knows that I like him and that I have liked him for a while so why would you take it upon yourself to start texting him knowing the situation? I don't like the fact that she does that and doesn't tell me about it, she'll slowly come out with parts of the conversation that they had which drives me CRAZY! It's like she's hiding something from me and I don't like it. I know that she's not trying to get with him for a fact but I must admit that it's kind of crazy that she forming this relationship with him.
My questions is: How do I tell her without it coming off as weird that I don't like their communication? I know he's not my boyfriend or anything but she knows how I feel about him, also I knew him first so it's not like they were friends and then I came along. I feel like it's an unwritten rule that you don't do something like that, and I'm confused as to why she doesn't feel like it's a big deal. I'm very upset with this whole thing and don't want to end up blowing up on her. Any suggestions?
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