I have a crush on my dads friend at work?

[Anonymous]

my mom and dad are leaving tomorrow for 3 days for there anniversary and im staying home by myself and my dad said his friend (my crush) will be coming to check on me while there away and i want to know what can i do for my dads friend to like me back?

[Anonymous]

I did once when I was 20.

My dad's friend (co-worker) was 35. I gave my parents an anniversary party at my house. My dad invited all of his friends& co-workers. I invited my friends & our family. My friend (who was 24) liked a guy who was at the party, so they exchanged numbers. When she called the guy he asked if she had a friend. She said yes (which was me). He brought his cousin over which was another guy from the party (my dad's co-worker). I started talking to him. We both decided to keep it behind my dad's back. Eventually we started having sex. I fell in love with him, he was very romantic & he took me on dates to places I had never been before. One day a woman called my phone (while I was at work) & cussed me out. I did a little investigation of my own & I found out he was married. So I left him alone. The reason I kept us a secret was b/c of our age differences. I realized he was keeping us a secret b/c he was married. I'm in a relationship, I've been in several ever since him, I'm now 27yrs old, & somehow I still haven't gotten over him. I Google his name from time to time, I've searched for him on Facebook, I've looked him up on white pages & I've called the numbers I've seen. I don't know why but I still love him & I want to talk to him.

[Asker]

so what should i do?

[Opinion Owner]

If I were you I'd make sure he wasn't married or anything first. Do your research. If he's single when he come over to check on you tell him you're bored & ask him if he would like to stay a while& keep you company.

[Asker]

ok i will thanks!

[Asker]

omg it as great!

[jjodllwedo]

go for it!!! as someone whos flirted with teachers wildly i advice you to do it!!!

[Asker]

omg ok!

[jjodllwedo]

send me a private message later telling me how things went!! i wish you good luck! its going to be one of your best experiences ever girl!

[jjodllwedo]

how did it go? pm me!!

[Asker]

omg awesome

[jjodllwedo]

ah tell me more!

[Asker]

message me

[jjodllwedo]

i can't find your profile? you asked me as a anon?

[Asker]

oh my username is Madilyn_xoxo

[jjodllwedo]

pm me cause i can't find you

[dakraziest]

Please please please
dont do anything
dads friends are offlimits and you seriously need to find someone else to crush on

[Asker]

well why not he is like totally hot

[dakraziest]

he's hot thats awesome
now consider this, if this guy ends up falling for you and you two do something and then yr dad finds out, what do you think he will think. Would it be because he was hot or would it be a blow to his trust, he won't ever look at you in the same way but he would also be wary of his friends for life, fearing that one of them might end up being a really close friend of sweet young princess

[Asker]

oops sorry I think he likes me now u could of told me this earlier but things went great!

[Anonymous]

You know this is wrong and just want to pies people off, troll

[Anonymous]

Way consider a great idea to ruin your dads friendship and job while not giving a fuck about how it might affect him and your family. Awesome job.

[Anonymous]

Don't even go there... you're asking for trouble.