My eyes sometimes wander around so at times I accidently make eye contact but it's awkward and I avoid it. Ughh i really need tips to stop being so freaking shy
I jump around and say "look at me look at me look at me" or sometimes I go out into my mother's garden and bury myself in dirt and pretend I'm a carrot. Both are quite effective.
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Hahahaha, this might get MHO just because of the ludicrous nature of the answer. Well done sir, well done.
I guess Im actually very hard to read, because Im just waiting for him to give me a sign that he is interested, it's stupid. But yea if I let him touch me, and I am near him, talking to him then it's a definite sign I might be interested. :)
I plainly ignore him and I hate myself for that. Everyday I plan on passing few smiles to him but then I get so nervous, act like I don't even know who you are. I hate myself!!!
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Starting to think this how people act more often than not, any particular reason why you do this? How have your crushes acted in the past in response to this?
I don't talk to many people unless I'm interested in them or have something to say.
I learned a long time ago that if you're not yourself, you attract people to someone else. So you might as well just put your cards on the table and have them pick that hand.
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She makes me act myself, which paradoxically makes me shut up more than usual unless it's just the two of us.
Ughhh awful. Sometimes i act like i dont even know him
Haha, again it seems like a lot of people are more like this than not! So you actively avoid him or shy away from any contact with him?
My eyes sometimes wander around so at times I accidently make eye contact but it's awkward and I avoid it. Ughh i really need tips to stop being so freaking shy
A little flirtage and banter here and there does the trick. I'm more outgoing than shy.
So you're pretty confident then?
I whip out my dick and start doing the helicopter. The. I make her a. Omelette. I'm joking. I just act normal.
But the whole dick twirling thing seems like such a good idea, relative to normal. Unless that is your normal?
I have just crushed over my friend. When we became friends, I was sweet and stuff, but then I got a crush on him and become rude and harsh. Lmfao xD
Haha, did he notice the change and behavior?
I don't know. He did the same :P
Did it work out in the end?
We are just friends.
I jump around and say "look at me look at me look at me" or sometimes I go out into my mother's garden and bury myself in dirt and pretend I'm a carrot. Both are quite effective.
Hahahaha, this might get MHO just because of the ludicrous nature of the answer. Well done sir, well done.
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Thank you thank you very much
*shakes pelvis like Elvis*
Hahaha, man you're rocking this. Doubled over laughing at this, bet you're a smooth talker in real life ;)
It gets me into all sorts of trouble. I like throwing footballs at women I don't know at Wallyworld. (Walmart)
I don't act differently around women I am interested in, but I do have to calm myself down a little.
How do you go about calming yourself with said crushes?
Breathing deeply once or twice, it lowers my heartbeat which calms me down.
So flirty and and weird try to be more prettier But crealy dont work :) they dont notice i guess anyways Lol
Well guys don't notice most things unfortunately, not in this kind of situation. How would you define weird?
Cuz i like pretend i am in movie like the space nature, or things like that whats weird for you?
If I had a crush on someone, I would just talk to them more them I would normally.
Okay, so you actually become more outgoing? Was that always the case for you?
Pretty normal. I don't talk to them differently or anything, I just want to touch them a lot more - I don't though.
Okay so more the touchy-feely type then? Would you say that's the primary way a guy should know you're interested or do you give off other signals?
I guess Im actually very hard to read, because Im just waiting for him to give me a sign that he is interested, it's stupid. But yea if I let him touch me, and I am near him, talking to him then it's a definite sign I might be interested. :)
I plainly ignore him and I hate myself for that. Everyday I plan on passing few smiles to him but then I get so nervous, act like I don't even know who you are.
I hate myself!!!
Starting to think this how people act more often than not, any particular reason why you do this? How have your crushes acted in the past in response to this?
Am just too shy and get nervous, can't help it.
Never had any crush in the past , he's the only one I like. I just hope he's braver than I am.
Like a douche.
I am actually kind of shy, but I still act like an asshole all the time.
How does that work?
Weird, gawky and usually a little mean.
The others make sense, but why a little mean?
It comes out naturally.
I'm just nicer to them. That's it.
That's all? Nothing else?
I don't talk to many people unless I'm interested in them or have something to say.
I learned a long time ago that if you're not yourself, you attract people to someone else. So you might as well just put your cards on the table and have them pick that hand.
For me it actually depends on the girl
Okay, what factors come into play?
Shy and awkward :(
Well, you're in good company it seems - as most of the answers indicate this exact same thing :)