Tell him! Tell him you need to feel appreciated and loved.
Honestly I would start detaching a little bit. He needs to not get so comfortable. Right now he's attracted to another woman and probably thinks it's all good because his wife is at home taking care of everything. Well I don't know how much weight you gained but I'll bet $$ you're attractive. If your husband can't appreciate it someone else will. I am NOT saying cheat, but I am saying let him know that if he doesn't start taking care of home another man wouldn't mind doing it. Don't let him treat you like that. Start doing things to take care of yourself, do your hair, maybe get an outfit and head out for a ladies night. Don't forget about keeping up with your appearances, look hot but be a little distant. He'll be back soon. His work crush is just a temporary escape from reality but nothing is better than wifey.
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Maybe you both need to reconnect and make more couple time. Try to set up a date night where it's just the two of you and get a babysitter. Plan a mini get away for the weekend, go to a winery or a bed and breakfast. It sounds like you need more alone time so you can rekindle your relationship. He is disconnected from you emotionally and probably physically (I will assume). Getting close again will hopefully fulfill both of you and strengthen your marriage.
If this falters then maybe counseling should be the next consideration.
Good luck.
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The chick at work is only an escape from his problems. Don;t give up with daily chores continue to keep the house clean. One advice try not to let go of yourself, try to look pretty, this will boost your esteem. When he reach home from work, ask him how was his day. Don''t complain, continue to be what he married 10 years ago, loving and supportive. Try talking to him / not nag and tell him that some of his comments hurt you. Just be strong, don;t give up.
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