But along the way, he has asked me the following over the past year: 1) be my housemate (after he moved out of his parents' place and got his own place) -- to which I said NO!; 2) when you come over, you can sleepover if you'd like (which I try not to do as I still live at home); 3) makes me food when I do go over.
He has been adamant about not wanting to date me, yet his actions confuse me. A few times I have gone on first dates with other guys, and it didn't go very well, so I would go to his place after. I told him where I was before that, and we even chatted about the date. He tells me about girls, exes, etc. all the time too. But when we did fight about the FWB thing, (arguing over whether we should let this continue), he would bring up how I can't be seeing other guys and then coming over after. But he keeps telling me it's just sex, and that I'm more likely to get emotionally involved than he is. As my booty call, I don't care -- but as my best friend, I *do* care. I don't want to mislead him even if he tells me he can manage. Does he really mean what he say? Casual sex and nothing else?
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