What does it mean when a guy is very admirable at a female who is strong and hard worker? Is that a turn off or turn on? When he tells others you are his girlfriend and never calls you, how is that possible?
What does it mean when a guy says he admires a strong woman?

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These are some completely different questions here and I am not sure how they go together.
But here we go, I think when a man says he admires a strong woman, that means he admires a woman that is independent and can take care of herself. I think it means those are qualities that he find appealing in a woman. I think it is likely a turn on for him as long as you are not over the top strong woman where he feels insignificant.
Now when he calls you his girlfriend around others and then never calls you, then that means he might be a jerk. Maybe he likes you and likes to show you off to his friends, but he's not ready for a relationship so he doesn't call you. Hope that is helpful.
Thank you that makes more sense than the comment left by hunterboys. Lmao!
You have to get out of that complaining stage first.
When he admires her that's his way of show recognition to the greatness of that female.
So he does realize that the female at hand is worthy of high compliments.
Neither turn-off nor turn-on. That doesn't make me decided whether or not to be with someone. I admit it shows that she wants to be something, and that helps when deciding to be with some one.
If he is claiming to others that you are his girlfriend, then that means he sees you as a part of him enough to say yes we're to gether don't bother her.
If he's not calling, what's wrong with you calling?
I do agree that he needs to find time to give you but him call will not prove anything.
Ask him why he isn't calling.
Good Luck
Sincerely,
A Loving Black Man
Thx but you make no sense! There is no complaining here just asking others opinion thxs
I took it, in a sense that you meant you were the strong woman that men didn't want to take the chance on because of your independence. I agree that men can be very hard to understand at times. The only point I was trying to make was we only say that as a compliment. True it is nice to have a strong woman, but not so much to where we don't feel needed.
I wasn't saying your complaining as a nerve wrecking thing, but more of a let that "go thing" because it means nothing more then what's said.
Well, as you know men are very difficult to understand. Is common sense. Now a days, as you may have noticed, most women have taken the fame on behaving in a very distinct way and no longer have any strong values.
Its very difficult to find a woman that is hard working and moves on regardless any situation. Strong women don't look at the negative things in a situation, they try to figure out what is best and does not change her opinion,
If that guy really feels like you are his girlfriend, he should pay more attention to you and make you feel like he's really there.
If not, be a strong women about it, tell him how you feel and if he does not change the way he treats you, then just MOVE ON!
Right on sista! Totally agree. I'm going on a new date with a new man not a boy. Lmao!