He likes you.
Creepy is the wrong word, he's just a guy you don't like.
First of all, you don't owe him anything so don't feel bad for giving him the cold shoulder or simply not liking him or wanting to be around him..
Secondly, why did you give your number to a guy you don't even want to talk to in class? Now you've given him permission to talk to you outside of class as well so you can blame yourself for that one.
All you can do at this point is keep your distance. Don't reply to his texts, If he talks to you give him short responses, if he follows you out of class go in the opposite direction he's going in, if he still follows you go into the ladies restroom if its close by or act like you're making a call on your phone (make it seem like you're talking to a guy). Repeat these things often until he leaves you alone. Its going to be awkward but that's life. DO NOT skip class because of this guy. There was a class I skipped every night in undergrad because I was afraid of classmate who always tried convincing me to get into his car, or come to his dorm, or go somewhere with him alone and I ended up having to repeat the course. Don't let that be you.
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He's interested in you, there's nothing "creepy" about what he's doing. It seems very normal to me, maybe he's just slightly awkward but it doesn't really sound it. He probably called you right there so that you had his number, not to make sure it was the right one. That probably didn't even cross his mind.
Helpful tip - don't give your number to people if you don't want to talk to them.
It sounds like he's kind of a weird guy but isn't doing anything wrong. You didn't have to give him your number if you didn't want him to contact you. If he keeps talking to you just straight up say he's a nice guy but you're not interested. If you don't want to say that, just say you have a boyfriend whether that's true or not. Don't stop going to class, there's just no reason to do that.
Hm, it sounds normal to me since he does seem interested in you. I probably wouldn't give people your number in the future if you aren't interested. That minor awkward situation is way better than the stress and anxiety you have now. Just tell him you aren't looking to date or anything right now if he continues.
You don't have to talk to him. It sounds like he thinks you're pretty and wants to get to know you. Giving him your number gave a signal that you probably have some interest in him. Distancing yourself from him would tell him you aren't interested. You're allowed to do that.
Um... what about this is "creepy "? He made small talk with you, he asked u for ur number, YOU GAVE IT TO HIM, and he called it immediately to give u his number.
Sorry you're going through anxiety... but this is a you problem. The guy isn't doing anything wrong.
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This is EXACTLY WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT ON THIS WEBSITE.
Women like this shame men for almost EVERYTHING. So what you don't like him. You can't simply make all of the people you don't like disappear. If he was hot this wouldn't be an issue. This is like catcalling. If the guy is hot it is alright. If he is ugly it isn't. This is why men can't take women like you seriously. Nothing about what you fucking said makes him creepy. He is just fucking talking with you. Men hate women like you because you shame men for the bullshit that hasn't even happened.Sounds like he's just shy and awkward. Don't see anything 'life threatening' about him as how you're reacting. Women these days tend to throw the label "creepy" as if it were a witch hunt. If it makes you uncomfortable you should just simply tell him. You have a problem owning up to your feelings and this is the result of it.
As for you anxiety... I wouldn't know what to tell you other than some tips to help you mitigate it at times. Like counting backwards from 30 to 1 or listening to music. But sounds like you need to be more aware of creating irrational scenarios in your head.Sounds like you're too nice, which isn't a bad trait but in situations like this you gotta be able to avoid sending mixed signals. When he tries to talk to you just keep your responses very short and let him know you're busy and have to go. Do the fake "oops, I gotta call my friend back" if you have to. You can be nice but still make it clear to him you're interested. Most guys will take the hint and back off.
Just go to class if he makes small talk he makes small talk. If he invites you to crap just respectfully decline. If he asks you out tell him you're not interested. He is being creepy and very aggressive about it. That's just a huge red flag that he checked to make sure it was your number right there in front of you.
You need to learn how to say no. If a guy doesn't interest you, you shouldn't be giving him your phone number.
media2.giphy.com/media/TNYy8aY7yateU/giphy.gifUgh, he isn't being creepy, you're just not attracted to him (but you still gave him your number, which is only going to encourage him to keep talking to you because he thinks he might have a chance with you).
Just grow a spine and tell him you aren't interested. Seriously.Two things.
1. Welcome to college
2. Learn to say NO. (It's OK)Why don't you brother zone him, works everytime...
but seriously, don't give him any signs that you want to be friends or anything with him, like for example giving him your real number, tell him you have a boyfriend and are getting engaged to him, give him one word replies, and always tell him you're in a hurry when he tries to talk to you, long story short you have to give him all kinds of signs that you want nothing to do with him, he'll get the point, try not being rude though...why is he a creep because he displays interest in you?
if he disgusts you or whateve why'd you give him your number?
why don't you simply say, 'I don't want to waste your time. I'm don't really see you like that' ...Tell him clearly that you are not interested. Tell him giving him your number was a mistake. If her persists... say I am sorry... please don't contact me again. I am not comfortable and if you do I will have to report you.
Nothing about this is "creepy". Just because you're not interested in him doesn't make him creepy.
He is just trying to make a move, he probably likes you. If that moment ever comes, just tell him the truth that you are not interested in him, no need to panic. This is simply "boy likes girl".
Try to make yourself ugly so that he'll think you're creep too and lose interest in talking to you.
You are an inspiration , please teach me the art of over-reacting. I make you my guru.
seriosuly is this is your definition to creepy? he didn't do any thing wrong u did why did gave him you number in the first place?
"A low status male has a crush on me... EWWW CREEPY!"
Remember folks, creepy = unattractive.
lol hahaaha. thats what you get for looking down on people
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So he's a creep because YOU gave him your number?
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