Will the attraction go away?

[Anonymous]

if right from the start a guy and girl were sexually and physically attracted to each other, will that attraction ever go away?

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+1 y

after they break up..

[Panopticus]

It depends perhaps what the reason for the break up was, physical attraction is a deep imperative, if enough of what turns us on is evident in the body of someone and we like the smell of their hair and the taste of their skin .. that doesn't change.

We may go vegetarian or vegan but the smell of a bacon butty or a burger bun can still stir our appetite.

If however some of the sexual attraction was because the ex lover was 'cute' and the body language was a turn on then that might well make a difference.

[Ephram]

People get used to each other, and after a while they begin taking them for granted. So yes, after a while, guys will usually get used to a girl's body. Doesn't mean we'll stop being attracted to it, but it just won't be as strong.

[Asker]

I meant to mention after they break up

[crrazaylove]

Sometimes except if you were me I've been sexually and mentally attracted to the same guy for four years. And I still haven't got tired of him.

[Asker]

What about his feelings for you, has that changed?

[crrazaylove]

Idk he's a unreadable character. its on and off, sometimes he acts like I'm the best thing that has happened to him and sometimes he acts like I'm the scum of the earth. I still believe that he cares for me no matter what because of everything we went thru.

[Jiffy]

after the honeymoon period the infatuation gets less but your love and Trust for each other becomes stronger and it becomes a mental attraction or a co dependancy

[Asker]

Basically we first met and were sexually attracted to eachother... we were talking or friends with benefits for 6 months but I ended things because I wanted more out of it and I he didn't really. now when we see each other out I sometimes go home with him but I think about him all the time still. after we hook up he won't talk to me does that mean he isn't thinking about me. what is he thinking about me?

[Jiffy]

Well , from what I can gather you are the one in a Limerence state, and because he knows his getting action from you he won't contact you , absence make the heart grow fonder ? and he know that all he has to do is make you wait long enough.... He is a clever guy but don't let him fool you , you are on the right track sweaty. Set him free because freedom is where he wants to be.

[Asker]

So next time he asks should I say no? and he still has pics on his phone of me should I tell him to delete them now. how can I handle this situation I wanna seem cool and laid back and not like I want attention but have him want me too. And if I say no to him wil that make him want me more or have him be like "f*** this girl" and not try ever again?

[Blackkid]

In most cases yes.

[Asker]

Really? right from the start we were so attracted to eachother, and got along so well, and became a sexual attraction as well. whenever we faught and ended things as soon as we saw each other again we got back together. this time has been a month since I've seen him so ur saying if I see him again he might feel different then before?

[Blackkid]

Really?: Really.

so ur saying if I see him again he might feel different then before?: considering the instability, he'll probably want to hit it and think you're hot all the same; I see no real emotional connection.

[Asker]

No I'm saying when he sees me will those old feelings come back because it has every other time, this time he's just avoiding seeing me