Are unasked for or unexpected nudes a turn off for guys?

[CuriousCatYTL]

Does it make you lose respect for girls that send you pics of their body?
Does it ever annoy you to get nudes that weren't expected? I know it is for me sometimes and there's this friends with benefits relationship I wanna start with someone I know but he's extremely hard to read and gives off mixed signals. I'm tempted to send him a tease pic but I dont want it to push him away because it wasn't really asked for..

[chrisbigman]

It depends. If I'm getting bombarded by them, then yes. It's a turn-off. Even if I only got one or a few of them, I would certainly lose respect for her. Unless she takes an old fashion Polaroid (not sure if they even make them anymore) and personally gives it to me, I can't help but think she easily gives herself away - which is not ideal, in the slightest. Granted, a stranger would lose more respect for me than someone I'm close to (someone I'm dating). If I'm dating her though, I'd prefer in-person view rather than a "nude" by digital means or a Polaroid.

[Gonetowardthewind]

If I'm not dating her, then yes it is kind of a turn off to me. I don't want to see you completely naked and I didn't ask to. Plus to be honest it tells me she doesn't respect herself or her body very much. Same goes for guys as well.

[kamelot]

why did he get MHO, when i said the exact same thing, only shorter?

[Gonetowardthewind]

@kamelot because I said it first

[kamelot]

lol, wow

[chieechuu]

You want to have a friends with benefits relationship?

[c0der00]

Look i would say its better not send a guy anything untill he becomes your boyfriend for some time (till u trust him) because if u sended that nude to that guy.. What makes u sure he wouldn't SHOW or SHARE it with his friends? Then u will loose everything so better not

[c0der00]

PS: guys tend to do that often if you don't mean a lot to him.. I have seen and known girls that have nudes being sent in groups... So Respectfuly dont :)

[winelover2424]

I don't find it a turn off at all... Feel free to send me nudes anytime you want!

[Anonymous]

I would definitely lose respect for the girl who sends me nudes. I will think that she wants some favor from me.

[Anonymous]

never send nudes.. you're just asking for it, when you do

[ItsMe_Unfortunately]

asking for what?

[Opinion Owner]

what do you think

[ItsMe_Unfortunately]

Just wandering. i mean, I don't think you're saying something add stupid as sex, because I don't see how you could fuck someone over the phone

[Opinion Owner]

oh, it's certainly possible

[ItsMe_Unfortunately]

I won't ask

[Opinion Owner]

thanks?

[ItsMe_Unfortunately]

no problem

[Opinion Owner]

stfu

[ItsMe_Unfortunately]

That was rude. I was kind of hoping we could leave it at that with no hard feelings, I don't know

[Opinion Owner]

no. you're just an asshole now. sorry i wasted your time, and mine

[ItsMe_Unfortunately]

*pfft* male logic

[ItsMe_Unfortunately]

you wanted an asshole, I'm giving you an asshole

[ItsMe_Unfortunately]

or you could just be trolling, in that case, please be on your merry way

[ItsMe_Unfortunately]

*whispers* you have a wonderful pair of knockers, sir

[Opinion Owner]

not at all. and, who you talking to, you troll?

[ItsMe_Unfortunately]

at this point I'm just genuinely confused about the direction of this conversation. How's about you dont reply, and we leave this behind us and forget about it? I'm waving the white flag of surrender here

[Opinion Owner]

thanks, i think?

[Ben-jamin]

I feel like it spices up the relationship

[that_dude_v2]

Depends on what my relationship with them is

[Anonymous]

depends on the situation.

[turtl3man]

yyyeeep

[Anonymous]

Thepics go to trash.

[chuy10]

I wouldn't be