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Girls, is it an issue to date a guy who slept with a lot of women? (Page 4)
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I wouldn't really mind, but it's not a plus either. His personality would still have to match mine regarding other things.
There is a difference between porn star and someone who has slept around a lot.
Thats awesome. I am getting back into the dating scene, and so I was worried about wether my past would affect my ability to date, and since I am still kinda in the industry (on the reserve).
Do you mind if if you can PM/DM me? I have a date coming up, I would like your perspective and some tips? (I would rather not reveal personal info)
Wouldn't be an issue at all. I love bold people with enough boldness to
Good lord my dog jumped on me. Lemme finish. ... enough boldness to do what they want and never apologize. It's incredibly attractive. Say what you want about porn and about pornstars, they don't care what you think, they're too busy grabbing life by the _____________.
Thats awesome. I am getting back into the dating scene, and so I was worried about wether my past would affect my ability to date, and since I am still kinda in the industry (on the reserve). Glad you find it attractive
I don't find *IT* attractive per se, I just would never ever let it bother me if I had a strong connection with a great guy. If he was other girls or guys that's fine, but I would have to really feel in my gut that he digs me, that I have enough going on that even if I don't measure up to other, *ahem* experiences, he still thinks I'm the cat's meow.
You have your work cut out for you. Girls will be insecure. Bank on that. Make them understand why you chose them and you'll be fine.
I could only date him if he was to give it up, the number of girls he'd slept with wouldn't bother me as long as I knew that he was only about me
Well there is a bigger chance of you getting an STD
Actually do to rigorous testing standards and guidelines we have to adhere to, we on average are healthier than the general population simply because we are testing so often.
Also Since I have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you? I would like your perspective.
sure but I'm 15 and have never been in a relationship so i probably don't give the best advice
Yes it's an issue, he obviously has no control nor does he value sex as special. I want a man who doesn't share his body woth
*with just anybody
:(
That hurts, thank you for your honesty, I understand your position/stance though.
Why do you say I don't value sex? I think relationship sex is different than job or hookup sex, is it insecurity?
Also, I have a date coming up soon,
can I message you for some tips from your perspective? (its revealing private information that I would rather not post)
I'll pm you then
cool, thanks
I could not deal... I get extremely jealous when my guy's been with only two girls! Lol
Can you maybe elaborate why? Is it primarily an insecurity thing?
It could be a small part of it... I explained it further in one of my questions if you don't mind reading it
I don’t think I could but more for my own personal reasons.
Is it insecurity? I am worried simply because I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions
I have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you?
Sure
I think it would be scary cause youve had a lot of sex and she dont want to be one of yhe bad ones
Is that what you are self-conscious about? Its crazy to hear a gorgeous woman like you is self conscious.
I am worried simply because I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions.
I actually have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you? I wouldn't rather disclose private information since I can't delete the information right her
Sure
IN My opinión it must be fun i would but only only for fun nothing serious
Honestly, I would care but that's just me... most women would say it's fine as long as he's free of STDs.
Yes massive issue, deal breaker straight away, I want a clean man
Wait, but what if I am clean? (For STD's we have some of the most strict STD testing standards. We are more healithy than the population as a whole, simply because of rules and regulations in place)
I actually have a date coming up this weekend, mind if I message you?
(There is private info, I would rather keep private)
I didn't mean clean in that way I meant pure I want a guy who isn't a whore
:(
Oh ouch, thanks for your opinion
Is there anyway that would make you more open? or change your mind to dating me?
Not me but that's just my opinion, some people don't mind :) it's like if you were to convince a super Christian girl it's just not gonna work some people have different morals but that's okay you're still an amazing person just gotta find the right gal :)
It would be an issue for me. I'd always be afraid I was lacking in the bedroom.
In my mind as long as he doesn't continue to do this as we are together it's not a problem. The number does not matter to me.
Yay! Thats awesome! I have been getting mixed reactions now that I am on the dating scene. The problem is I am still kinda in the industry though
I want to ask you specifics about my date Friday, but I don't want the info public since I can't delete the information, can I message you about her?
Yes sure but I caint speak for her.
Follow me and I can message you. Well I just want specifically your opinion.
Okay I just did
It would definitely be an issue for me because i dnt think i would be comfortable knowing my guy is out there having sex with a bunch of females on a daily basis. That's just not my type of guy.
What if I am out of the industry? (well kinda) its complicated (Mind if I message you?) I actually have a date coming up this weekend, would appreciate your advice. There is private info, I would rather keep private
As long as he has repented to the lord I do not mine
That’s his job, he’s getting paid. In my head that’s like asking if we would date someone who worked at McDonald’s. If he’s getting paid and it’s his job and he’s just not randomly sleeping around then yes, date him
Wow, thats great. I am worried simply because I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions.
I actually have a date soon, do you mind if I message you for tips (there is private info I would rather not reveal that I can delete)
Yes, let’s privately chat
follow me, and I can message you
Depends I guess on the guy but I dont worry about it much.
Thank you for inviting me to your question, and yes it is a big problem.
Wait why would it be a problem for you :(
Thats good to hear. I am worried simply because I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions.
I have a date coming up pretty soon, do you mind if I PM/message you? I wouldn't rather disclose private information that I can't delete
You can talk to me if you want.
@Nina12345 follow me
If I know he would rather be with me and we could have stable relationship then yes
Thats good to hear. I am worried simply because I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions.
I have a date coming up pretty soon, do you mind if I PM/message you? I wouldn't rather disclose private information that I can't delete
That's fine
I won’t have an issue with it, as long as they wanted a committed relationship.
Well I was actually worried. I have been rejected for disclosing my past, and now that I am entering the dating scene I am worried about the reactions. That is good to hear
I have a date coming up soon, do you mind if I message you? I wouldn't rather disclose private information since I can't delete the information right here
If you want to. sure
follow me, then I can Dm you
I wouldn't mind, just trying to prevent STDs or anything similar
Oh cool. Thats cool, very liberal of you. For STD's we have some of the most strict STD testing standards. We are more healithy than the population as a whole, simply because of rules and regulations in place
I actually have a date coming up this weekend, mind if I message you? (There is private info, I would rather keep private)
why would you want to message me?
Thanks for the invitation
Well if he has no STD and he stops his career I'd have no problems with it
tbh I can't tell. Even If I didn't mind it, I'd be scared he may develope feelings for someone else
i wouldn't go out with a guy who have sleep with 250 women and more.
No unless he continued to while we were dating...
What if I am out of the industry? (well kinda) its complicated I appreciate your opinion. Thank you for sharing it. I was initially worried about my sexual past, and how others would react in defense to it.
Mind if I message you? I actually have a date coming up this weekend, would appreciate your advice (There is private info, I would rather keep private)
The well kind of is the flashing light for me so while I appreciate your offer I'll have to decline
Okay, have a good day
You 2 mr cookie cutter
I don't mind dating him as long as he is honest with me
Ah okay, thats good to hear. Now that I am getting back into the dating scene, I don't want to get bad reactions.
I want to ask you specifics about my date Friday, but I don't want the info public since I can't delete the information, can I message you about her?
yeah I don't text here u have kik?
oh man, I haven't used my kik in like years haha.
but yeah add me, my username is MalibuCrazy
I uninstalled kik lol
Me too, but I just downloaded it again
ohk what's ur id
If it's in his past then I probably would date him. But if he's still doing this then no I wouldn't.
Ah okay, thats good to hear. Now that I am getting back into the dating scene, I don't want to get bad reactions.
I actually have a date soon, do you mind if I message you for tips
it wouldn't be a problem because you don't feel anything for them
Awesome! I am getting back into the dating scene, and so I was worried about wether my past would affect my ability to go on a few dates.
I actually have a date on Friday and am worried about how I would be received. Do you mind if if you can PM me? I have a date coming up, I would like your perspective and some tips? (I would rather not reveal personal info)
i just started what dose pm me mean
oh, it means message you. Since I want some help on my date with Alissa Friday. You have to follow me first
ok :) :)
Cool. Follow me, and I will message you
it is done
No, you actually have to follow me. I am just following you right now.
Follow me, and I can message you
Not for me. Aslong as he doesn’t have any STI’s then that’s not a problem at all. What happened in the past, stays in the past.