Your girlfriend is a "planner". You're the opposite. How would this make you feel?

[countygirl]

Is it good or bad?

I don't mean a controlling planner. If she is flexible to go with the flow as things come up or situations change.

We both have jobs tat make it hard for us to plan trips, but we keep wanting to go to a nearby city for the day. I would like to try to make plans to do this next month ( I need to ask for time of ahead of time), but he usually likes to wait 'til the last moment as "See where he is".

If you are not a "Planner", do you find planners annoying or do you like it?

[WeaponZero]

im not really a planner. I find that trying to keep to plans, setting a schedule and trying to stick to it, is very stressful. its easier to remain calm and laid back when you just go with the flow.

[countygirl]

Would you feel stressed if your planner girlfriend tried to keep the planning to a minimum, but asked to plan a trip that she neded to take time off work for and so had to ask her boss ahead of time?

this is a trip you both want to take and planning is the only way she can go because of work.

thanks

[WeaponZero]

If taking time off work is involved then of course it has to be planned. But not to the degree of planning every stop along the way, every sight you see, etc.

[countygirl]

Once we get a day set and what time we leave, I'm happy with whatever we do. I don't plan that stuff juust need to know ahead of time on the day.

thanks!