Attracted to abs only?

[Jessehill96]

Is it shallow to turn down guys because I'm not physically attracted to guys without abs? Mutual objectification?

[cleankix8]

Not at all i completely understand you like what you like. That’s like saying I’m shallow because I only like girls who are in decent shape or better. We all have different taste it’s what makes us human

[DamienOutwater]

If you yourself are fit it's okay but if not it's hypocritical

[memyselfandiamhere]

So its only okay to have preferences when you fulfill them too?

[DamienOutwater]

Not necessarily but it's fucked up like I'm not ripped so I don't expect somone else to be like 3% body fat and the human image of lust

[memyselfandiamhere]

Not exactly fucked Up to have a preferences and wanting to go for it.

[Jessehill96]

That's fair I guess. I'm not ripped either but girls and guys have different views of being fit.

[memyselfandiamhere]

I mean, you have a preferences, so If you are able to find Guys with that preferences, who also Like you Back.. then there is No Problem.
"demand and supply"

[MsLoli]

Of course it is, but you're attracted to what you're attracted to. It'll likely change once you're a desperate middle-aged cat lady, but we'll see.

[Leimarie]

Yea that’s pretty shallow, but at your age people are not really looking for deeper, more meaningful relationships anyways.

[Anonymous]

Well, I like girls with abs ;)

[Knkutz]

It's not shallow as long as you're also willing to put in the work. It's also incredibly difficult to get abs and maintain them, so don't expect a large dating pool.

[Nik1hil]

You have right to turn fatties down.. if you have a body like that,
i would gladly do a million crunches in a month to go out with you

[Raymond_Reddington]

That profile pic of yours, There’s naked pics of her online. Either that’s you, which would be hot, or that’s not you. Which makes me wonder why you have a pic of a girl of which there also are naked pics as your profile pic.

[Anonymous]

Abs? screw abs, it's all about the bulking. Building some good muscle mass usually means less defined abs. If you turn down guys because of that, it's up to you. Your loss, they won't be losing any sleep over it.

[Bad_Man55]

I mean I guess it can be seen as shallow but you have your wants and preferences there is nothing wrong with knowing what you want

[PaganGod]

I have abs so thank you for appreciating our efforts.

[memyselfandiamhere]

Yes it is shallow but also, as Long as you find happiness with it, its fine

[Jaybournexx]

No. You know what you want and if it’s a fetish, then why settle for less? Hmu if you wanna touch mine

[watisgoingon]

nothing wrong with that unless you're fat and gross. you gotta offer something good so you can get something good

[jrallen175]

Everyone has preferences. As long as you're not rude or whatever to guys without a 6 pack, you're good.

[chrisbigman]

Being attracted to abs only is like guys being attracted to the breasts only or their butts.

[DiegoO]

Is not shallow. Everyone feels physical attraction. Who say no is hipocrite.

[Gedaria]

You go after what takes your fancy. But you are restricting your of some good lads !!!

[byusuri]

Shallow? Yeah. But, hopefully there's more to it than that for you.

[MrShield]

Its a turn on, and good physical body seems important to you too. So I Dont think so. Just wish mine was bigger. Should get that going

[Akumu]

It's your preference and standards as to what you consider attractive. Who are we to judge.

[MlleCake]

How would you feel if the tables were reversed?

[NerdInDenial]

You like what you like; so, no.

[NewLife_]

Luckily i have abs, you would like me then? :))

[Loveherbut]

Well ur whole generation is shallow so u r good

[hotstuffSRD]

Thank God I have 'em 😂

[patdisprettyneat]

Kind of, lol.

[cupidkisses]

It's okay

[Anonymous]

No you are fine tho, that’s normal to me

[Flow_like_the_wind]

You do you.