If a guy stares & doesn't look away (staring only at eyes) does he want you to talk to him? Is he trying to intimidate me?

[belle_kai]

What if he doesn' say anything when I say hi or smile? I don't know if this guy is staring at me to intimidate me. He doesn't smile but neither do i. When he's with his collegues showing them something it's like he stops to look at me and he doesn't look mad but just stares. He has really blue piercing beautiul eyes and I feel intimidated the way he stares sometimes like I am his prey. We see each other all the he works on the street next to me.

Can guys stare at a girl to intimidate? He only ever stares at my eyes. When I'm walkng down the road it' narrow and when he' with his collegues he always makes sure they all move out of the way and he has a lot of manners when he seems me walking and he' driving a car out of the garage he will make sure he' not in my way

[clynn]

Yes guys make eye contact with girls to intimidate them but make sure to notice his facial expressions look for clues like smile, or bites his lips etc they could help you

[belle_kai]

Why? Why do they do that. He doesn't smile or bite his lip he just looks intently not scary he has really beautiful eyes the kind where he's looking right through your soul (and he's only ever looking straight into my eyes) I haven't caught him looking at my body

[clynn]

You should keep looking for more clues like eyebrows, eye lids is it wide open or semi closed. But if his face is stone cold then you should try some expressions to make an interaction try smiling or if you're into him then bite you lips or look down on something and make eye contact once in a while and observe his actions

[belle_kai]

It just looks like he's drawn to me like he can't keep his eyes off me. My collegue was trying to get his attention by standing tall and the guy finally noticed him but it took a good few seconds then he averted his gaze to my collegue for 2 seconds then looked away. Does that sound like it was intimidation or he was. just fixated on me

[clynn]

Tbh it could be anything I would suggest you to make a move just make a reply face expression or just go talk to him but make sure your colleagues are near just for your safety.

[belle_kai]

So why doesn't he say hi or smile. I don't but it's him that's the one that's staring at me. He won't take his eyes off me but I don't know if it's a predator and prey thing he may see a weakness in me and that's why he's staring

[clynn]

This reply could keep going so if you want suggestions ask me personally. Thank you.

[Raveagite]

... Are you... for real? I can't seriously answer this... go figure it out for yourself I hope no one gives you a straight answer

[belle_kai]

What do you mean? Read my comments to other users comments that will tell you a little more. No need to be rude.

[Raveagite]

Nope, nope I refuse to humor you. You are clearly waxing romantic, next you will be writing a novel without sparkling vampires and of course he is just interested in you no guy stares girls down like that

[belle_kai]

So why doesn't he say hi or smile. I don't but it's him that's the one that's staring at me. He won't take his eyes off me but I don't know if it's a predator and prey thing he may see a weakness in me and that's why he's staring

[Raveagite]

What is he in your mind a bloody werewolf? -__-

Fine fine, I'm tall, I'm intimidating, athletic and I tend to glare at people, I even happen to have blue eyes and I scare girls on a regular basis to my shame and annoyance.

So for the sake of all my kind I will inform you that we have no interest in "preying" on you beyond the normal male and female dynamic

So I'm well versed in if he's starting at you repeatedly it's because he likes you. It's always your eyes because he's got some self control and not idiot enough to let you catch him looking else where and he's not doing anything else because he's fricken scared probably or talked himself out of it

Unless you killed his dog or stole from him he's got no other realistic motive. If you are this unnerved and facinated by him is it really so hard to believe he's going through a similar problem? You haven't been striking up conversations with him either now have you?

[Mads033c]

I thinks he likes you but is afraid to confront you. But try to say hi to him and start a conversation. It might be the beginning of something great

[belle_kai]

What if he is trying to intimidate me? What are the reasons for that

[Mads033c]

I have absolutely no idea. But there is only one way to find out.

[belle_kai]

And how awkward if he ignores me. He knows my boss and I was walking past the garage with my boss and my boss said hi to him (he was staring) he didn't say anything back. When I was walking with my male collegue this guy was staring at me (my collegue was not In his line of Vision yet but I was talking to my collegue I saw him staring and I looked at my collegue then looked back at the guy and he was still staring I noticed when my male collegue finally saw him my collegue did an alpha stance while walking shaking his arms standing up really tall and straight and he finally looked at my collegue then spoke to his own collegues about cars (he's a mechanic they were working on a car)

[belle_kai]

My male collegue said hi to him by the way after doing the alpha stance and that's when the mechanic noticed him and looked but he didn't say hi back he sorta smirked and looked down at the car where his collegues were

[Mads033c]

Yes it would be awkward. But what if he doesn't ignore you? There must be a reason he stares at you. You could just say hi next time you walk past him and if he says hi back then you can start a conversation next time you see him

[belle_kai]

Do you think he likes me based on the events. Maybe he will say hi to me as it was males I was with that have said hi.

[Mads033c]

You know I just think he is shy. I have done more or less the same thing hoping the girl one day would say hi to me

[belle_kai]

He's definitley not shy

[Mads033c]

Could be shy over for you because he likes you

[belle_kai]

I think because I haven't smiled at him maybe

[belle_kai]

So he's not sure what to do

[Mads033c]

Might be. But try to smile and say hi

[ClauClau]

Talk to him. Ask him about it. Take away his power ;)

[dedbirb]

He's challenging you to a staring competition.

[belle_kai]

But why? I've looked away continued talking to my collegue or looked at something else and look back and he's still staring, intently

[dedbirb]

He wants to challenge you but you keep turning him down.

[belle_kai]

Lol and why is he doing this? Why does he want a challenge?

[dedbirb]

He wants to win.

[belle_kai]

So he doesn't like me? I've glanced looked away and continued what I was doing and he was still staring he clearly won.

[dedbirb]

You need to respond to his challenge. Stare him down for real next time.

[belle_kai]

I have before and he will continue to stare and it's so intense I have to look away

[dedbirb]

Don't look away.

[belle_kai]

Then it makes us both look like psychopaths

[dedbirb]

Doesn't matter what others think, what matters is who wins the competition.

[belle_kai]

Lmao

[HornetsFanAllDay]

red flags, or not red flags, who knows.

[belle_kai]

So why doesn't he say hi or smile. I don't but it's him that's the one that's staring at me. He won't take his eyes off me but I don't know if it's a predator and prey thing he may see a weakness in me and that's why he's staring

[HornetsFanAllDay]

yeah i dont stare, but if i do id at least smile or say hi.

[belle_kai]

I don't smile or say hi maybe he thinks he will be rejected

[HornetsFanAllDay]

id smile, and say hi, to seem nice

[HornetsFanAllDay]

but he sounds creepy

[Nice222]

Yeah he probably likes you but is too shy to talk.

[belle_kai]

He's not shy one bit

[Nice222]

Oh ok

[belle_kai]

When I'm talking to people I really feel what I'm saying through my eyes etc and I talk with my eyes at some points he might have thought I was talking to him even though I was talking to my collegue

[guyuser2]

Maybe he is fascinated by you.