How often do women feel instant sexual attraction towards strangers?

[Anonymous]

[AbdKilani]

Interesting question
I think it depends on the ethnicity too, like when a women see some strange looking guy that she is not used to see , she might feel attracted to.
Like for Arabs, when an Arabic guy sees a blonde girl , he she would stand out to him more than others , which might make him feel more attracted to since he notices her more than others.

[BarneySimpson]

As often as they feel it. I can feel sexual attraction for 0-1-2-3-...-100 woman a day... but that is not the point. How about feelings?

[grad2x]

Hardly ever. But when I do its during the strangest time. Like a hot bearded rugged guy at the grocery store. Or a nicely dressed guy at the bank. I'm never instantly attracted if he's shirtless and working out or say at a club. Its always weird places lol

[ChronicThinker]

For me, it's possible, but it's rare. I don't tend to look at people that way when in public, unless I happen to see someone very fit and attractive to me.

[Proz11]

And you see, my other comment is making sense right... female sexual attraction to men is zerosome

[ChronicThinker]

@Proz11 I just said I feel sexual attraction when I see someone I'm attracted to lol. It's just not every guy in public. I have a type.

[Proz11]

"Zerosome" is an economic theory that adresses gain and loss, I used it as an allegory. You said it's rare... well it is extremely common for men to find female strangers sexually attractive.

[ChronicThinker]

@Proz11 Well that's primarily because most average men you see dress down, don't share their figures, and at least in my area: most of them are older, average men. I could just be picky, my experience i. e. anecdotal evidence doesn't apply to all women.

[Proz11]

It is because 1% of men can knock up all women, if women where as attracted to the male body, men would all wear tight shirts and short pants.

[ChronicThinker]

@Proz11 Is that an actual stat or did you make that up?

[ChronicThinker]

Also, I don't know about you, but I love a guy in a fitted shirt and shorts lol.

[Proz11]

It is simple reproduction fitness dynamics, a guy can knock up multiple women in a day while a women can only get pregnant once in 9 months, so most men are not needed. Yeah and a guy with an average body in a fitted shirt and shorts would not make you feel instant sexual attraction, a girl with an average body in tight clothing will make most men feel instant sexual attraction.

[ChronicThinker]

@Proz11 So? My point is I'm still sexually attracted to men. I get horny seeing men I'm attracted to. Do I have to feel sexually attracted to all men in order to be attracted to men? Because... that doesn't make sense.

[Proz11]

I know that, and my point is... to men in general, women aren't nearly as sexually attracted compared male attraction to women... and this makes dating far easier for women.

[Proz11]

*compared to male

[ChronicThinker]

@Proz11 ... Okay, I'm not getting what the point of you telling me all of this is. Does it like, comfort you or something?

[Proz11]

It just annoys me when women complain about how men are "too attracted" to them, like you did in that question about night clubs. This is a "problem" men would love to have.

[ChronicThinker]

@Proz11 Too attracted? That's weird. I don't mind men being attracted to me, sure, but to the point of being sexually harassed or touched... eh, it's not flattering or enjoyable. I don't think most men would want a girl he didn't like grabbing his junk.

[Proz11]

That is why the phrase is in inverted commas. Did you literally mean guys rubbing their erect penis on you? Dancing at nightclubs can be sexual in nature, I have had random girls rub their ass against me at nightclubs, it seems like it is normal to most people.

[ChronicThinker]

@Proz11 I just go to dance normally, and yes, I very literally mean men trying to rub their dicks on me. I've had men try to grope me at bars too. It isn't pleasant, or flattering.

[Engageme]

I don't think I have ever felt actual sexual arousal from looking at anyone but I have seen men I find attractive. If say maybe a few times in the last 2 years? I think because I'm married I really don't notice men often and it takes a pretty hot guy to make me notice. When I was single I paid more attention so probably daily?

[9teen]

When I was single it happened to me once and it was a really big crush. I went from sane to insane but it's over now 🤖.

[Anon-ymous1]

But the point is, the guy was a crush-- not a stranger. Right?

[9teen]

I didn't know him so technically seen he was a stranger. I gotta know about him later.

[Anon-ymous1]

Oh okay. He's he only one?

[9teen]

I've never been single for too long apart from childhood so you can say so yeah. When I'm taken I'm just not interested in anyone else.

[cherryphi82]

And you post a picture of a girl... interesting. Not that often. I wish it happened more though.

[Malita55]

I’m not attracted to anyone but my boyfriend but before then maybe once a month lol

[savage7]

Wow that's a lot of time, I do it every day 😬 I must be sick

[deliriousmistakess]

DEMISEXUAL?

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/pFLBPDbAvUQ

[StickStickity13]

Only if they're essentially models. Women aren't sexually attracted to average men

[Anon-ymous1]

To be fair, I and about half of all guys probably aren't attracted to average girls. Most girls aren't attractive. What's the difference?

[Darknut123]

Unless you're wearing nice clothes or driving a nice car, or a have a MCmansion, you can forget it apparently

[Darknut123]

And even with this, and being genuine women find you repulsive just because you feel shy and can't readily express yourself, then when you do, they pass over who they cough should be with over someone who doesn't care at all

[JubJub_Hi]

Almost never. I need to know a guy's personality to feel that way.

[Mamamialetmego]

What do you look for in personality? Confidence?

[Proz11]

Like 10 times a day. For women it's rare, women normally aren't sexually attracted to the male aesthetic in and of itself.

[Proz11]

Didn't read the question, thought you where asking each person. Rare for women, common for men.

[billicity]

Depends on the women. High libido women, frequently. Lower libido, probably more rare.

[iyugbmk]

I would say pictures yes but I never gotten sexual attraction towards somone just randomly in person

[Anonymous]

I don't know I’m not a women, interesting question tho

[psychoticallyawkward]

I've never felt sexual attraction.

[sbnalenon]

Vary from girls to girls?

[FakeName123]

More often than they'd like to admit.

[Anon-ymous1]

Oh dude... LESS often than they'd like to admit.

[FatherJack]

Almost never in reality.

[kharos]

I'm an ugly pickle. =)

[Christopherthrob]

All the time that is why dayz hoes ya feel me doe

[jessture]

Depends how rich those strangers are

[MindTime]

Probably depends on the guys around them