The concept of "she/he is out of your league", does it exist in the real world? (Page 4)

GuyWannaHelp · 2018-08-15T20:32:09Z

I am talking about the idea that a girl or guy can be so pretty/handsome, smart and fun that they are simply out of someone's league. In other words, you wouldn't have (much of) a chance to date them even if you tried. I started wondering this when Tinder make me play the "Super like game". They selected 4 girls, and I could superlike one of them. One of those girls had great pictures, she looked amazing. But instead of wanting to superlike her, I felt as though she was out of my league. "She probably gets 10 matches a day, why would she care about just another super like?" I thought. I now realize that's a rather silly way to think, since I'm assuming a lot of things about her based on only her pictures. I wondered if other people have had similar experiences, where they felt as though someone was out of their league.

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TacosRAwesome Follow
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Yes but to me it is more about lifestyle compatibility than looks.

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- Laetitia94
  
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  that is not the same, very different actually. The ou of your league thing really is about someone is too good for you. You are not enough for them.
  
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- TacosRAwesome
  
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  @Laetitia94 you don't know that they're too good for you.
  
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- Laetitia94
  
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  It is what you think, not that it is the truth.
  
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bcc99 Follow
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Just read a study that analyzed online dating messages. It rated people based on how many DMs you got and found that people tend to message people 25% more popular than them. Keep striving champ

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Prof_Don Follow
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I voted B. The idea of “leagues” is slightly overblown.

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MAVERICK-AB Follow
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Mentally two people can be in two different places

Physically there is always one more attractive than the other (the more attractive person needs you want the other for a different and better reason)

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Frankenstein99 Follow
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No but i'll add an asterisk to it. If there weren't "leagues" in our society there wouldn't be male and female models. However beauty is subjective on an individual basis.

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AuroraRoseat Follow
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I do. I think it's realistic. If you're not getting those individuals, then I think it's clear that they are not within your realm of attractiveness.

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RonJon20 Follow
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I'm in a league of my own... lol. By that I mean, I'm no better than anyone and I don't consider anyone to be better than me.

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Memphischicago83 Follow
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Yep, people dont want to admit butit's true , trust me, I'm an ugly, lame and unattractive guy that has no hope

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poolistu Follow
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Sure it exists, if one is dumb enough to overlook on you, than that someone is out of your league.

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ChgzDaniel Follow
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You should only be in a relationship with someone you love. And love is love, it has no boundaries

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- john1242
  
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  I agree💗
  
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- john1242
  
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  You have sc?
  
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- ChgzDaniel
  
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  Whats sc?
  
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JimRSmith Follow
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It's a state of mind, not a reality, although people bring it to life by believing it.

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jimyee Follow
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Of course it does, but just because someone is put of someone elses league doesn't mean that those two can't or won't be together.

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Sure, it's a social fact.
Trump's daughter is out of your league. So is Steve Job's daughter and Bill Gate's daughter and many more.

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- GuyWannaHelp
  
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  What about on a smaller scale? Could a colleague or classmade be out of your league?
  
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- jacquesvol
  
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  I had a boss who was an heir to one of the richest families of the country. His sister was certainly out of my league (his daughter was too young to even consider)
  
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Jonny317 Follow
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Yes, for example, Amal Clooney is out of George Clooney's league, in looks, brains, success and positive impact on the world. My wife is way out of my league but i have balls so i made it work.

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- Jonny317
  
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  Blocked by "eternallylucky" after she told me I "sound incoherent."
  
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- GuyWannaHelp
  
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  I checked out the comment you were banned for, and I agree with you. It was a complex sentence, which is likely why eternallylucky didn't get it the first time she read it.
  
  Why she decided to block you is a mystery to me.
  
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- Jonny317
  
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  thank you. I'm not even sure what comment got me blocked. well, whatever
  
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TallJamaican1991 Follow
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If this "league" system is real, then I am out of everybody's league. I'm that free agent that no one wants to sign 😂

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weysally Follow
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at the beginning no, but some always think they are better than the one they are with,

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No, not if you’re doing everything possible to be the best version of yourself. People tend to take it in the wrong context sometimes and think that being lazy still applies with this, it doesn’t.

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Jaximus-Lion Follow
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No! Not at all. Those who limit and doubt them selves will say it's true.

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andreasderjuengere Follow
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''Out of my league'' to me is mostly a life style or basic way of life that does not match mine. I could neither live in a palace, nor in a mud-hut.

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slumplord Follow
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If you have enough confidence, you can go after anyone. Celebrities are the only people I think are difficult

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