Help me figure out what this girl is thinking! Why does it feel like her conversations skills start out good but progressively go to flat answers?

[Ausam]

I met this girl at college and we have a snap streak of 240, but I didn't realize how much I liked her until recently. With summer starting we're both home and she's about 30 mi away. She always answers snaps and responds to everything even just pictures of our faces since the beginning of the streak. We probably send each other about 3-6 snaps a day EACH depending on the day.

I've been trying to initiate conversations more but I've noticed she will always thoroughly answer the question but never add on to the conversation. And after about 5-6 snaps its obvious she wants the conversation to be over where she'll use dead end answers.

In the beginning she will have full intriguing answers where it feels like I'm talking to a great friend but as time goes on she starts getting dryer. To the point that if I ask a question she'd only respond with an answer to that question. Thats fine but when it's a basic reaction or flat answer for 3 snaps in a row it's clear she is done. Why are the conversations when I start interesting with both parties obviously contributing to the conversation but over time die out on her end. Conversations would die way faster if I wasn't so eager to keep them going. If I were to go off on an anecdote and not ask a question she would just have a basic reaction like "thats so cute" or "lmao thats hilarious".

What makes me still cling to hope is the fact that she usually replies to everything very quickly sometimes within a minute. And obviously takes photos that make her look very good or at least avoid her "bad sides". Like bathroom photos, cute facial expressions, full face shots, her in a towel, or sometimes if she's at the beach just straight up cleavage shot (female IRL friends have seen her snaps and think just w the photos it's obvious she likes me).

In essence, why does this girl seem interested in me but when time comes to actually talk it starts off good but feels like she's intentionally leading it to a stop?

[Anonymous]

Because you’re boring her. I have a guy friend who always asks so many questions, and it’s always the same questions as well. I might start out with full answers but quickly stop when he yet again spam me with questions, like he always does. It’s boring. Stop it. Just have a normal, fun conversation that doesn’t involve questions and long answers. Especially not if they’re meaningless questions that you’ve asked a million times before (like ”what are you doing?”, ”what are you going to do later?”, ”what else is going on?” and on and on forever)

[turd_of_warning]

^^This

[Ausam]

I can 100% see this, but do u know what I should do instead? Because as i said if i don’t literally ask something of her she will only respond w basic reaction like “haha that’s so funny” or “loll so cute”. Conversations would be over before they started. But she dances and i’ve only ever asked questions about that. never been about her day or whatever i’m not that stupid lmao

[turd_of_warning]

Was maybe a bit too quick to endorse this. The main problem here is that you're boring her to death by taking up her time and energy via texts. You need to meet up with her if you want anything to happen. Unless you're looking for a platonic pen pal. You can't expect a young woman (who, lest you forget, likely has LOADS of guys chasing her) to spend all day texting you. You have to get in there. Show her what you've got.

[Raybert]

Find someone closer to home and have face-to-face conversations and dates. If she's normal and interested in you, the convo will come naturally. Someone who';s not interested wll act that way and you should be cool with that and find someone else. Don't let some chick you barely know decide how to run your life.

[annoyingfemale23]

In my opinion, I think she just likes the attention you give her when you open her snaps. Sometimes I do the same thing. Snapchat is for playing with guys. If she wanted to chill with you she would... I would try and use “reverse psychology” on her and stop giving her the attention/replying so fast. This will make her miss you... goodluck!!

[Anonymous]

Could be for any reason but you’re not doing yourself any favours by not actually asking her to hang out. I can only speak for myself but if I was her I’d start to get bored too and wonder what the point is if he’s not moving it forward.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, why don’t you want to let her know you like her by asking to meet? That makes zero sense. You have to make a decision one way or the other, not sit on the fence, otherwise how can she?

[turd_of_warning]

Like others said, she's bored with texting. People may disagree, but texting is the worst form of communication ever invented. It makes it super easy to misinterpret each other, it is super slow and impractical, and it bugs you all the time with interruptions in your life. And it's all fucking text. As if people's voice doesn't matter.

You should probably go see this girl, or at the very least try to switch to voice calls.

[Logorithim]

If your friends say she likes you, she almost certainly does. Suggest meeting up wherever she lives.

[Paris13]

... To actually talk...
She seems Not Into this Totally... xxoo

[Paris13]

Welcome to Gag Town and Best of Luck. xx

[Anonymous]

Texting all day can be annoying and time wasting. I rather talk to person on the phone.

[slatyb]

Why don't you just go see her?

[Ausam]

Because she lives 30 miles away and if I were to go see her then it would be an obvious like hey I like you, because we never really hung out one on one at university.

[slatyb]

She's probably tired of texting and is waiting fit you to ask her out. Do you not have access to a car?

[Ausam]

I know all my questions can be solved by me just asking her out. And you're 100% right but just thought I'd see if anyone can give me a little bit of insight into what she's thinking.

[turd_of_warning]

Dude, she KNOWS you like her. She 200% knows this. She's not stupid. She's a woman. This scenario is not new to her. She doesn't expect young men to just magically be incredibly interested in her in a strictly platonic way.