Girl: Do you have social media (instagram)?
Me: No, i don't use social media
Girl: What? Why?
Me: Because I don't like social media
Girl: But why don't you like social media?
Me: ...
And this is where YOU, the READER can help me with this question. I usually say something like this.
Me: I don't like being spied on.
Girl: But you don't have to post anything and you can use fake data
Me: It's not as good as not being on social media in the first place
Girl probably thinks I am a freak, a nutcase or a conspiracy theorist or hiding from something. I see it the same as being excluded from your peers only because they started vaping and you won't start vaping.
Anyhoo. I am thinking if I should respond with something different like.
Me: Do you like wrenches? How about air pumps? Or device schematics?
Except it's not like I am actually liking wrenches, air pumps or device schematics. It's gotta be something, that the girl will find as boring as I find social media to be.
So girls, what's something so boring, that almost makes you want to cry out of boredom but men enjoy it? Is it video games? That's hardly gonna work. Plenty of girls play video games such as Dead by Daylight and so do I.
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Id just keep positive that you enjoy being in person and focusing in your goals. Bill gates doesn't use and id bet other smart people know bettrr
Then problem you face is trust… women seek social support else get skittish
Yeah, seems like they have it the wrong way like so.
Only thing I can think of is following sports. Although a lot of women will watch sports, most don’t really follow it like guys do. I, personally, find all sports boring to watch.
Right. There might be a chance the girl goes to the gym regularly.
@Cynicaldreamer
@Unit1 Someone summoned me?
Yeah I do go to they gym regularly- actually about to head there now after I poke around here a bit :)
Today is back and triceps
While I'm not big on watching sports (it bores me) I do enjoy going out and doing sports like activities, such as playing catch, football, hiking, swimming...
@Cynicaldreamer It's been a while but I remembered you. You know, associations with that. Anyway have fun doc and good working out!
I tell people that I don't use social media because I feel that it is inauthentic. I would rather have genuine interactions with someone.