Can you tell me why there are people who love to post personal problems on social media?

[kitty71]

And ask for help for those personal or private problems? Is there a excusasble reason for it? I mean I dont find any valid reason for it. Personal, friends orfamily problems or issues must remain privately not being publish on social media on blogs and worse to ask for help on them. Not everyone can give a good advice or recommendation, probably a few but not all people.

Posting them, does that help or rather it ruins things?

I know some may post their issues anonymously and that is why they post it, but even if it is anonymously iI dont think it is smart to do it, strangers do not need to know you are going through issues in your personal or private life, that is what the word means: PRIVATE OR PERSONAL.

There is a blog on Facebook that im a member of. It is a blog that it is called "A bit of everything". It is a closed forum and you have to ask to be registered so the administrators of the blog allow you to be a member. In this blog even if it is a close private group, you can post anything that you want from all ranges of sources. So poeple from taht blog post or ask for ideas, advices or recommendations regarding like where a person can eat the best cheesecake, or recommendations of a doctor in the area, or where they can find a certain dress or where to look for help to find a good carpenter or ideas to arrange a party, like I said anything you can ask and this is where people come also to this blog to post about thier most intimate personal issues or private and ask for help or where to find help so poeple can give the person idea where to look for help, so I had read posts about members asking for help because they are dealing with issues with their kids, their marriage, their partners, their relatives and they dont know what to do with.

Even problems related to intimate women body issues they ask or sex related issues too. Sometiems when I read those posts regarding such intimate or private issues is where I

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wonder Why they want to post problems about thei personal life. I mean can't they ask for help outside social media as noone or strangers has to know the issues that person is going trhough in their personal life? But before your post something the blog administrators, has to check if the post is admisible but in this blog the administrators do allow members to post the most ridiculous and nonsense personal situations. Here is just one of the examples of things post on this blog:
-Hello everyone!

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I would like your recommendations of a shrink who can help, My husband does not want more children (we already have one) and on the other hand I do, there is no way to agree and every time I feel that this will bring us more problems in the future. Thank you!"
I mean really this question? Well if the husband does not want more kids she has to respect that, Does this lady really needs a shrink to convince his hubby to have more kids?
Similar examples like this I have found on the blog

[VIVANT]

suee some do it for clicks but I think there’s good in it even if notices are not pure.

I think it can help other people who may have that problem and feel not so alone plus benefit from advice or discussing it. Private problems doesn’t mean the people in your private circle can offer good help. Of course if they are making themselves public I guess I find that a bit odd, however I still think it’s good to normalize stuff.

Imagining living at a time with no internet, where if you had a big problem and no one to talk to and didn’t even know if anyone had the experience you do, you’d and feel so alone and like a freak.

I used to not use computers even tho most people were online 24/7. After i ran away and later and got a phone, I was shocked at how many people were in abusive situations and completely stuck feeling holes sand powerless and terrible about their lack of ability to take up for themselves…

and if I’d had that kind of exposure & contact when I was a kid, it’d have made a HUGE world of difference to me. I think it is sooooo much worse to have genuine people isolated with no one to talk to than it is for us all to have to see some drama kings end queens unloading their dirty laundry for kicks & clicks. Lol

[Red_Arrow]

Whatever their reasons are, you enjoy reading them. You are critical of normal social media groups posting personal problems, yet you requested to be on a restricted blog that includes the most personal questions (and responses).

[kitty71]

If im in that blog is to ask things about randome things like recommendations of other stuff Ibut I had never ever use that blog to post htings about my personal or pirvate life i found that a bit pathetic

[jshm2]

No I cannot tell you why, as people do so for many reasons.

From getting a following, to looking for neutral/impartial advice. The reasons are vast and you should wind your neck in, and not gatekeep the issue.

[Alex8736]

Hence the reason I deleted my social media. I'd be called an A$$hole a lot of times because when they would post their issues my reply was "self induced" 🤪🤪😂❤️

[pizzalovershouse]

Cuz every one wants to know some one else is in same pain as them or s happy

[Anonymous]

Ma'am this type of very personal questions asked just go get attention...
I'm with you everytime I feel weird.

[Anonymous]

complaining about problems is easier than solving the problems.

[Jennz6]

I suppose it’s like therapy?

[Guardian45]

You're right.