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As soon as someone invades my private sphere, that would be too much.Being tactile and touching you without having been invited to do so or behaving in such a way that it makes me uncomfortable like making obvious sentences with double meanings. If I feel that this person is more interested in the physical appearance than the mental compatibility, then I know that it is time to stop the exercise and withdraw. I cannot stand people that become obnoxious and think that everyone wants to be physical on a date and that tailor their approach in that sense.
I don't like old men and married men flirting with me. And when I don't respond to someone's flirtatious behavior and they don't stop, I get very frustrated.
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Typo is correct but I think @bannacookies got copied in the message. Thanks again!
I like to keep most of my personal space, unless I know you. Light quick touches on my hand or arm don't bother me, but people that come right up into your business from the start are too much for me and make me very uncomfortable. I like light plays on words and facial expressions being flirty, though sometimes it's hard to tell flirting apart from emotive personalities. I guess I just like subtlety, with the occasional really obvious or forward moment, then back to subtlety.This is usually how I flirt as well, though I try to read the person and adapt.
Petting actually touching another is kinda over the line.. Specially for a man to do so to a woman.. U never know ones boundary on what will make them uncomfortable... Words can hirt also.. Its a delicate an various situation with millions of answers
I haven't been flirted with much, but here are two things I've found I dislike:I don't like being groped in public while her friends watch.If things start going too fast (going for sex without us getting to know each other first) the whole experience feels hollow, and I lose interest in it.If I'm flirting with someone, I don't know their limits unless they are willing to let me know. I try to seem safe so they can refuse something without feeling scared, but can't tell if they're comfortable around me or faking it sometimes. I act really cautiously and whenever I say/do something I ask myself "how could someone who's very sensitive feel about this? Is there an easy non-verbal way to refuse my advance?" An example is, while we're talking, I may lean in a bit closer to her. If she leans away, I can assume she's not feeling it, and stop leaning in.
Had a coworker sit across from me, smile, take a banana out of her lunchbag and proceed to eat it very erotically (quite literally deep-throated it) well kicking me lightly under the table.It was not as glorious as it seems like it could have been. The look on her face when I stood up and sat at another table was priceless.
When one of you is no longer having fun and the other is still forcing. Flirting can lead to all the bases and some kinky stuff but throughout, it has to mutual with a safeword. Otherwise your on a slippery slope to sexual assault. And yes lads, women can sexually assault men! I mean, I have a reverse rape fetish so I can't speak for all men!
I'm pretty dumb when it comes to women flirting with me. Almost everything goes over my head. Show me skin and I know I'm in. I consider everything to be flirting all the way up to for play, or dating, and nothing is too far for me when it comes to flirting.
When they start getting all creepy like putting a knife to my throat yandere style or trying to drug me. Other than that I'm a pretty open book. I'm usually an open minded guy and since I'm usually starved for attention (like a lot of guys, seriously us being shown basic affection fron anyone other than our parents is nearly nonexistant unless we have a significant other) even a simple compliment will get me interested in you.
If she's drunk and desperate with her boobs hanging out clearly just looking for some rebound dick it's a big turnoff. Other than that some girls have no social awareness and will try to steal you when another girl is hitting on you. Like geez wait your turn woman! 🤣
True.Also if you do have sex with her and she is drunk that could become a serious legal issue for you.
.. if he's sticking his hands into my knickers.. & doing a (bad) attempt to finger me, without my consent first!!! Especially in public! 😠
So a hand in the panties is too far, but not a hand in the bra?
that was a half joke, half asking for clarification. You said that your limit is a man sticking his hands in your knickers without asking, but didn't say anything about a hand in your bra.
I never asked you. Now fuck off
I didn't mean to offend you, I was just confused by your vague answer. I'm still trying to decide whether you're a catfish or not, and I figured that seeing how you responded to this request for clarity would be good evidence ("actually no I'd be just as uncomfortable with that" = likely real, "yes I'd be fine with that" = likely catfish).
Or you seem weird, so why should i give you any personal information?
You don't have to. I'm very sorry I made you uncomfortable.
That is wild and way too far. That must only happen on dance floors of hookup bars. Or possibly inside frat houses.
too far in flirting is when you sort of promise to go a distance and just stops for no reason, example, if you show that you want to be kissed but then turn your head away
That photo is not flirting, it is touching, a. k. a. it shows her propositioning the man for sex. The gesture cannot be interpreted honestly as anything else. There is a difference between flirting to see if someone is interested to get to know you better and what the woman in the photo is doing (foreplay).
JMuhammed" I know girls who have put their foot against a guys legs, getting his attention, but did not have the intention of having sex.
It depends on what you are after. If you want to have fun and flirt with someone, then keeping it less physical is likely best. If you are in the mood to get down, then the sky is the limit. At least for me teasing and flirting are a prelude to what is to come, too much would be anything that could easily be misconstrued.
Im very consiounsous about sex i over think everything and that includes love i think for real that god intended for us to be with a certain person and when u meet that person u become aware that sex is special so i flirt with women who i feel atracted to touch laugh even give sexual insinuations a kiss ahug but then im like leave it there and yeah kinda boring but i feel its right it feels right
Very Christian of you mate.
Women have no limit, and sexual aggression is not looked at negatively when women do it.In regards to men, most of the metoo nonsense was "unwanted advancements" which was mostly stupid shit like showing basic interest, asking a female for dinner, telling a female she was attractive, etc.So men technically can't flirt unless he knows the female already likes him or else his life will be destroyed.
If it's not my boyfriend. I'd say, touching all over the person, saying sexual stuff, or anything super intimate.
I'm going to say it goes too far when you begin to hurt people emotionally by flirting with other people in front of someone after already leading someone on.
I don't thinks there's such a thing as too far, just too far too fast. Given enough time any kind of flirting can be acceptable.
That goes beyond flirting. It's an invitation to get physical to some degree.
It can only go too far if either party is in a serious relationship. But even if they are in a serious relationship maybe they should rethink going down the slippery slope of flirty vally.
I'll get back to you after she finishes kissing my neck. 😎
last night while i was riding a train a crazy woman who was sitting next to me put her head on my shoulder. i don't think she was flirting and was plain insane but it was uncomfortable
Whew that's highly uncomfortable
@SEntertainment isn't it though?
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I immediately feel sick if someone flirts with me. I hate that I react like that and I really don't want to, but I can't help it.
Try dramamine if you find yourself feeling that way on a date... or a half gallon of whiskey... warning the latter has been known ta make yer clothes fall off.
Flirting is ok when it comes to liking each other. It is not ok when you are in a relationship and flirt with someone else. Even if you are naturally flirty you should curtail it.
I don't know but I'm not a touchy type of person if it's with people I'm not close with so unexpected touching like that may make me jumpy or on my guards.
No this is where the sexes come in , a guys going too far and a woman going too are totally different. For me I love it when she starts with the touchy feely stuff , but I tend to tease , joking.
I really like just making jokes, talking and kicking back to relax a while, that would be my ideal way, but if I have a limit then I haven't found it yet.
Any touching farther than a hug not a fan of perverted things.
inviting yourself in my personal space with out any really any cues that it's okay to, or if a girl is too touchy & I'm not into her
When I am in front of family, otherwise im fine with most things
As a man you have to be careful. No physical contact, but on the receiving end of flirting I've yet to have anyone cross the line so I dont know where that lies.
I don’t know mainly because I don’t know how to flirt, or I just don’t know when I’m flirting.
If my girlfriend wants to flirt with me I would say no limits she can do whatever she wants.. grab me public place and tongue kiss or anything she likes 😁
y'all are cute af by the way 😍
Awww 🥰 yeah cute my sweetheart ❤️ love you ♥️
Love you too❤
When you're in a relationship alreadyWhy in the world, do you need to be flirting, with another person?
My limit flirting are three:respect, time and money.And believe I don't need more... They are enough limitant by now.At least I'm not that those who are afraid to be flirted, or to flirt... They have it worse.
Accept all flirting usually because I'm so oblivious to those types of things
You will notice if it was to far for the moment. doesn't mean you shouldn't do it again later on.
If the person doing it is comfortable, I wouldn't stop her
A man shouldn't whip out his dick to give a woman a "sample". That's too far in flirting.
Don't touch me on places you're not invited to touch.Don't flirt if one of us has a partner, I don't like it, and I don't tolerate it.
I sometimes ask myself if the flirting has gone too far when I'm holding the recipients ankles and plowing her vigorously.
When it becomes over-saturated with desperation, rudeness, & lack of respect
I'd draw the line at getting pregnant. ;-)
No limit, just time the extreme flirting so it is still semi private at least.
I’m ok with almost anything
Personally I love it when girls laugh at my jokes
Footsies are pretty hot and flirtatious
I wouldn't know if someone was flirting
I'd say that rape is crossing the line.
Borderline sexual harassment.
I don't flirt, I ask.
At the point where You know when it's gone to far
I like it. I find it fun and exciting
No touching or explicit pics.
When it gets personal
Making out lol
There is no too far
To cross country
There’s no limits
Nope no limits. Flirt away ☺️
I like everything
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