As soon as someone invades my private sphere, that would be too much.
Being tactile and touching you without having been invited to do so or behaving in such a way that it makes me uncomfortable like making obvious sentences with double meanings.
If I feel that this person is more interested in the physical appearance than the mental compatibility, then I know that it is time to stop the exercise and withdraw.
I cannot stand people that become obnoxious and think that everyone wants to be physical on a date and that tailor their approach in that sense.
I don't like old men and married men flirting with me. And when I don't respond to someone's flirtatious behavior and they don't stop, I get very frustrated.
I like to keep most of my personal space, unless I know you. Light quick touches on my hand or arm don't bother me, but people that come right up into your business from the start are too much for me and make me very uncomfortable. I like light plays on words and facial expressions being flirty, though sometimes it's hard to tell flirting apart from emotive personalities. I guess I just like subtlety, with the occasional really obvious or forward moment, then back to subtlety. This is usually how I flirt as well, though I try to read the person and adapt.
Petting actually touching another is kinda over the line.. Specially for a man to do so to a woman.. U never know ones boundary on what will make them uncomfortable... Words can hirt also.. Its a delicate an various situation with millions of answers
I haven't been flirted with much, but here are two things I've found I dislike:
I don't like being groped in public while her friends watch.
If things start going too fast (going for sex without us getting to know each other first) the whole experience feels hollow, and I lose interest in it.
If I'm flirting with someone, I don't know their limits unless they are willing to let me know. I try to seem safe so they can refuse something without feeling scared, but can't tell if they're comfortable around me or faking it sometimes. I act really cautiously and whenever I say/do something I ask myself "how could someone who's very sensitive feel about this? Is there an easy non-verbal way to refuse my advance?" An example is, while we're talking, I may lean in a bit closer to her. If she leans away, I can assume she's not feeling it, and stop leaning in.
When they start getting all creepy like putting a knife to my throat yandere style or trying to drug me. Other than that I'm a pretty open book. I'm usually an open minded guy and since I'm usually starved for attention (like a lot of guys, seriously us being shown basic affection fron anyone other than our parents is nearly nonexistant unless we have a significant other) even a simple compliment will get me interested in you.
Had a coworker sit across from me, smile, take a banana out of her lunchbag and proceed to eat it very erotically (quite literally deep-throated it) well kicking me lightly under the table.
It was not as glorious as it seems like it could have been. The look on her face when I stood up and sat at another table was priceless.
that was a half joke, half asking for clarification. You said that your limit is a man sticking his hands in your knickers without asking, but didn't say anything about a hand in your bra.
I didn't mean to offend you, I was just confused by your vague answer. I'm still trying to decide whether you're a catfish or not, and I figured that seeing how you responded to this request for clarity would be good evidence ("actually no I'd be just as uncomfortable with that" = likely real, "yes I'd be fine with that" = likely catfish).
Im very consiounsous about sex i over think everything and that includes love i think for real that god intended for us to be with a certain person and when u meet that person u become aware that sex is special so i flirt with women who i feel atracted to touch laugh even give sexual insinuations a kiss ahug but then im like leave it there and yeah kinda boring but i feel its right it feels right
That photo is not flirting, it is touching, a. k. a. it shows her propositioning the man for sex. The gesture cannot be interpreted honestly as anything else. There is a difference between flirting to see if someone is interested to get to know you better and what the woman in the photo is doing (foreplay).
It depends on what you are after. If you want to have fun and flirt with someone, then keeping it less physical is likely best. If you are in the mood to get down, then the sky is the limit. At least for me teasing and flirting are a prelude to what is to come, too much would be anything that could easily be misconstrued.
When one of you is no longer having fun and the other is still forcing. Flirting can lead to all the bases and some kinky stuff but throughout, it has to mutual with a safeword. Otherwise your on a slippery slope to sexual assault. And yes lads, women can sexually assault men! I mean, I have a reverse rape fetish so I can't speak for all men!
I'm pretty dumb when it comes to women flirting with me. Almost everything goes over my head. Show me skin and I know I'm in. I consider everything to be flirting all the way up to for play, or dating, and nothing is too far for me when it comes to flirting.
Women have no limit, and sexual aggression is not looked at negatively when women do it.
In regards to men, most of the metoo nonsense was "unwanted advancements" which was mostly stupid shit like showing basic interest, asking a female for dinner, telling a female she was attractive, etc. So men technically can't flirt unless he knows the female already likes him or else his life will be destroyed.
Flirting is ok when it comes to liking each other. It is not ok when you are in a relationship and flirt with someone else. Even if you are naturally flirty you should curtail it.
I'm going to say it goes too far when you begin to hurt people emotionally by flirting with other people in front of someone after already leading someone on.
It can only go too far if either party is in a serious relationship. But even if they are in a serious relationship maybe they should rethink going down the slippery slope of flirty vally.
last night while i was riding a train a crazy woman who was sitting next to me put her head on my shoulder. i don't think she was flirting and was plain insane but it was uncomfortable
I don't know but I'm not a touchy type of person if it's with people I'm not close with so unexpected touching like that may make me jumpy or on my guards.
No this is where the sexes come in , a guys going too far and a woman going too are totally different. For me I love it when she starts with the touchy feely stuff , but I tend to tease , joking.
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