Does a wedding ring stop you from flirting with someone?

[Ronald_25]

[DestinyElizabeth04]

Absolutely. A wedding ring or any sort of indication that he is seeing someone else. I will never be that woman and I will never be the reason that another woman lays in bed at night wondering why she wasn't enough. Women today fucking suck, if we are being honest. Like easily 80% of the women I know would jump in bed with my boyfriend if they had the chance simply because they care more about the competition than they do our friendship. And sadly enough, that is most women these days. So, yes, I have been that woman who sat in bed for many sleepless nights because multiple women did this to me with my ex. Granted, he obviously played a big role. But there should be some sort of unspoken law where you, as a woman, dont sleep with another womans man just because you can. Because honestly, how the fuck would you feel if it were done to you? My current boyfriend is stunning and to be honest I am absolutely terrified of this shit happening to me all over again, just the way it did with my ex. But 2 years have now passed and he is super loyal and I know he would never do that to me. So many women have tried though.

[SueShe]

If a wedding ring that you wear because you are married does not stop or prevent you from flirting, then you should never have been married in the first place. Marriage by definition states that you should be faithful to your spouse.

Now, the definition of flirting is

"a sexual behavior involving spoken or written communication, as well as body language, by one person to another, to suggest interest in a deeper relationship with the other person".

Therefore, flirting while being married is equivalent to cheating on your spouse since you are looking elsewhere to be sexual.

As simple as that. No but or if.

[MusicMayhem]

Nope. I don't look for a wedding ring before I approach because it's just another bs thought that could make me fear approaching. I obviously wouldn't approach someone if I knew they are married but some rings are fake, some rings aren't wedding rings but may look similar etc.

My point is don't assume someone is taken before you talk to them.

[Ronald_25]

Not sure I agree with all of that but here's my two pence on your response:
Just because someone is married, it doesn't me their happy. They could be miserable, and I could be the perfect guy for her, but we don't end up together because a ring came in the way.

Just a thought.

[MusicMayhem]

The fact you could be a good guy for someone is irrelevant if they are married though. Go after single women who are available. And don't assume a women isn't available until you go talk to her.

[Ronald_25]

Spoken like a person who has never heard the troubles and stresses of a married woman.

[OlderAndWiser]

A wedding ring on my finger stops me from flirting. Period.

If I am single and there is a wedding ring on her finger, then she is off limits and there is no point in flirting with someone who is not available.

[jennifer_bloom]

If a guy says he is not interested or is with somebody else - I will leave him alone.

[Ronald_25]

Unfortunately, most women don't behave like you. Fortunately I'm ending my decade as a bachelor with a bisexual wife in a semi-open marriage. So flirt away with me, as the Mrs is imagining doing unspeakable things to you...

[Apple1996]

Honestly no but that is cuz I'm never serious about flirting. I only flirt for fun, not looking for realtionships

[onomatophobia]

That can send the wrong message and turn in to something u didn't bargain for.. Good luck

[Apple1996]

@onomatophobia never had any problems before

[onomatophobia]

Lol.. Someone might have.. but that isn't how your mind wirks is it?

[Ronald_25]

This is my two pence on the matter:
Flirting is still foreplay, first base, the introduction. It's better thought of as sexual banter. Where you go from there is up to the couple of people involved. Or, like me and ApplePie, you can just have fun at flirting 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏽‍♂️

[onomatophobia]

Yes and yes... Its like intentionally drinking alcohol knowing every time you're drunk you will snort coke... snorting cocaine... Terrible to say but one is considered dirty, taboo even.. and the other is socially accepted... considered normal... But. As long as there's that link... Flirting should be , in my opinion something that you are responcible for... Not an excuse.. kinda like.." I was drunk i dont remember , its not my fault... sometimes being drunk u may hit a pedestrian and hurt/kill them... gods forbid... but flirting is intended to... In all truth isn't flirting about.. Getting and giving someone a mental erection without the worry of cumming or seing them in their mess afterwards? Well i think sometimes its messy and there's no going back

[Rundown]

Attention whoring, basically

[onomatophobia]

And we all heard of terrible stories about people who choose to or are forced to behave like whores figuratively or prostitutes literally.

[Ronald_25]

Wow, that turned dark fast. I am satisfied with my current Mrs so in my mind:
1. I flirt, have laughs
2. I stop flirting
3. I get back to the Mrs

[onomatophobia]

Off topic but i dont have enough cookie points to PM yet.. Did u by any chance draw/paint the images in your profile?

[Ronald_25]

No. It is from Deviant art. A rendition of Jade from MKX by Ed Boon released in February 2018:
www.deviantart.com/wishidraws/art/Jade-517122722

I am a graphic artist also, but I am not at that level yet.

[onomatophobia]

I was a graphic artist (preffessionally in the industry i mean) for half my life... Then quit.. Draw when i feel like it for my self sometimes ;)

[Ronald_25]

That's how it should be. The best artists experience the world, and express their feelings through an outlet. That could be graphic art, pottery, sculptures etc.

[AngelAimée]

Of course, even if someone who had a wedding ring on flirted with me, I'd stop them. Cheating is disgusting.

[Ronald_25]

What if the married guy is in an open marriage with a bi wife and she's the one that's actually interested in you...😏

[AngelAimée]

I'd rejected it because I don't believe in open marriages.

[Ronald_25]

What if she wants to rape you? That's a question... can a straight female be raped by a bi female?

[AngelAimée]

Yes, you can be raped by anyone. Rape isn't an act by a gender, it's an act of unwanted or forced intercourse by anyone.

[Ronald_25]

Have you known any cases of female on female rape out of curiosity? As a straight male whoes been in a MFF poly, I'm finding it more difficult than usual to be empathetic and not get aroused 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Pistolpete90]

You know I wish it would stop the person wearing the ring from flirting. It's all kind of fucked up. I'm sick of getting hit on my married men

[Uncut]

Ohhhhh boo fucking who.

[Ronald_25]

Oh no love, my Mrs is bi, so I'm actually veting you for her, I'll be watching most the time and may participate now and again 🤷🏽‍♂️
Not all marriages are closed 😏
And not all women are straight 🤷🏼‍♀️

[kittyluv]

No it doesn´t. Flirting is just some casual fun, it doesn´t necessarily mean I want to fuck that person.

[roland77]

If my girlfriends flits with another guy, I consider that action as a start of cheating on me. Flirting is no fun thing for me. I do it for serious relationships with possible marriage on office as outcome.

Fucking or not a guy depends on both what they after. An ONS? Then it is about only sex, otherwise maybe not. To say it again, I don't treat flirting lightly.

[Ronald_25]

I consider it hot when my girlfriend flirts with other girls but not guys. Is that fair or just weird?

[roland77]

@Ronald_25 here for us both it is a deal-breaker. So we agree to the same.

[kittyluv]

@roland77 If you flirt to get married you´re just very weird and actually creepy.

[kittyluv]

@roland77 Because you´re the same person?

[roland77]

@kittyluv then I must be really weird. I did it twice already.

[Ronald_25]

Right, this is getting weird and confusing for me. I usually date bi girls so it's cool for them to flirt and make love to other girls, that's my "semi-open" marriage. I sometimes join in, I sometimes don't 🤷🏽‍♂️ just depends on how busy I am at work. She no longer needs to ask me for consent. I just want her to have fun and be happy.

[roland77]

@Ronald_25 for me, straight woman only, sorry.

[roland77]

@Ronald_25 and TS are no straight woman, because of their penis! Yes, biological genitals matter to me, a lot. No sexism here, just saying it.

[onomatophobia]

Im wondering that myself.. I was " let go " bout 2 weeks ago just noticed the ring on my finger and though about taking it off... I was driving at tbe time.. botom line its still on my finger... then a few hrs later i see your post and dont have any opinion on the topic.. Id like to hear opinions... Girls , Guys, Bring it on !!!

[aicarg]

Most definitely, I'm not one who looks to cause drama or be called a home wrecker - it goes vise versa if a man with a ring were to come and stir a convo with me that made me feel uncomfortable, I'd put him in his place and remind him that he's a married man.

However this doesn't stop me from being friendly and cracking up jokes with the guy if I know him and his wife personally - but ofcourse nothing with the nature of crossing the line of being sexually inappropriate.

[roland77]

A wedding ring itself not, but the fact that I'm in any kind of closer/close relationship stops me entirely. I have never ever been (yes, never!) cheating on any of my ladies. Nobody can accuse me of cheating.

[roland77]

But if I see a wedding ring on her hand, it will ALWAYS STOP me from flirting her as I respect her current relationship!

[StudioSeraphim]

It stops me flirting in the traditional way, sure.

Cheeky and charming with an undercurrent of implication gets replaced with more playful, platonic flirting, if you get what I mean. Flirting's a great way to make people feel good about themselves, I wouldn't trade that off because she's married.

I'm not trying to give any romantic or sexual suggestions of intent once I clock a ring, and I'd reject any offer if it were extended.

[WhereAmI]

Personally, but not what I've seen from women. Go figure. 🙄

[WhereAmI]

*personally, not me.*

[Ronald_25]

They seem to be attracted to married men. The irony, that they wish to flirt with a married man because the are attracted to loyal men...

[WhereAmI]

To see if they can make them disloyal. 😂

[Ronald_25]

(long sigh) Women...

[DorkVader]

Since I basically flirt with everyone, probably not lol. But I'm not malicious. If things get too heavy, I'm gonna back off. No marrieds for me

[DLFisherman]

no a ring is just an item to some people. It doesn't stop promises from being broken.

[_Jay_]

hell yea like thats a clear sign of person being too old for me

[TonyBologna25]

Yep. Don’t flirt with anyone who’s taken. A lot of people rationalize that it’s just harmless fun, but I disagree. It’s incredibly disrespectful towards your partner.

[Anonymous]

Hell yes. Why would I even be remotely attracted to a man willing to cheat?

[roland77]

Exactly. People take flirting to much light and easy. It is serious because this is where cheating starts, for me/you at least.

[Flower7]

Yes, it does. I'm not interested in married guys.

[Ronald_25]

What if the married guy is in an open marriage with a bi wife and she's the one that's actually interested in you...😏

[Flower7]

I'm also not interested in women.

[Ronald_25]

Fair enough 🤷🏽‍♂️

[This_is_my_username]

Yes. I don't flirt with married men. There's no use.

[This_is_my_username]

@aliceeeee3 I have an older sibling

[Ronald_25]

What if the married guy is in an open marriage with a bi wife and she's the one that's actually interested in you...😏

[This_is_my_username]

Umm, no. I'm okay thanks.

[Ronald_25]

Already had your lesbian experience or something that is just not. of interest to you?

[andreasderjuengere]

No and yes.
If SHE initiates, I may (non-committedly) join in.
Out of myself: I respect a marriage of others, simply because I would want my own (if that happens one day) to be respected as well.

[Liam_Hayden]

I wear my grandmother's wedding band on my pinky and it has never stopped me.

[Taylor_C]

No it doesn´t. My flirting doesn´t have a goal other than having fun in the moment.

[goopw]

I have no interest in being an accomplice in a nasty divorce. Nty

[Anonymous]

Hell no. Give her the D and send her husband the pics. If she'll cheat, she deserves to be single.

[Paris13]

... Nor sleeping with them either. xx

[Ronald_25]

Women like you... I gotta say... Well you'd be interested in knowing that I plan to have an open marriage with a bisexual girl 😏 I think Bella will go harder on you than I will, she's a bit of an animal in the bedroom 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Paris13]

Lol If it Birthday Suites you Both. lolxx

[Ronald_25]

Yes it does, welcome to our marriage, be sure to grab some chocolate on the way out.

[Paris13]

MMMMMMMM DARK. xx

[Ronald_25]

By chocolate I mean Bella renamed my will Mr. Chocolate 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Ronald_25]

*Willy

[Paris13]

Lol Yummmy. xxoo

[Ronald_25]

Hope you have a big appetite and a deep throat, because I don't pull out, and I feed all my girls properly. But it's thirsty work, hope I can drink from you too 🦋💦

[Paris13]

GULP.. I am TAKEN? LOLxxoo

[Ronald_25]

Your relationship status has nothing got to do with Erotica, just as reading 50 shades of grey isn't cheating, I am in no way flirting with you, I have a knack for reaching into the deepest darkest and most twisted desires women have and pulling them to the surface. I'm like Lucifer, if he was more mischievous 😈

I'd say @Apple1996 & @WhiteShoulder would attest to that. It's usually less what I want, and more about what she desires, whomever she is...

[bangyourhead]

A soccer match has a goalie, doesn't mean you can't score.

[Ronald_25]

Well played good sir!

Also it is my question and I am British, so we will be calling it a football match 🇬🇧

[bangyourhead]

Lol , fine.

[Ronald_25]

In my defence, we spawned the language 🇬🇧🤣 but we don't seem to speak it, we just speak in riddles 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Once the novelty of being married wears off the ring doesn't seem to matter to some people anymore.
They just take it off when they go to cheat.

[TacosRAwesome]

Honestly no because I don't randomly chat up people.

[winterfox10]

Yes. Once I see a ring on her finger, I know she's off limits.

[Keith469]

Innocent flirting: no, if they flirt back.

Seductive flirting: Absolutely.

[HaveNoName]

Why does flirting have to be so serious that you check for his/her ring?

[Ocean_Pearl]

Physically, it wouldn't. But mentally, yes. I respect marriages and wouldn't break one even if the woman was coming on to me.

[Anonymous]

No my friend she married she get lot of people trying get in her pants. Some seem to take it as a challenge.

[CuriousMufuxka]

I know guys that wear a wedding ring to get laid actually.

[Twalli]

Not at all. It should, but with the amount of divorces it obviously doesn't.

[Jltakk]

A lot of red flags can stop me from flirting with someone.

[Iron_Man]

If I knew for sure it was yes

[DWornock]

No because married women like sex too.

[Lunatic1]

It should, but it depends on the people involved.

[themomo84]

I am not married. U?

[Ronald_25]

Currently dating, looking to break up soon.

[themomo84]

Gotcha

[Ronald_25]

As in you understand me or you've got me/ cornered?

The girl I'm dating is 18, bi, mixed race and hot. I've asked her to break up with me so she can go live the life of a bachelorette, like I did. Don't want to be anchored down in a relationship during 18-21...

[themomo84]

As in I would fully discuss the relationship I am i and if I didn't want to be in it I wouldn't.

[Ronald_25]

You have confused me very much 😕🤔 I just broke up with Bella yesterday, she took it very well 😊

[themomo84]

Great!

[Ronald_25]

Lol, why is that great?

[JustRollTheDice]

Yes it does

[imfreeze95]

Yeah!

[Ronald_25]

Good lad 👍🏼 you will be rewarded by Goddess Karma

[starbright609]

100 percent.

[Account]

Yes.

[JamesRandiDebates]

A ring doesn't block the hole.

[cavmanier]

If you can get your dick through a ring, she's not going to know you're doing anything anyway 😂

[Ronald_25]

Oh my god, that is one of the most well played response I've read @cavmanier keep up the good work lad 👍

James, with me, a ring means "there is already two in bed, want to be the third?"

[Inv8derChris]

Yup, certainly does

[MelnTx]

Definitely.

[KristaGrym]

Yeap

[clampfan101]

Of course it would.

[creativegirl93]

It should

[TheAceholeSupreme666]

Yes.

[MannMitAntworten]

Nope.

[redted]

Yes!

[karan123456789]

Yes it's truo