Drugs, a turn on or a turn off?

Question

would you/have you/do you date someone who does drugs?

cun7n1nja · Accepted Answer

Yes I would [depending on the nature of their use], yes I have, and yes I do. I've been a recreational drug user since I was 15, I've done just about everything. My boyfriend is an addict, and always will be, but he's been clean for a little over 90 days now. He's such a horrible addict that there is no such thing as moderation, and it WILL kill him if he relapses again. His liver will fail for real this time and his kidneys will lose even more function. He was clean for almost 5 years before his most recent relapse, so I know he can stay clean with the right help. I love and enjoy drugs for myself too, but I quit when he did because without a good support system, he's not going to make it. He has kids to stay alive for, and they're more important to me than my own experimentation, lol. So it's not a turn-off to me [and like I said, it depends on the nature of their use and their habits, how they handle their drugs, etc], it just doesn't work in my current relationship and I'm okay with that.

Rose321 · Accepted Answer

My ex smoked bongs and it was OK because he was still a normal guy but it was disgusting seeing him smoke a bong especially when his mates were around because they all used the same one and I think that's really disgusting so now if I had a guy who did that I would break up with him because I think its yuk!

My boyfriend and I occasionally smoke joints and its fun, we also smoke other things sometimes because it is also fun to have sex when your on it lol but a few years back we had too much money to spare and did it a lot because we could afford to and after a few months we were at eachothers throats because small things one of us did would p*ss the other off. I would kick him out after a massive screaming contest and sometimes he would just leave the house after we fought.

We're lucky now we can look back at it and laugh at how psycho we were!

dweebette · Accepted Answer

Well I'm a pot-head so I wouldn't mind a guy who smokes weed.

I could also date a guy that does harder drugs sometimes for the kick of it or on a special occasion (ex. doing coke once just to try it, doing speed before going out once every 8 months, eating shrooms together and enjoying the trip, etc...)

As long as it doesn't interfere with school / work / social interactions / budget etc...

Only drugs I plan to stay away from at all price : heroin, crystal meth, crack, prescription drugs used without prescription.

I just don't trust myself with those, and I am not ready to trust anyone else with them.

Crack for example... apparently it's like having ten orgasms at once when you try it the first time. Who wouldn't want a second time, you know? Not approaching those.

KarKingJack · Accepted Answer

My ex-girlfriend didn't like that I smoked drugs and she told me stop. I told her if she tried to make stop I'd leave her. She understood entirely and agreed that she shouldn't want to change me, and accepted me - and I promised her I'd never do them when I was around her. And I had been offered and all, and said 'Nah, not around my giiiirl', and they were like, 'Alright.'

I'd date someone who was really f***ed up on drugs, all the time, even if I knew it was going to interfere with the relationship. =]

obliviousraj · Accepted Answer

i show my middle finger to it... (nd that to in crimson)

b_luvedbaby · Answer

My boyfriend sometimes smokes weed in the evenings and it really doesn't bother me at all. He has ADD so he's often high-strung and easily stressed out. I don't smoke it but the weed mellows him and allows us to both enjoy each others' company. If it were harder drugs then absolutely not. I've witnessed first hand how hard drugs (heroin, coccain, oxycotin) ruined a good friend of mine's life and I never want anything to do with that stuff.

impavid92 · Answer

no drugs, period. I used to smoke pot all. of. the. time. and I wouldn't want to be dragged back into my past. I guess it's a personal issue for every individual. but remember that drugs are illegal and they can jeopardize chances in careers and opportunities of advancing in life.

Nitalicious · Answer

well considering the guy I like now is a stoner, I would probably date him. ha ha he is super smart though and is functional in school/socializing/sports etc. I'm not sure if he did hard drugs but if he's tried them I can accept that but if its all the time that would be the end of it for me. for some reason I feel like all the stoners at my school are genius's and hilarious its a shame they all smoke everyday all day

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on the drugs and it depends how it affects their lives. Like if they do certain things recreationally and it doesn't affect their work or school then I don't have a problem with it. I love to smoke weed, so I love guys who do too. I'm also down with the occasional E or shrooms, so I don't mind if a guy does stuff like that either. However, I wouldn't want to date anybody who was into the really hard stuff like coke or heroine.

HappilySam · Answer

Nope. I had a huge Crush on a guy that smoked weed. I thought that he wouldn't let his ways become between us, but then he was high on day and did something very stupid to me in front of the whole class. I haven't talk to him a year. Drugs change a person and I don't want to be exposited to that sort of lifestyle

ihatework · Answer

i've hooked up with chicks who smoked bud and I have no problem with that. I'm not crazy about harder drugs tho, if a chick is into coke and heroin as well as others I probably would be turned off.

Mahtaazh · Answer

A total turn off. I would never date a guy who does drugs.

crystalrain · Answer

no no and no lol :) if he wanted our relationship to work he'd have to stop. Lol my love is his drug ;)

selfishstars · Answer

It would depend on what drugs and the nature of their drug use.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, I dated a guy who messed with drugs like coke and heroin. The relationship, kinda ironically, didn't even end due to his drug usage. Anyways, I tend to go for guys who do drugs. I myself am not a frequent user, maybe every now and then, but I guess I just go for that "type"

josevic · Answer

Huge turn off, I would even try not to get near by ;)

CuddlyCarla · Answer

Definitely not. Self-destruction is NOT a sexy quality.

brunettebelle · Answer

TURN OFF! Why would anyone want a drugged person in their life?

Anonymous · Answer

I'm currently dating someone who does drugs. We consider ourselves a mini version of Syd Viscous (of Sex Pistols) and Nancy Spungen =P

bree88 · Answer

Depends on the drugs! I guess I wouldn't care if the guy smokes some weed every now and then. But generally speaking, drugs are a huge turn off to me.

bel42 · Answer

turn off..i would never date a guy that does drugs.

lilmsmuffet · Answer

Drugs + Dating =  Big No-no.

GingerRage · Answer

It's an absolute deal breaker.

musicbrain5 · Answer

Absolute deal breaker for me.

angelwithin · Answer

Turn Off - - Definite No.

WeaponZero · Answer

I would have to say it's a dealbreaker.

Azdoc77 · Answer

Turn off.scary.creepy.horrifying

Anonymous · Answer

would never date something like that

Theguyoverthere · Answer

Dealbreaker for me.

BuBBly123 · Answer

OFF ALL THE WAY!

sweetycakes · Answer

Its a big turn off

Cailleach · Answer

Turn-off.

number10 · Answer

OFF

AnthonyMckenzie · Answer

Off

Anonymous · Answer

absolutely NOT!

Dom163 · Answer

Depends on the drug

Shadoww · Answer

off :P

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