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How do you feel about women asking men out? (Page 2)
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Were it not for the forward thinking women in my past experience I might still be waiting to be brave enough to get my first date and girlfriend. I find it extremely flattering when I get asked out by the woman who is the other part of the beginning flirtatious endeavor before the actual first meet.
Some guys need that reassurance. I think its ok for guys who are timid or shy.
But For me I am blunt and straight forward with women, which probably hurts me haha. It would be nice for a change, but normally I discourage women from being the first to make a move.
If a guy won't take the shot first, he probably isn't man enough to be anything serious
We definitely need more women, who ask men out and bring on the equality. I'd feel quite lucky to have that happen to me. Just imagine that happening 😍😍😍
How can I say no to that?
Women saying "Men like the chase (so let them do it)" or "it's men's job to ask out" or "don't chase men because men see it as being slutty" are believing a common misconception. This gets tiring much faster than applying for a better job.
And I'm not here to dick around with highschool games like that. I mean business.
I've had a couple women ask me out. I don't have a problem with it. I can definitely say its empowering. I can see why women are the ones who want to be asked out. Every time a woman asked me out even when I found her not attractive or my type it got me excited. It's nice to know somebody likes you so much to ask you out in person like that. it's ballsy or ovarieseee.
It’s perfectly acceptable. I would imagine a male would really appreciate that for a change.
Extremely positive, I support it all the way! Not that men should be absolved of the responsibility, that wouldn't be fair. I think both parties should be able to ask the other out, and whoever asks should pay on the first date, then afterwards split the check.
It’s okay for women to invite people they like out. If you meet someone you like, date him, because if you miss it, you won’t have it. I recently found some young amazing men on cougr. net, I can date them, meet them, and I feel pretty good
I like the challenge of making the first move and being able to pick any woman I would like to meet. But I wouldn’t mind if women started making the first move. But I wouldn’t stop approaching and waiting to be approached
If a guy's interested in you, he's not going to stop being interested just because you asked him out.
Everything works out better when you're open and honest about what you want, even if it doesn't work out the way you want it to.
I think if someone's interested they should do it, if they want.
It shouldn't be gender specific, but it'd be nice to see women approach and make the first move, as guys are generally expected to do so.
I mean I’ve asked many men out just cause there out of my league and hey worth a shot
Not many guys are out of your league.
I love it! Out of all the women I dated only one had asked me out. I was truly taken back because it’s never like this. Unfortunately it didn’t work out but that’s one thing that I adored about her.
Also a lot of the reasons why I don’t ask women out so often is because of extreme feminists could think I’m harassing them.
When someone says no, I’ll understand and move on. I’ve asked a few women out that will not tell me no or yes and then I find out they may have been afraid that I wouldn’t really accept no as an answer?
Which is understandable there are PLENTY of douchebag guys out there, I get that. Not all men are like that though and it really SUCKS in the long run that women can perceive men all the same when not all of our intentions are the same...
I say whoever has the guts to ask first is free to do so. My first love asked me out. I was going to take it slow and ask her out, but she asked and was both hot and kindhearted so no way I was gonna say no.
I'm all for it and I think it's awesome you took the initiative and asked him out and he said yes. 👏
People should just ask out the people they like. I’ve asked out people I liked, and I’m still here to tell the tale.
It's fine, I've given advice to girls before to ask out guys they like. Some girls like to take the lead and some girls prefer the man to ask. Either way is fine.
It's fine to invite someone to do something fun with you, nothing wrong with that.
But if you think you're going to be the man in your relationship, and take the lead, I can pretty much guarantee you'll be bored to tears. I give it 90 days.
100% agree!
I mean it's cool. Confidence makes people more attractive. You should do whatever you want. But if it's mutual I feel it has to do with who catches on the cue first
In a time where women can accuse men falsely of rape i dont think women should date men. They have become a legal liability and cannot be trusted. Besides she will probably ruin your life in the divorce and on the flip side she will make the rest of your life miserable. men are Better off without women tbh they only ruin lives.
Are you gay then?
@KK_Oni you can be straight and criticize women you fucking retarded hole.
I am for a girl making the first move. if she so wants to do so. because girls are less likely. to be turned down by guys. at least to some small degree.