Are guys who signal interest in a woman whilst she is with her kids to be avoided or no? (Page 2)

Question

I am a divorcée who is often out with her children. I get "hit on" quite a bit. When I say hit on I mean men attempting to or making prolonged eye contact with me then staring to see if I'll respond.  Some of them do pique my interest and I'm not afraid to reciprocate BUT I've been apprehensive because I think these are probably men looking for an affair since most people assume a woman with kids is married or in a relationship. I mean I get the same type of timid approaches when I am without my kids also so I don't know.  Sometimes, it's men who have seen me with and without my children and they are still super curious and making it clear they are interested even subtly. Am I wrong in thinking they all have nefarious intentions or shoud I reciprocate if I'm interested?

Anonymous · Answer

Probably want to know you but you are probably attractive if they are doing that often so who knows what they want exactly, every guy of course wants sex but the ones that want more you’ll never know until you talk to them

Omario2049 · Answer

Once again another perfect example of an overthinking woman. Based on ur concerns it sounds like u like to head straight to the sack when u meet a guy and don't plan on talking and getting to know him because pretty much all those concerns are questions I'd think people would ask during courtship.

WhiteWolf69 · Answer

I'm a single father and I really consider dating single mothers because they have an idea of what I go through with my kid.

Nick473 · Answer

I wouldn't say your judgment is wrong. Especially with all the sexual immorality these days. People watch porn and than they wanna be a home wrecker cause its sexy to them. I think your judgment is good. If i saw a woman with kids id think she is taken.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Well, if we see a pretty woman, we look and even try to hit on her, for most of us her relationship status does not prevent us from hitting on her.

However some guys might have potential to be a long term partner.
These things can be only known by interacting with them.

SupremeWarlord · Answer

Just tell them that you're not in a relationship, so you avoid the ones looking for an affair, right?

jshm2 · Answer

Depends where you are and what your situation is. Someone just "looking" is no indication of anything much.

Anonymous · Answer

Why is it always assumed that if a man is interested in a single mom who is with her kids its bad? For that matter, why is it always assumed that if a man is a child care worker he has ill intentions? Massive double standard..

Makeushiver · Answer

It never occurred to me that there are people sick enough to use that as a way to get at the kid

dillbill561 · Answer

Easy. Reciprocate please. Go for a father figure for your kids, avoid hooking up.

Wise4myage · Answer

I say reciprocate only when you are out alone, or when it feels right.

IncognitoBandito · Answer

They're probably attracted to your fertility

Supernormal · Answer

Accept your fate. You're pretty and charming

anylolone · Answer

They are doing the same thing you are, just looking.

FamilyGuy2020 · Answer

You know most guys like me and my age don't necessarily mind stepchildren.

SashaAMB · Answer

You won’t know unless you talk to then.

rcljr · Answer

If she has a ring on, she’s off limits.

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

Women with kids are to be avoided.

malwins · Answer

Looking too much into the staring

Are guys who signal interest in a woman whilst she is with her kids to be avoided or no? (Page 2)

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