What do you find more preferable of a “problem” in a love interest 💕💕 💕 They are really really quiet OR They avoid spending time alone with you?

[VIVANT]

Lol I understand neither is ideal both are kinda SECRETIVE in their own way BUT if you had to choose. Please don’t say “neither” 🥺🥺

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I prefer they are Really really quiet, but willing to spend time alone with me

I prefer if They are very talkative, but resist spending time together alone.

[Jake99999]

Why would you limit yourself to one or the other?

How about you find someone who is okay talking to you and also likes to spend time alone with you?

I don't see why you can't have a nice balance of both things.

If you are in a relationship with someone who does not want to be alone with you... what kind of relationship is THAT? Move on to someone who is actually into you.

And if you are with someone who won't talk... that just seems strange. Maybe find someone who will talk to you and also enjoys being alone with you. That is not a big ask. Its just the basic fundamentals of a relationship.

[Lliam]

Someone who avoided spending time alone with me wouldn't be much of a "love interest".

I can understand introverts and girls who are really shy. I actually had one girlfriend who was like that. She was very sensual and submissive.
So I wouldn't mind a really quiet women who love to kiss and do other stuff. It's hard to talk when you are kissing. :-)

[pink_and_inlove]

I prefer A not wanting to spend time with me is very weird and suspicious

[TwistedSukuna]

I feel like being overly quiet is much better than not willing to spend some alone time with someone, I'd prefer a quiet girl who was willing to cuddle on the couch every day than a talkative one that never wanted to hang out with just me.

[humanearth]

Wow this is kinda tough. Sometimes I like a mix if both. Like I hate when they are really really quiet, (that means she is pissed at me), but at the same time its quiet. So its a win, lose thing

[NathanDavis]

but why!!! lol, I do not like this combinations one bit but oh well...

I prefer talkative for sure, I would want to know what's inside their minds, who they actually are..

[MysticDevice]

I prefer the quiet one who will spend lots of alone time with you. I'm not a talker so its just nice to not have to worry about carrying a conversation and we can both just sit there and chill.

[TallAnon]

What's the point of having a relationshio if they don't want to be alone with you?

[AndrewMG]

Oh I'm kinda quiet and I like a bit of me time every now and then... I think I've just worked out why I'm single! lol

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I prefer they are Really really quiet, but willing to spend time alone with me

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, the best conversations happen alone, I think. So they kind of go hand in hand.

[bannacookies]

A sounds pretty good. Lol

[Ailaw22]

I would prefer if they are talkative with me

[exitseven]

I do not mind if they are quiet.

[EmbraceThePain]

Really really quiet

[Gwenhwyfar]

Quiet

[Tstrbrainer]

Quite quite quite