A girl who rejected me two years ago is showing interest in me, what to do?

[gtex1991]

this girl rejected me two years ago, she told me I wasn't her type, I'm nice guy, she was talking to someone( which she wasn't... then offered friendship

i was nice about this who rejection and simply moved on, no contact even when she offered friendship, I simply refused any sort of communication, deleted her from my phone and Facebook. even when I saw her I acted normally.. I guess she took the message and she stopped talking to me as well

two years later she is showing interest in me! she is even giving me hints and trying get my attention and being extra nice

[Anonymous]

From her point of view: She might have gotten into bad relationships with jerks and knew how good you are. It happens, believe me.

From your side: I won't blame you if you don't want to give her a chance. It's your pride afterall. But I'd say think about it and see if the girl is sincere or just playing with your heart. Only YOU can tell.

[Shaun]

Oh yeah, she could have changed. lol.

People who tell other people "you're not my type" are very low quality.

[Opinion Owner]

People change, Shaun.

[gtex1991]

people hardly change, when she rejected me I was you typical nice boring guy, with nothing going on. now that she has calmed down in her life. she's having seconds thoughts about me

[Opinion Owner]

As I said, you can appreciate the good things when you experience the bad ones.

[krisdaschwab912]

If this were me, it would depend on who it was, as there are a few girls that I still kind of like, but a few who I used to like that can go fornicate themselves with a crowbar for all I care.

Either way, I'd probably end up getting into a debate with myself inside my head that lasts way too long, trying to decide what to do.

[ericneo]

I'd tell her I'm no longer interested.

That's what happens when you "Move On".

She wasn't in you then and you "moved on" so forget about her and do so. Find someone who is truly interested in you don't waste your time with someone who wouldn't give you the time of day, "Move On".

[huntusa]

Dude don't waste your time.Think for once that do you want to be her sidekick? Come on man she rejected you go find someone who will accept you very first time and will be happy to have you in her life.

[ericneo]

Why did this get so many down ratings? It's a good answer.

[huntusa]

I'm guessing that down rating was given by self righteous girls who want to reject guys but at the same time they don't want us guys to bring our pride in this game.Basically kill your self respect and pride and chase a girl and keep getting rejected.

[AndyWes]

Dude, kudos to you! You have the guts not to simper and be a puppy going, "can we be friends, I wuv you!" And guessing by what you've said, it worked--now she's chasing you, which gives you the upper hand, a reversal of that past time.

[ericneo]

So true.

[Blobb]

Either:

A) be weird.

B) be normal.

C) Hook up.

D) don't hook up.

E) combination of A and C

F) combination of A and D

G) combination of B and C

H) combination of B and D

[FOSE_LOP]

You must trust your instincts!

They will always take you the right path.

Don't let your pride get in your way to happiness!

[MikeK]

F*** that bitch. You should build her hopes up and then smash them to bits. Karma. Pure and simple.

[Shaun]

I know what I would do. Blow her off.

[moloz]

Yep. I have balls and I have pride.