CAN YALLL RELATE TO ANY OF THESE?
I dont play games with people or my relationships, I tell em. Although I'm polite about it unless I get some unwarranted grabbing, which does happen and pisses me off.
I can't tell if people who dont bring it up are trying to be a player or if theyre embarassed of their girl or what
If it's just casual/innocent flirting, then I don't make a big deal about it.
If the waitress calls me cute, for example, because she's looking for a bigger tip (giggity), then there's not really any point to bringing it up. That kind of flirting isn't going anywhere, and there's no harm done.
If it's someone at a venue where flirting has the potential to become more, like at a bar, or it's obviously the kind of flirting with meaning behind it, then yeah; I'll shut that down pretty quick.
Otherwise it just makes me look like an asshole for stringing them along, makes them feel foolish for wasting their time, and is just inappropriate for me to participate in.
I don't wear my wedding ring at all, been married since 2012 and i wore it like less than 50 times, it's platinum and it's heavy and more expensive than gold. If women flirt with me! i wouldn't even notice they are flirting, i have been told i have a friendly face and soothing nice voice it does not am down to fuck. When i realize they are flirting i just say : Am very flattered, you are such a nice woman but i am taken. So! If they stay just to have conversation am down with it, if they still want to flirt and i just tell them it's not gonna happen, I am an old skool gentleman (i know how to spell school) chillax
I’d wear my wedding ring around my neck mostly but out in the open
I tried that, did not work for me. Maybe soon am gonna get a ring tattoo on my finger instead.
Yeah it's really annoying when men flirt with other women when they have girlfriends. If I had a boyfriend, I would still bring him up even when I'm not asked
only if and when they ask... or if needed, when they get too forward, for example... lol, that is a good time to burst a bubble
Lol what if a girl approached and said “can i get you a drink?” And you said “sorry i have a girlfriend” and then she was like “um dude im the bartender. The drink was on the house but whatever” 🤣
lmao... I would never go about it like that, but if it happened... then she's the bartender, I would get back to her but just for a chat and to have fun with that happening... lol
I'd tell them I'm taken.
I have this coworker who is determined to take me and go for drinks. He asks me all the time. Like ALL the time. And he knows I'm taken. He's married too...
I hate guys like that
That is incredible he did that to you. The girlfriend probably knew he was a flirt herself, but to what extent, it makes you wonder..
Yea back then, She legit came to me one day and said, “Hey Desi right? Yea my boyfriend messages you everynight. Oh im sorry did i say boyfriend? We’re engaged now” If he never told me he was your boyfriend, he surely ain't gonna tell me he's your fiance
Did he remember that he proposed? 😁 Can’t imagine, if they made it down the aisle, that it lasted very long.
She had him waiting til marriage. I guess he didn't realize i was also waiting til marriage and that he wouldn't get sex out of either of us. And then to top it off, they broke off the engagement because 6 months later she cheated on him and got pregnant by someone who she's now married to lmao
😂😂😂 oh how I wish I had that problem, I've been in a relationship 8 months and had to tell someone "I'm taken" zero times. No one likes me.
🤣🤣🤣 your girlfriend likes you
If I receive a compliment like… “ wow you’re really in shape…” I’ll say oh thanks, my wife thinks so too.
My wedding & engagement rings should be my status giveaway.
So many dont respect it tho :(
Those days are long behind me. I let people know Im married.
I'd tell them immediately and leave the conversation, if they're trying to flirt that is.
Friendly conversation is always welcome.
Never had that problem, because I look uninterested when someone flirts with me while I had a girlfriend.
Ooo smart. How do you do the uninterested look tho haha
I don't know. I just look uninterested. Can't really explain it.
Well keep up the good work ;-)
I will. 😊
I'd probably casually mention it like 'oh look at this cute jacket my boyfriend bought me.' Doesn't matter if he actually bought it as long as they get the message
Lol i do the same 🤣
One of the perks of being married was an easy way to dismiss creeps. Now they won't take no without explanation, because if I'm single I'm obviously available to them, right.
I'll tell people right away that I'm taken if I'm in a relationship
I either tell em I'm with someone or that I'm not interested.
I answered the last but I should've answered the second. I feel like they'd only bring it up if they had to or didn't like the flirting.
I'm sure there's always mixes. Some admit. Some just tease. And some make a point of saying discreetly but firmly. No and I'm taken.
Why would you wait til they ask
Is that President Obama? I have never seen him with an earring before.
But I've never been Taken.
That Stevie Wonder meme, though.
And LOL- that blonde girl is me. SO accurate.
(Me in real life.)
I didn't care for obama but he look hot af in that gif 😂
The blonde is angelina jolie
Ngl; he kinda does. And I'm not even gay.
Say what you will about Obama; the man has class. And I'm not even a Democrat.
Wtf. Angelina Jolie isn't blonde.
In that movie she was
I tell them I’m taken and that they’re psycho jealous and they’ll be back any second
D - Other. If it's a casual flirt, I'd probably smile and just move on. If she consistently flirted, I'd thank her, let her know that I'm already in a relationship, and wish her well at finding the right guy for her.
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Yeah if I am in a committed relationship I try to give her hints I am taken like say my girlfriend loves this football team or add my girlfriend into the conversation somehow.
Yes good 🙌