Need help getting out of the talking stage?

[Kayleigh_connell]

So basically me and and this lad both like each other and we’ve admitted that we are more than friends. We’ve kissed and forplayed. Twice. We are confused about our feelings as we know we like each other but we don’t know each other enough to date. There’s times where we really wanna kiss and do more with each other but we don’t want to confuse anything. How do we get out of more than friends and into dating? We want to go into a talking stage but we’re in a friend group together and because there’s only 4 of us we don’t want them to make them feel that they are third wheeling x

[ally018]

Go on a date with them, out to drinks, mini golf or something that you will be able to get to know this person by asking about their past, goals and things they like. Then you will get to know this person and go on dates, that will get you out of the friend zone.

[bowenw]

If I were him I would like it if you asked me to go out somewhere casual for dinner/lunch/coffee as a place to start so we could get to know each other better.

[Kayleigh_connell]

We always go bowling/ mini golf with our mates. Would going just us two be any good. Like they’ve got air hockey and we always play together and get competitive.

[Kayleigh_connell]

A good competitive, we flirt a bit

[bowenw]

If you want to get to know each other better, going out without any others in your group seems to me to be the best way to accomplish that. If you want to start very slowly you could offer to give him a ride to and from where you meet the group so you'd have some alone time with him.

[bowenw]

You could also make some flirty bets at air hockey or the other games, like the winner gets to spank the loser once, or the loser has to kiss the winners butt, etc.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Anonymous]

Honestly I would just enjoy that feeling because its all down hill from there.

[Anonymous]

You've kissed and made out but are uncomfortable about dating or talking?

[Kayleigh_connell]

Nooo, we don’t want to make our friends uncomfortable if we are all lovey dovey infront of them so when it’s just us we flirt but I don’t know when it’s a good time to kiss him. Like how do you know when the moment is right

[Opinion Owner]

Ask him someplace quiet, dark and alone. Maybe a walk on the beach or smth

[Kayleigh_connell]

Ask him what?

[Opinion Owner]

You said you want to go someplace where you can talk and get to know better so somewhere without lots of people and noise.

[Kayleigh_connell]

Ahh right thanks

[whosnumber1]

you need to start hanging out with just each other

[Kayleigh_connell]

What would you suggest we do? I’ve never had a boyfriend before so this is all knew

[whosnumber1]

you've had friends before though right? it's the same thing. just go do dig together. go to the mall, go for coffee, go play video games whatever... then the rest will come

[whosnumber1]

stuff together... I don't know where dig came from. lol

[Kayleigh_connell]

Thanks

[whosnumber1]

no problem. here to help

[Anonymous]

Sadly reminds me I experienced none of this in my teens

[jjj101010]

Go to the cinema or out for a drink together

[Kayleigh_connell]

A couple of weeks back he asked me out on a night out, and we got to know each other via drinks and then we went on a clubbing. Like as a guy, how would you want to be asked out to go somewhere. Or where would you like to go to spend time with a girl that you like

[jjj101010]

Bars, restaurants are good rather than nightclubs. U can talk more there

[jjj101010]

Message me if u wanna chat it through.