So, I was just wondering. What are some good ways to subtly ask, or imply that you want to hold hands with a guy?

[HopeIess_Romantic]

We've been together since the beginning of the year, and we both have admitted that we have almost held hands on multiple occasions. I've hugged him twice, but he hasn't really made any moves (Well, he's written me a couple poems) so I was planning on doing this subtly. I want it to be his choice. I'd just like to ask the guys as well, would pulling him to a class be too obvious? Or should I just say my hands are cold, or something... I don't know. I need opinions!!!

[crossdressingrihno]

Just talking walking at some point grab his hand its that simple

With the guy if you want something you just tell them subtlety just isn't something you do with guys so yeah taking your time is good but subtlety is not because you will never get your point across

[Sixgunsound]

Most guys don’t get subtlety, take hints, or pick up on cues. Especially at your age. You’re just going to have to go for it and grab his hand.

[dustybiker]

I could never wait around for boys to make up their minds. I’d have bluntly asked “If I wanted you to hold my hand right now, would you?” Gives them the opening. If they aren’t ready they won’t.

[little_rose]

I would just walk closer to him, put my arms close to his and look at him a bit. If he doesn't do anything I'd just grab his arm and I'd probably kiss him too.

[lamaguy]

My friend touched my fingers, then put her hand on mine, then later just grabbed my hand even though she knows this stuff makes me uncomfortable but I still liked it anyway. I don’t think it should bother him haha

[dreamstar72]

Tell him you just googled palm reading. Then take his hand look at it and say “I need to hold your hand for awhile to get better vibes”. Smile and walk with him

[jammcm]

When you are together brush your hand against the back of his and see how he reacts. You could also ask him to show you his life lines, the lines in his palm, hold his hand and draw them with you finger. You both will like that.

[AviatorTom]

Actions speak louder than words. When you're walking together, just reach out and take his hand in yours.

[integrale77]

When your walking side by side just place your hand in his I'm sure he will instinctively hold hands with you.

[kellytheman]

I say the next time you guys are walking in a mall or grocery store and both happy and having a nice conversation just take his hand and hold with out no excuse. Just say you like holding my man hands.

[Anonymous]

Well he’s just not making a move even tho you both like each other, you can either wait for him to have balls or you can have the balls it’s that simple

[nofilterhonesty]

Just go for the hand. Anything else is exaggerated.

[007kingifrit]

your question is wrong. men do not understand or want subtlety. we express all emotions physically and have few emotions in regards to women.

just grab his hand

[Darine123]

Just asked him! Can you hike my hand? I did that before and it works

[BeachLuvR97]

Just simply reach for his hand. If a guy is paying you even the slightest bit of attention, he is totally into you! He's letting YOU set the pace.

[Anonymous]

Next time you go for a high-five with him, lace your fingers between his at the top after your hands hit.

[OddBeMe]

Just do it. We’re so dense and shy we won’t intiate.

[Anonymous]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/v1HDt1tknTc

[Avicenna]

Just take his hand. Most guys don’t get subtlety.

[DWornock]

Avicenna is right. If you want it to be a guy's idea, you must let him know in no uncertain terms, that is what you want. Besides, in today's society, it is a girls responsibility to make the first move. That is, a girl must do something to let the guy know that she is not going to be displeased.

[Iron_Man]

Let him take the initiative

[8Bit_LYNX]

My hands are cold.

[dudeinohio]

Just grab his hand.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Just do it

[Jltakk]

Hold his hands.