Well in the case of me, I literally refuse to approach women.
You're assuming that a woman will say yes because I approached her.
Its reasonable if asking a woman out lead to the "I have boyfriend line: or if they give a number that isn't fake the still cane blow you off by telling you they changed their minds or their caring for a sick friend. I haven't approached a woman in 10 years and it hasn't affected my dating life as it was nonexistent before. Not approaching woman has saved me time, money and aggravation, it is a win. I don't want to be single but my wants haven't mattered thus far.
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So how many times do I ask women out before I get sick and tired of hearing "no" ?
until you find the right one who says 'yes' :)
And what if you refuse to ask because you don't want high maintenance women?
Why won't women ask men out? This is a double standard. I demand an answer
You just answered your own question; it's a double standard. One that's still pretty ingrained into our society. Even if we recognize that there is a double standard, it takes time for these things to change.
Yeah so when was the last time you saw an extremely good looking woman ask a man out?
I don't really pay attention to the behavior of "extremely good looking women". Though, I would imagine that they are less likely to ask men out, since they have more than enough men to choose from out of the guys who are asking them out. There's not much incentive for them to do so. If you want someone to blame, blame your male counterparts. But that said, you're not going to stop other men from asking out attractive women, so if you're trying to prove a point by not asking out women
yourself, the only thing you're actually changing is the likelihood of you getting with an attractive woman.
No I think good looking women should ask men out, otherwise they're high maintenance.
What you think women should do, and what they actually do, aren't the same thing.
Women should ask men out, because otherwise it's hypocritical in a supposedly gender equal society. Writing it off as a man's job is sexist
I don't disagree.
In any case I will continue to demand women come to me on my terms. Playing petty social games and competing for women is beneath me.
Best of luck.
Why did you say I will remain single
Well, as we already talked about, there probably aren't a whole lot of attractive women who ask men out.
I don't. I would only expect to die alone if I were short, fat, ugly, poor or had a poor attitude about women. I just refuse to play the game.
I don't "play the game either." But I still approach women that I think are worth my time. If I feel like a game is being played, I stop wasting my time.
I don't think women are worth my time unless they come to me on my terms