Should I request to follow him on IG?

[Anonymous]

I recently started going to this cafe-bar near my place and there I met a bartender who I instantly liked. I always go alone there (it's a very chill place and I like working sometimes there from my laptop) and we have a great chat every time he's around! Yesterday I was a little braver then other times and I kind of flirted a little and I think he reciprocated. He suggested I should come more often, and I don't know if he's saying those things because he is a good staff making customers, or because he genuinely likes having me there. I then said I will come only if his shift (kind of like a joke) and he laughed and gave me his schedule, lol. Now I know when he works and I want to go again today, but I'm feeling like maybe it's bit too much? Should I wait few days and then go or just go again today and see what happens? Also I found him on Instagram and I'm debating if I should hit a follow? Will it make me look desperate?

[RuthlessAggression]

Why do girls think the only place to meet men, are bars?

No, I don't think you should though. But that's just MY opinion. Sorry

[Asker]

Yeah men usually just fall of the sky!!

[RuthlessAggression]

They typically do

[RuthlessAggression]

Religion, if you're religious, says "we were made from god", right? So, we LITERALLY, according to religion, fell from the sky (god)

[Samhanks]

No harm in going, maybe he's the shy kind? See how he reacts? Regarding Instagram, not NOW !

[slatyb]

No, you should ask for a date.