Should I ask this girl out for tonight?

[Anonymous]

I am a receptionist in a touristic hotel in Turkey, and 3 days ago this cute russian chick checked-in and came to hotel. Asked for my name, always smiled at me on the first day. Then I wrote to her from WhatsApp and she recognized me at night. Then on the second day, I gave her a rose in the hotel lobby and she said "soooo sweet and smiled". She also accepted my Instagram request and followed me back. But this is the third day and i will work till 00:00, now time is 20:00, should I ask her to go to the beach tonight and chat in real life? I will ask on WhatsApp now. I still hesitate a bit. :(

Definitely yes

Not yet

No never

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She said her English is very weak and also she wants to sleep at that time. I think they are all excuses.

[Anonymous]

Rude of you to basically call her a liar. I don't know if you just don’t have good luck with women or have been let down a lot in the past, but if you really want to try and date then you have to be mature enough to understand things won’t always go your way. I don't know how a woman being unavailable for night beach makes you think she’s making excuses when that is a perfectly acceptable reason on her end. Some people really do go to bed at 7 or 8 pm, especially if they must be up early for whatever reason. If you weren’t being so emotional and irrationally thinking, then you would understand. Anyway, If you don’t know her personal life then you have no idea what priorities she has. Please have some consideration for other peoples schedules.

[Asker]

I saw her after 00:00, she was very awake

[Opinion Owner]

She could’ve been asleep and then woke up. She may even have tried to sleep and could not. Like I said you don’t know her life or schedule, or sleep pattern for that matter. You don’t have to jump to worst case scenario.

[Asker]

You know what? That b*tch came to hotel at 00:00 tonight, and i saw her in our tour guides personal car and he was civil, she got fucked in her ass by him, i am sure about this. Even though she wrote lots of good messages on WhatsApp to me, she is still with other people. Lots of hotel workers saw her outside. Now what do you say?

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like you are lost in assumptions. How do you expect to ever find and be happy with a woman when you act that way and assume the worst? Plus your language about women is so vicious, that’s like an anger issue to address man.

[Asker]

And tonight, he hanged out with one of my room friends in the beach, and that guy does not know russian too. They drank alcohol together. Now what do you say?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know who you’re even talking about at this point.

[Asker]

And tonight, "she" hanged out with one of my room friends in the beach, and that guy does not know russian too. They drank alcohol together. Now what do you say? As i said, her bullshit was just excuses.

[Opinion Owner]

What is there to say? I think she was asleep when she said she was and you think she lied, then she went out when she woke up. Now she’s hanging out with other people, there’s nothing wrong with that dude. If you act in person how you talk on here then you’re very hostile in real life and I’m sure she notices that abrasive personality. Plus you accuse her at every turn, what makes you think that is attractive? Those men have probably told her about you as well so she’s steered clear.

[Pohjolan]

Anon: You were just napping all night!
Russian gal: I do believe its called sleeping.
Anon: Excuses, excuses!

[The_Naughty_Guy]

You can give it a try.

[Asker]

She said her English is very weak and also she wants to sleep at that time. I think they are all excuses.