What were the traits that got you attracted to your ex?

[athlete_7]

Both emotionally and physically

[SaartjieJane]

His humour and kindness. Once we got talking it was his softness with me and I fell hard.
All the soft words and gentle love, him seeming like such kind, caring, honest person. He honestly came across like no other guy I had been with. He wanted the kind of love I wanted.
His angelic eyes,
His voice and the way he’d say my name,
His lips, the bottom being fuller than the top and it’s shape I remember so well I that I could draw it with the picture of him in my head.
We wanted all the same things so everything about him I loved, even the parts that weren’t pretty. And everyday it was like I fell deeper and deeper in love with all of him.

[athlete_7]

U definitely loved his personality i guess. Kind and caring is common but yep honest peeps these days are rare. How is ur name pronounced tho 🤔?

[athlete_7]

U like to be drawn? Just curious?

[postempestas]

Found him attractive physically and well, he felt like a nice guy. Very calm and nice.

[trumpets310]

When I first saw her, was instantly attracted to her because I heard her laugh from across the room and was very smily and playful. She also had a way of moving where it seemed like everything she did made her boobs bounce 😅 so those are the things that attracted me to her before I even knew her. Honestly the relationship didn't last long because she wasn't a great person and didn't have any hobbies really. I hate to say it because this sounds horrible of me to describe someone that way, but she wasn't much more than a good laugh, pretty smile, and big boobs hiding the core of a toxic and uninteresting person

[trumpets310]

But hey, sometimes a fling is fun

[athlete_7]

😂 not for long run tho lol

[ChrisMaster69]

Her confidence, her ability to just do things and not really worry about what others thought of her.

how Open she is, non judgmental.

a bit like someone I’m close to at moment, she was very much heart on her sleeve sort of person.

Her willingness to try new things, to push limits and stuff.

how she interacted with others, how she could care about a person she hardly new and help out etc.

We did a lot of charity and volunteer stuff together.

Also she was (like a certain person) very close to how I am.

[athlete_7]

Not all ladys are confident lol

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah, and?

I would not be attracted to a girl without confidence

[athlete_7]

Happens everyone has their own reasons to be attracted yep confident and dominant girls are rare

[ChrisMaster69]

They are not rare.

I could go out in town tonight and would be a lot of them

Culture etc plays a huge part in it.

[Anonymous]

Ended on good terms. The fact that someone would love me so much. The fact that I was better then who myself and so many others thought I was. The fact that she had such a good heart

I loved her eyes and I loved her super beauty but she also had like a toned 6 pack of abs as well. Her face was beautiful even with little to NO makeup on. She was great.

I think that coming out and sharing we were together would have caused too many problems and we knew that if people found out that it would not end well. So we ended on good terms and still meet once in a while.

She's a wonderful human being. But that is a long story.

[athlete_7]

Damn women having six pack and loving u back is rare smh

[Opinion Owner]

She had to be physically fit for her job. But yea she was amazing

[LilyoftheLake]

Intelligence was by far his most remarkable trait. I don't mean that he was a computer whiz, or got good grades. I mean that he could THINK. His replies were fast and witty, his language articulate, and his philosophies INCREDIBLE.

I miss him.

[Joker_]

he sounds like me, I was good at maths

[athlete_7]

I would love to hear his philosphies lol what was the reason that u both broke tho?

[LilyoftheLake]

Well...
Let's just say that we were never actually in a relationship. It was a one night thing, if you can believe it. We talked for about eight hours. He disappeared the next morning :(

I guess that technically makes him not my ex. Hope that's okay

[athlete_7]

Lol its strange how one nighters can make u fall in love lol not all one nighter guys are douches i guess lol.

[athlete_7]

Noted wasn't ur ex ✅️

[LilyoftheLake]

No, not all.
I think I need to step away from the conversation now. Hurts too bad.

[Joker_]

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[sonic_fever]

He beautiful long black curly hair. He smile. Her incredible body. He independent attitude to not need a man. That’s what really made me want her most.

[Fabrilia]

These replies made me realize how little men care ab personality and mostly care about appearance and sex:( in comparison to women I guess

[Coolcat99]

He was so amazing to me did everything for me and was good in bed but turned into the devil a year later lol

[athlete_7]

People value the people less when they ve gotten them stuff smh chase is imp. Smh what did he do a year later?

[Coolcat99]

He just didn’t care about me treated me badly with cheating and mental abuse lol

[athlete_7]

Its better to remove toxic elements like that

[Jamesshinobi]

curly hair, her willingness to not turn down a party invite from a stranger, her desire to put my dick in her mouth after a few hours of partying.

[athlete_7]

Purely sexual lol. Not even a thing about personality? No wonder some of us fall for bad lady lol down for sex always. What led ti slpit tho?

[Jamesshinobi]

no. i think both two and three were personality based. she had a fearlessness and great sense of adventure. we broke up because i was in love with someone else that was the opposite. a very shy girl i worked with and we kind of ghosted each other. she showed up to a Halloween party when i started dating the other girl and banged a friend on the trampoline. i think to get my attention because we talked about it and it was under my bedroom window. it was kind of crazy. lovely girl. hope she is happy.

[exitseven]

She had the prettiest smile I ever saw. She was also in amazing shape. She also was nice.

[Cowboy6666]

Her being open minded, kindness, not racist, good listener. But in the end she proved to be disloyal 😒

[Anonymous]

He paid attention to detail.

[athlete_7]

Details like?

[Opinion Owner]

The music I listen to, the people I surrounded myself with, how I interact with society, where my heart was, what I was passionate about.. if we’re similar, I’m drawn to him.. I forgot to mention that. That’s most important.. his standards meet mine.. almost” .. that’a why I ended things.

[Opinion Owner]

Almost” is not enough.

[athlete_7]

So ur a marrage gal. I see its rare to find people with similar nature and standards that understand u.

[Opinion Owner]

He was protective, genuine, always searching for the truth, quiet and observant but loud when he spoke.. he spoke his mind.. everyone listened because he spoke the truth.. he’s hardworking and feisty…

[Opinion Owner]

Very good guy. He’s not a cuck.. but he’s stubborn and I’m mad at him.

[athlete_7]

Mad in sense for being crazy for him or for what reasons lol

[Opinion Owner]

That’s not part of the question, and I don’t feel like getting into it, but now you know the traits that I most admire in a guy.

[athlete_7]

U like dominant guys

[athlete_7]

That give captain america vibes and are understanding

[Opinion Owner]

He is more the dominating type of guy.. and I’m pretty dominant as a female myself..

[Opinion Owner]

I think I miss him.

[athlete_7]

U can always text him

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry I e been drinking and this question just triggered me.

[athlete_7]

😅👍✅️ k

[Opinion Owner]

What’s a marriage gal*?

[Opinion Owner]

Marrage * <<< that’s what you wrote

[athlete_7]

I mean someone seeking a person for long run in life

[athlete_7]

Gal = lady marrage girl ( thats a word i use for girls seeking long run marrage 😂)

[Opinion Owner]

Where did you get marrage from? What country are you from?

[Opinion Owner]

I can’t even find it on urban dictionary

[athlete_7]

The way u talk about him tells u were chasing for long run like a life time to last

[athlete_7]

Hmmmmm yep marrage is nowhere to be found in modern dictonary

[Opinion Owner]

I suppose my desire for a relationship is stronger than I thought. Wow.. you just made me realize this.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe that’s why I don’t full around and play games. But in the meantime! I’m content being alone. I won’t settle for just anybody.

[athlete_7]

India smh ✅️ country of math kids lol

[athlete_7]

Late realisation 🙂🙃

[Opinion Owner]

Awesome. Hey so India is known for their students to do well in math?

[Opinion Owner]

So please define marrage gal as if you were writing the dictionary, please.. I’m still lost on that one.

[athlete_7]

I don't know thats what they stereo type me. Aparently i am bad at math 🥲 only good at sports smh

[athlete_7]

Someone who craves guys personality rather than physical appearence. Wants loyality and life time with them is a marrage gal.

[Opinion Owner]

Country of math kids* < not you in general.. but the country itself. Why do you say y’all are known for being math geniuses? What careers out there need it the most where you live?

[athlete_7]

Mostly peeps here are engineers or doctors

[Opinion Owner]

I mean.. I feel like being good at basic algebra will help me Siri I’ve but they should have twitchy us how to change a tire when we get stranded on the road with a. Flat tire, to be honest..

[athlete_7]

Coders mostly. Peeps do try diff stuff i myself into porduct design but those peeps are few

[Opinion Owner]

Survive* not siri

[athlete_7]

Seems ur drunk texting heavily my lady

[TerezaDi]

He was phisically awesome

[athlete_7]

Awesome like? I d love to hear physical stats tbh

[TerezaDi]

197cm, about 85kg, muscle body, black guy

[athlete_7]

Black gives it away lol curious Bt the inches lol

[Straight2thepoint]

It was just sex. The rest is meaningless.

[athlete_7]

Tru dat