I caught my man flirting with his ex on Facebook, how upset should I be? (Page 2)
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I totally agree with Eiffelgirl21 about everything she said. Flirting should ONLY be done when you're single or if you're flirting with your girlfriend/partner >:(
while I don't have an answer - I wanted to offer some hopefully constructive criticisms (yes, not really related to the situation. In the title, don't ask "how upset should I be?" - please. That's between you and him - not us, we can't tell you what to feel or think.
A better to title the end would be like your update: "How should I handle this?"
really really helpful...that you for taking the time to be so helpful.
just talk to him and tell him that you're upset about it. challenge him to delete his ex on Facebook. cmon, didn't he move on with his ex already? if he loves you, he'll definitely listen to you.
I don't agree with flirting while you're in a relationship, but if were a crime of some sort, everyone woman on the face of the planet would be guilty.
not true. I do NOT flirt.
unless I am single
So you have been with this person for 7 years and all of a sudden he decides to flirt with an ex on Facebook? That I can't explain. Have him delete her.
we've been together 5 years, 2 of which have been living together. Delete her completely?
yup! and he better not have a problem with it
Try to talk it out with him, and ask him not to do it again.
Just talk and ask him about it. I would even go so far as to say you talked to your ex the other day too and see what his reaction will be.
dump hiim...my ex did that and it was the hardest 1 year of my life...i mean I never trusted her again
Ovbiously if your man is flirting with an ex, that means something is missing that his ex had.
Was she hotter? Did she have a better personalilty? Did she satisfy him better? Or is she just a great friend who he can count on?
Something is missing, make an examination of him and yourself and try to improve the relationship.
As you stated, he liked how she was so happy to see him. Maybe your not giving him enough emotional atention.
so she has something that I'm not giving him?
Daaaamn I'd be VERY p*ssed!
I would def. confront him and ask him what's up. Notice his reaction, or either dump him before he dumps or cheats on you.
Only you can answer that question for yourself...and maybe he can as well.
he can answer how I should handle the situation?
No. Don't you know your own title?
IF I was you I would try and gain access to his Facebook profile and delete her as his friend and block her as well
i would be very upset by this and expect him to stop
Heeeey aren't you that girl that kept saying that tests, getting chased and playing hard to get makes sure that you will get a men that actually likes you and won't play on you? Ooopppss I guess I was wrong...
find where I said that it won't get you played? A bad man is a bad man...but I know how to get the ones I want, even if they are bad for me.
that doesn't make any sense, you say that you know how to get the men that you like, does that mean men that cheat on you as well?
dont worrier about it unless he gets physical with other women .
so upset that you dump him.
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you should dump him
I would kick his ass!