Why doesn't she respond to flirty texts. I'm overreacting right?

[Anonymous]

I'm not freaking out just I think it's kinda weird. In person we flirt a lot. The last "study" date we had she was touching her knee with my knee, leaving it there for minutes, she'd let me touch her. We were all giddy and laughing. She was wearing a revealing top and pointing her goodies my way and even rubbed her breasts on my hands. Our hands etc ETCE TC we were flirting PERIOD.

And in class it's the same, she'll rub herself on me and let me put my hand on her knee and she responds by touching my arm, etc etc.

I text her and she doesn't really respond that much. If I send her something flirty, she may not even respond at all...

I don't bring it up and it doesn't bother me TOO much, since in person she keeps flirting and she still wants to get together and go out so no biggie. But why doesn't she respond to flirty texts.. do some girls just not know how to respond?

[knowit]

Well, I can think of a couple of reasons she might not answer you. 1. She isn't the kind of girl to get caught up in the texting and sending pics crap, I won't, it is distasteful. 2. Maybe she has a man and doesn't want him asking about her texting you. 3. She doesn't have texting on her phone, some people don't. Have you asked her why she doesn't text back. If you really like this girl ask her. The worst she can do is tell you to get lost. Right.

[AustinMan]

My man,

Count your blessings. She may not want that kind of thing recorded on her phone in case someone who has access gets nosy. She may not like to text. I don't think it matters in a material way. Move things down the road and in the meantime, if you want to risk it, bring it up. I think you need to get her alone in a romantic setting and if things go well, to hell with texting, right?

[Asker]

Smart man. I see her little sister and brother using her phone all the time. It's basically public access with her phone. I'm gonna see how she acts around me when I meet up with her tomorrow.. if she's still sitting close and flirting, I'll go ahead and kiss her and not worry about her not texting things like that back to me.

[AustinMan]

Best of luck, my man! And tell her to password protect her phone so you can be confident that your communications are where they belong, just between the two of you.

[Anonymous]

you could always just ask her why she never texts you and if she is flirting in person not over the phone always go with the in person/ gut feeling some people just don't like texting etc