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Boss makes good conversation and eye contact with big pupils and has a deer in headlight look moment then looks away quickly and when she does fixes her hair and glasses and adjusts her clothes all in one fell swoop move. Rinse and repeat just about entire time. Fidgeting rocking back in forth while we talk.
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Messing with a married woman always has consequences. And, one or both of you can get fired if in a professional company as they usually do not allow for workplace romance.
Who would know we are both quiet and nobody would ever expect a thing...
Okay, have it your way but I am just saying... I have had too many friends in a Navy town get the crap beat out of them when husbands return and find out wife was lying. Guys got the husbands anger.
That might explain the hot n cold behavior. I get jealous because around me she will clam up. I'm kinda of quiet guy to our personalities are about the same. So I don't know what she's so scared of.. it's just me. We've known each other for 7 years now.
Today she asked me what employee number was through Skype... something she can easily look up for further system training. I replied to her. She said that's all she needed. I sit in a group with two other people and we all sit in a corner of a room. She comes back to them and asks them the same question. Wouldn't even look at me. Determined to keep her back to me it seemed. I felt a little awkward.
You are important to her and she's got to keep you there, working, and grounded in job !!
I guess I feel like I should ignore her and no be around as often (in the break room everyday) let an air of mystery happen and cut off all contact see what happens.
But I don't want to do that I feel like it's out of character for me to be mean to someone like that. I don't wanna hurt anybody else feelings. she's a real nice person. But if she's behaving like that I guess I'll know my answer soon.
She may be attracted to you but I would just back away from that..
number one it's your boss and she's married... that can be a very messy situation
I seen her in the hallway. I was talking to another coworker about something I had been training on. She comes out of the bathroom and hears the entire conversation. She walks by me and says hello. He continues praising me and he turns to her as she walks by says yeah he's doing a super job! Keep it up man looks good. This whole time our hallway section is an L shape. She goes to the other part of the hall and she just kinda stops stands there nodding approval and smiling. I turn and look and she's like half looking around the corner at me. Just out of sight. Quiet even. She isn't normally like that. When it's me and her she quite a chatter box and striking up a chat. When any other person is around she will act like that. Quiet and shutdown.
They went back toward the work area and I went the other direction. I was in earshot and heard her ask in a real soft tone to the guy.. so he's really doing a good job huh? That's great I was just wondering.
A few minutes later I come walking in the door and she's standing at his desk (I guess still talking about all that, couldn't really hear). We both see each other make eye contact and her face turned deep red. I looked away quick and went back to my desk.
Today I was eating lunch yet again. Another female coworker was in there warming her food and we were chatting. My boss walks in mid conversation.
She warmed her food too and came all the way across the room and stood right next to the table in my
personal space in a real soft tone calm
voice chatted whats going on, not much
of nothing, she then said kind of a
dreary day isn't it real foggy outside
didn't think I would ever get here this
morning. I asked how was she feeling. ok I guess,
a little better i had a sinus infection they
gave me antibiotics. feeling a little
better been like this for a week. Helped
me with my ears cleaned. they were
popping to be honest was crying it hurt
so bad. I said well maybe you will better
soon. Well I'l see yah enjoy your lunch!
That's the first time that's happened she actually seemed jealous I was having a conversation with someone else.
Later we get this group email from some other group apparently a mistake. Me and another guy are on it. I delete it because I know it isn't anything we need. Out of the blue she says I notice you were cc on this you can disregard thanks. I'm like ok... I was going to anyways. It's almost like since I've kinda try to avoid her lately, she's trying to find ways to communicate every which way she can! I even got a 4 percent raise.. which where I work that's unheard of.
I've backed off a lot and I like her too much I have to find ways not to see her. Or contact if i can help it. Lately She keeps making trips to the printer by my desk lately. Today she walks up make eye contact and there is this between the both of us a double take. She says In a delicate soft voice where nobody else can hear and asked how was I doing. All I can muster was good. She was like that's good grabbed the paper and scurried out.
Other time at the printer was late day getting all my stuff up to head out the door she says softly have a good night. We sort of lingered there for a second and i said oh yeah you have a good night too. Awkwardly walked off. The whole way down the elevator im like turn around and go back and tell that woman you like her. The next day bumped into her personal space coming around a hallway corner. She stops in her tracks and says oh hey! Startled. I immediately felt embarrassed turned a different shade I'm sure and said oh so sorry I didn't mean to get I'm your way she appeared flushed and says your fine in a happy giddy tone. I blush and get out of there saying nothing else. NOW lately there's this Awkward tension not bad. But we don't converse like we use too. I guess my social media posts are what she wants or she doesn't like them. She will like a few but not all.
Came into room just said hello heated up food stood there watching tv. wasn't saying anything at all. Completely silent and i spoke up and used the tv has a conversation piece. They were playing baseball on tv. So i said well they are starting already huh? Usually im in here and thatd ever on is basketball. Kinda nice to see something else for a change attentively reponds well i dont like baseball on TV puts asleep one thing to be in person. I said iwent when I was a kid and adult first start working here. I remember they changed the name from the spirit's, warthogs and the dash. She immediately speaks up as i finish my sentence and stands in front of my table where i am sitting leans over table sort of in my personal space (can literally reach out and touch that close) looks down with huge eyes and witty say you know that's why they call it the dash because of the name. There's some trivia for you today! Laughing. This whole time I honestly couldn't hear what she was really saying. In retrospect all I could do was focus and on purpose look into those huge brown eyes. I looked deep for a few seconds while she kept talking. Thinking the whole time to myself I could sit here all day and listen to you talk. Almost as if I was in some sort of trance. The conversation ended she got her food and said I'll see you later!! Smiling and laughing. I'm not sure if the woman has any idea at all i feel that way but I do... very much so...