Should I move or fix my bad rep? (Page 2)

[6842yvil]

Unfortunately, it is very easy to gain a bad reputation but difficult to lose it. You shouldn't have to move, but with how the world works I think it would be best if you did. People won't forget, especially because you come from a small town. Move and get a fresh start.

Good luck with everything! It is so impressive that you were able to turn your life around, not many people can do that.

[Kattrain]

Your rep will never be the same, tbh. especially in a small town.

Move if you can, but improve yourself and try to make amends to those you hurt. Your family, the guys you cheated on.. etc.

[Caleio]

try to fix your reputation first, it can follow you no matter what, then, if things still aren't very good, then move, but just remember what you don't want to happen again and stay away from anybody that would pressure you into any of it

[Noelbonds]

dont listen to this guy.

You'll find someone who is right for you and he will not judge you about your past. Keep your head up :) things could be worse. The good thing is that your sober and your making your life better now :)

[beer3]

Apply for a job/ or education in a different city, if you really want to live their comeback in 10 years as a succesful person, it would change how people would view you.

[martyfellow]

You can just live a good life. You'd be surprised how forgiving people can be. But you'll never totally recover your reputation in a small town. Think about moving away fairly soon.

[Anonymous]

if its really that bad? (as far as other people teasing you) I would just move and start over. Because people are gonna think what they want or what they are infuensed to think anyway. Sorry but its true.

[daytrader]

I think you need to move at some point... Start applying for jobs in other states/cities. People might forgive you, but they will never forget.

[Anonymous]

So wait you want people to just forget the fact you were a slut? Damage is done. Cheaters are cheaters. Most men don't want to marry whores.

[Skyler123]

Uh, huh...So are you free of any wrong doing? If not then you are just as bad...have you ever lied? I bet you have, everyone has lied in their life time. Have you most likely hurt someone's feelings? I am quite positive you have, so you know what? If you have done all of these things then that would make you a lying insensitive bastard. Simply because you did it regardless if you felt bad about it.

So why would a girl wanna marry a lying insensitive bastard?

[aliciaxx]

of course he's hurt someone's feelings, the QA could be an example of that. and of course he's anonymous because he's ashamed of himself. as jesus says, let he who is without sin cast the first stone, a**hole

[Opinion Owner]

I have lied to avoid hurting people's feelings, I mean about whether I would date them or not. I said that I would if the circumstances are different. Of course I have many sins against the creator of the universe, but I can't stop that. It's inevitable.

But that doesn't mean I want to marry a sl*tty woman. I have waited until marriage to have sex, so I want a woman that shares those values and wants her first time to be with someone she actually cares about. Why wouldn't I?

[themastaplan]

wait...your a waste of sperm and your mother should have swallowed you?

dude, don't judge people...if you had met this girl randomly and knew NOTHING about her past you wouldn't judge her like that...i know a lot of insecure women who slept with a lot of men, that doesn't mean they can't start a new life somewhere else where no one has to know about anything...hell your wife may even lie to you about the # of people she's slept with...lifes one big chance, don't judge her

[Opinion Owner]

Why should a sane man who hasn't lived recklessly just pretend that the past didn't happen and marry some used up skank?

[ALWAYSclassy]

Most whores end up getting married one day regardless. I went to school and grew up with quite a few former whores who are now married raising kids. If they don't stay in the same town, most likely no one, including the future husband would ever know.

[Opinion Owner]

I mean most guys would ask for numbers, names, dates etc

[diamond3]

move