How come every single time a guy flirts with me or hits on me my friend tells me they’re just casually doing that with everyone?

[Anonymous]

Every time guys hit on me she always says that oh he's just “casually are telling women they’re gorgeous” or once my personal trainer said he’s noticing my physical progress and she was like “what a fake compliment to get more business” and once a guy smiled at me for a while and kept staring at me and she was like “he was probably just smiling normally” and once a guy I went to dinner with told me I’m an absolutely beautiful woman and he was surprised I swiped on him and she was like “he’s trying to get in your pants” but whenever guys brag about her or Hit on her she goes along with it and says they’re “peacocking” and then brags about all the nice things guys do for her and puts down guys who I date. Just she has to have the moment and not allow me to think guys find me attractive. by the way she’s not in shape and I am. And just not that gorgeous yet she puts everyone’s appearance down.

[Guy13]

My first reaction is this girl is competing against you. For some reason, she has made you her Icon. This suggests to me that there may be some sort of underlying jealousy. If so, then this person is dangerous and does not have your best interest at heart.-In other words, one like this is not your friend.

That being said... She could be letting you know that this guy will hit on anything that is breathing or moves. Be careful that you do not become one of his bodies counted...

[WanderingLoveWizard]

She's not your friend, she's your enemy. Destroy her.

[Emerald55346]

I think it could be coming from a good place it really depends on wether she has your best interests, it is true a lot of guys want to get in your pants or be your boyfriend and give you the bare minimum, she isn’t wrong in that sense. find a man you can say confidently is great for you and quality then ditch her if she still has shit to say.

[KarinMcDonald]

Maybe your friend is jealous of the attention you're getting?

[Asker]

I think she is. And that’s why she wants to sabotage me. Women constantly do that to each other.

[SpudSteer]

Sound toxic I’d stop being her friend

[Sarah2023]

Definitely jealous

[Asker]

I’m in denial. Because I don’t think I’m like a jealous worth kind of girl. I’m super shy and not like an outgoing kind of girl.

[Sarah2023]

You aren’t jealous. She is. Trust your instincts

[Asker]

I know I meant I don’t think women would be jealous of me

[Sarah2023]

Unfortunately it’s very common.

[Asker]

I guess I don’t understand it and why people are

[Sarah2023]

Either do I

[Sarah2023]

Just do your own thing. There will always be jealousy. As long as you aren’t hurting anyone then who cares what they think.

[SpudSteer]

Because she is either jealous or toxic any friend would be excited

[Asker]

Ikr. She fluffs herself up though and brags about all the guys that want her even when she has a boyfriend.

[SpudSteer]

My ex was like that she always wants attention from other men when she’s dating

[Asker]

It’s so funny this bitch thinks she’s hot stuff. She’s not a gorgeous woman. Also I model and have a contract with an agency and I’m a redhead, and she was like “oh did I show you when my hair was red?” And then she said she’s modeled before and showed me some like trashy car pohotshoot thing she did before.