Why do girls in line turn around to look at me, then turned back forward, and slowly lift their shirts up to show off their butts in front of me?

[YoYo_Grump]

I was sitting down at the tables in Panda Express waiting for my order because they had to cook more orange chicken. This girl and her boyfriend walked into the restaurant and got in line. I honestly didn’t paid much attention to them until later. But I did noticed something…

As she got in front of me in the line while I was sitting down. She turned around to look at me, then turned back forward. Really sneakily, she then proceeds to lift her sweater up slowly to expose her butt right in front of my direction. And I’ve noticed she would make small glances back at me too. Was she trying to seduce me? Because this happened to me a good amount of times which I thought the girls were just trying to adjust their clothes or they were very uncomfortable or something.

Another example, while I was at Buffalo Wild Wings, sitting on the cushions for my pick-up order. A really cute girl walked in and got in line. And she did the exact same thing. She made eye contact with me, turned around to look at me, then, she turned her head back facing forward, she stood up really straight, And she slowly lifted her shirt up to her waist line to show off her butt. She also made little glances at me. Or if we catch eyes on accident, she would smile. But I look away because I don’t want to be label as a creep. I’m really bad at picking up signals. I’ve been told by some people that I’m very “handsome” but I also rarely get complimented or approached. But friends and others will pick up on girls checking me out. I get a little discourage because some will look away quickly if I smile at them. So I just don’t bother at times. I’m a shy introvert. Nerdy, but not socially inept, but I’m also respectful. I was homeschooled and raised by traditional parents. I don’t want to come off as a pervert or anything, or maybe I’m overthinking it? I’m obviously very inexperienced because I never interacted with girls like that due to homeschooling. But can these girls be trying to seduce me?

Updates

11 mo

I know. I’m a little too old to not have any real experiences with women. I’ve only had 1 girlfriend when I was 17. But she was a family friend’s daughter. Outside of her, I’m very inexperienced. Anybody can help me out? Girls will look at me while I’m out in public. But everytime I smile at the ones who make eye contact with me, they would either not smile back, give me a blank stare or they would look away fast. It can be a little discouraging because I took it as a rejection.

[Red_Arrow]

How did she get in line in front of you when you were already sitting at a table? And how does lifting her sweater expose her butt when it would be covered by her skirt or pants? You must be hallucinating.

[YoYo_Grump]

In the restaurant, there’s tables right in next to the line. She looked at me and turned around and lifted her shirt up. And she kept playing with it and looking back at me and smiling at times. That’s why I asked if I’m trippin or not?

[YoYo_Grump]

Panda Express has tables right next to the line. When you’re facing the servers, there’s tables behind the customers ordering. This girl came in with her boyfriend, she looked at me and raised her shirt up to show her butt. She was wearing yoga pants. Nooooo… She wasn’t exposing her bare butt. Just her butt in pants. And she kept looking back at me making little small smiles. Apparently, other men asked this question online too.

[Mafiasomari3]

Yeah I agree with you that’s facts because my girlfriend when we first met she would do the same thing on FaceTime she would walk around and kinda lift up her shirt for attention and I noticed that when we would go out a lot she would do it around other people and other males who were present anywhere we went like for example the gas station mall or just a regular store…. They tend to do that whenever they see men are around or if somebody they think looks good or is well
Dressed is around and that’s why I started to never trust women because body language and the way a female moves around and operates on a daily can tell you everything you need to know about that specific female and a lot of them are flirts but get jealous and angry when it’s the opposite way around

[Mafiasomari3]

And Im an attractive male I’ve had plenty females do the same thing to me as well and also my girlfriend would tend to fall back a little or let go of my hand while holding hands in public I would notice that whenever a large group of males walked by or sometimes in general she would kind of tend to fall back a little while walking and that right there told me that I would never trust a women ever again not all women are like this but I’ve had a rocky relationship due to noticing behavior of my girlfriend calling her out for certain things she would do and eventually everything I called out led to exactly what I knew it would lead to
Her changing on me and ruining our trust even more in the relationship and that’s not even the half I know what type of female my girlfriend is I’m not a sugar coat type of person women actions speaks for themselves same as men it’s no different if your a solid male you’ll show it if your a solid female you’ll show it I promise you the half of these type of
Issues wouldn’t occur if your commited in an relationship it’s just from my experience if a person shows you thier actions the first time
Listen to them and move on do try to fix it it’ll only give you more and more reason to bring up something about a person and the selfishness acts they bring to the table

[springxxx]

Hi, I'm a shy introvert too and inexperienced🙂 you're not alone lol.. being shy and an introvert can be both a good and a bad thing haha but anyways to answer your question, I think they were flirting with you. A girl who randomly lifts her shirt up doesn't look normal to me. They did it to get your attention. I agree with your friends though, try not to date those "thirst trap" type of girls if you're looking for a serious relationship. Good luck!

[YoYo_Grump]

Hello! (: Thank you for the reply! Yeah, a lot of the answers on here weren’t helpful and said I’m just imaging things or making it up. I knew I wasn’t just “imaging” it. Some girls literally were in line in front of me, would look back at me and lift their shirt up to show their butt. At first, I wouldn’t think much of it. But I’ll catch ‘em looking back at me and make quick smile glances at me. Even with their boyfriends not looking. I felt awful about the situation and I’ll try to look somewhere else. And my friends mentioned some girls do that when they want to thirst trap. I was raised churchy, so my friends usually try to push me to get a girlfriend and have sex even though I’m a virgin and not really into sleeping arojnd. 😂

[YoYo_Grump]

*around

[springxxx]

It's okay! Same here, so i understand you. Just don't forceful to do anything you're uncomfortable with. Thank you for the mho!

[springxxx]

*force yourself

[OracleCassandra]

That doesn't sound like ordinary flirtatious behavior. My guess is that you're reading too much into it.

[YoYo_Grump]

I was thinking that. But why would some girls will turn around, look at me, turn back to face forward again, and slowly raise their shirt up over their butt. Their shirt was covering their burr, until they saw me and lifted the shirt up?

[Iron_Man]

Are you sure about all that mighty cocky

[YoYo_Grump]

Yeah. I’m asking an honest question.
I asked my friends this same question. Some told me this happened to them too and those girls were “thirst traps” and told me to avoid them or something like that.

[YoYo_Grump]

That’s why I asked if I’m just overthinking or they’re just trying to adjust their clothes.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, sure they do.

[In_Trance]

Yea ok

[YoYo_Grump]

I think people got my question wrong. She didn’t expose her naked butt. Some of the girls were wearing jeans or yoga pants. And they had a long shirt over the pants. And when they saw me. They lift their shirt up to show their butt, and will look back at me and sometimes smile.