Would it be crazy to profess your feelings for someone through Linkedin? (Page 2)

DizzyDesii · 2023-07-28T13:18:05Z

I mean I’m already outta pocket so this shouldn’t be too bad 🤣 Of all people last night, I dreamed of one of my former best friends. We were friends from like HS through half of college. He was ALWAYS there for me but he often wanted to be more. A part of me did as well but I don't know why I couldn’t bring myself to just give in. Like he was sooo cute but he was too tall like 6’4 or 6’5 and his chin was longer than norm so people jokingly called him the Crimson Chin. Still i found him adorable. My mom nicknamed him stripper boy because he joked that he wanted to grow up to become a chippendale stripper but we told him he was probably the same height as the pole. Anyways, in my dream we were hanging out and it almost led to sex but I stopped myself. Then this new idiot text my phone and woke me up. I wouldn’t say I’ve ever been interested in my former friend enough to imagine having sex with him, but I’ve always wanted to kiss him and almost did each time he hugged me from behind, resting his head on my shoulder, staring at me with those puppy dog eyes. We would’ve been a thing if I didn’t push him away, and at one point into the arms of my friend. It was hard seeing them date but I dated others so it was whatever. Then in college, we became close again when he walked me for my awards day. We lost touch when his first girlfriend from HS begged for him back, but she became very controlling and wouldn't let him talk to me anymore. I was being an idiot so I got a new phone number so i didn't have to sit around expecting a text. I haven't seen this dude in like 8 years but that dream shook me and now I miss him. I just dont know if its platonically or in a romantic sense. The crazy part— I don’t have social media, so I came across his profile on linkedin and went to message him but the mfs want you to pay premium. So i just hit connect instead. I feel this is sooo unprofessional and I’m scared of what I’ll say if he accepts my request. 🤣 Is this crazy? #FeelFreeToList

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justabuddy Follow
Xper 6 Age: 42

9 mo

It's probably fine, might be hard to tell if he is seeing someone or not.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  I mean i’m almost always seeing someone so i shouldn't be surprised
  
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- justabuddy
  
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  😱...
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Thats why im hesitant to say something to him because im not sure if i’ll be talking to someone else by time he replies lmao
  
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- justabuddy
  
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  Try just asking as a friend.
  
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DJB72 Follow
Guru Age: 52

9 mo

There's worse ways to connect

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MysticDevice Follow
Guru Age: 29

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I mean... whats the worst that could happen

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- DizzyDesii
  
  9 mo
  He might be married by now. I don't know its been 8 years 🤣
  
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- MysticDevice
  
  9 mo
  Oof.
  
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Phoenix98 Follow
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9 mo
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Don't even know what that is.

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nawtee_me Follow
Guru Age: 66

9 mo

Don’t want mom setting you up? lol

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- DizzyDesii
  
  9 mo
  My mom always exaggerates and makes things worse.
  
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TallAnon Follow
Master Age: 28

9 mo
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Linkedin might not be the right website, lol

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- DizzyDesii
  
  9 mo
  I dont have any social media 🤣
  
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Agape93 Follow
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A bit lol

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  🤣🤣
  
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- Agape93
  
  9 mo
  Lol don't use linked in to profess feelings. That's not ok. You have to offer sloppy. toppy BEFORE you confess feelings
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
  9 mo
  I pray this is a joke
  
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- Agape93
  
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  Of course its a joke lol
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Cause im totally funsized compared to his height 😩😭
  
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- Agape93
  
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  Lol cute
  
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whereismyjohnny Follow
Guru Age: 21 , mho 31%

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Tbh, yes 😂

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  😂😂
  
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Billlewis Follow
Guru Age: 60 , mho 38%

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Probably.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Okay 🙈
  
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Sparkie460 Follow
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9 mo

Go for it girl

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Debating
  
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- Sparkie460
  
  9 mo
  What's there to debate about. Just message him
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Cause my interest in people change quickly lmao
  
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LavLavLuv Follow
Master Age: 24

9 mo

Wha- 🤣🤣

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  😂😂😂
  
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