How do I break the ice with my crush?

[Anonymous]

I have a crush on this guy at the Gym and I'm kind of sure he has a crush on me too. We always work out next to each other and when I'm not around or next to him he will come and workout next to me. The crazy thing is we have never spoken to each other, but will literally move to wherever the other one is.

[Pacquet]

I’ve heard about this in the gyms and it’s so funny. People just gravitate towards each other until one asks the other to chipotle. You could ask him to spot you or if he could hand you a plate when you benching or squatting. When he’s not looking put your water bottle or something near his station and then pretend like he stole it. You could compliment his calves and then walk away. You could tell him he looks familiar and ask where do you know him from. You could challenge him to a lift off. I’m just spit balling…

[Ompeeee]

Arrange a funny and perhaps slightly weird situation (Like another guy here suggested - challange him to something he'll be surprised about. Max weight deadlift perhaps?) Then you continue with some jokes and spin on. Perhaps some innuendo if the opportunity arise.

The jokes and innuendos are how I do it to women at least, and I love when they respond in the same way so the cheekiness kinda escalates a bit.

[Sub_Girl]

Just talk dammit!

What more signs do you guys need😂

Ok, start slowly if you wish... with some casual Hi's and stuff

Then ask to go out to eat or somewhere together

[laraWM]

Just ask anything, if he likes you, he'll take the chance to talk to you more

[Dkc123]

Probably look at him n smile.. that's how it starts I guess..

[AndLikeThatHesGone]

Ask him to spot you during an exercise.

Do you lift weights at all?

[Asker]

Yes, I will have to try this

[AndLikeThatHesGone]

He'll probably know you don't actually need help, if he's seen you working out all the time before. But he'll go along with it because he wants to talk with you.

How revealing are your workout clothes?

[AndLikeThatHesGone]

How'd it go with your crush?

[In_Trance]

talk to him