I met a guy in a friend’s party. I kinda checked him out and he also checked me out too and he even asked me directly if I was looking at him. We were low key flirted. Some people in party even matchmade us for fun. Please note that he is divorced with a child. I never get married. I will move away to another country in a week from that party. When we talked in the beginning with presence of another friend, he was mentioning Facebook but I wasn’t sure he was asking mine as I just brush it off. I know that this won’t lead to anywhere. It’s a bit pity with timing. But I am so curious about him and find his Facebook. I want to know if he was interested but felt the same about situation or he just flirted for the sake of flirting. I noticed a girl on his phone screen but in party he declared to everyone that he has no one at the moment and others seem to agree.
Should I send a guy I met in party friend request?
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He seems like a nice guy. And to be honest, I am kinda overly curious about him. I don’t know if it’s about him as a person or his situation in general. But realistically it will make life simpler if I just ignore and let this pass. It gonna get complicated even if it progress anywhere. But I kinda feel I can’t get over it right now, but don’t want to give him wrong idea. Oh he did mention to me that can he contact me for a meal when he visit our home country as friends? What does that imply?
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Is he implying friendzone me or say it in a nice way so I won’t feel uncomfortable?
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Since you're never going to see him again, you can implicitly use that as an excuse to send him a friend request (he'll just assume you want a way to still be in contact). Then after you send an encouraging Facebook friend request, then leave it to him to pursue you by sending messages.
Thanks for idea. Could you speculate from the questions in my update post?
Sure why not? What do you have to lose by trying?