I'm too shy to cuddle? I really need help.

[Anonymous]

I spent some time with the guy I like. We listened to music and watched a move. While we were relaxing he put his arm around me and I leaned into him. There were also times when his hand was on my knee and other times where he tried getting me closer. But I'm so shy with guys when it comes to cuddling. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to react.

What do I do when his hand's on my knee?

Do I ever put my arm around him?

How do I know when to hold his hand?

So many questions. I usually just sit there and let him do all the work and give nothing back even though all I want is to cuddle back. I panic. Please help me :(

[mrlovat]

you're so cute!

you know most of the times you don't need to do anything 'cause your guy will take care of it. As long as you don't push him away he'll probably think that you like it. just try to be relaxed otherwise he might think you're not enjoying it.

it also depends where you were when this happened and how long you've known each other...

Personally I love it when girls lean their head on my shoulder or when they rub my head

if you wanna give a clear signal you can put your legs over his while sitting on a sofa but be aware that at some point he'll expect to kiss

[Anonymous]

Don't overthink it. Just relax. Cuddling is such an easy thing if you just go with the flow. If he has his arm around you just curl up into his side. Smile up at him every once and awhile too to show that you like it. Otherwise just go with whatever he does. Cuddling is such a nice, simple pleasure. Take the time to enjoy it. (:

[Anonymous]

Dim the lights. That'll help to make you less self conscious and make your more relaxed so that you can cuddle with him

[Anonymous]

well if you are really close to him or trust him, you won't be afraid of him.

[Asker]

We are very close and I trust him with everything I have. I just panic and over think.