Guys, How do you act around your gym crush?

[Anonymous]

i have a crush on a guy in the gym, we rarely talked and it was just the usual stuff like "do you need this" or "are you finished"... i caught him starring a few times when we workout at the same time but he never smiles. He's doing his exercise close to me or right next to me, when i'm finished and stretch on the mat section, he comes over and does his ab workout right next to me. I took my headphones down a few times but he never approached me. I clearly feel something coming from him... but don't know what he is waiting for. I'm not the one that approaches guys, like never, to nervous and i don't know how to start conversation. Maybe its just in my mind but would you do those things if you weren't attracted to her?

[Hulk30]

understood indifferent to a certain degree and i'd break the ice by tactfully complimentin their physical appearance and actually propositionin em to be trained by em and to be gym buddies with em so i'd just flip that coin to his point of view and just create a situation for yourself and just work it from that angle

[spartan55]

Any guy who decides to approach a woman at the gym is taking a huge risk these days..
So you are 36-45 and you "don't know how to start a conversation?' But you feel like you are ready to date?
I think you are terrified of rejection so you hide behind societal norms.

[ThrillSeeker01]

I'm always so tempted to stare at a girl I like, especially if she's working out right near me. A guy might be a little nervous/not too sure about how to start a conversation, but if he stares I think that means he's attracted to you.

[Pohjolan]

I only socialise with women in a gym after a workout in the mixed sauna.

[Anonymous]

I have a constant hard-on when i see her bend over in her leggings!

[Forceinhand]

I don't do gym crushes.