Does this qualify as being a simp/placing her on a pedestal/needy?

[Jamesier]

Context: She has been DMing first most times in the past few months, checking up and engaging me in convos.

Me: Hey
Me: I've been thinking about you a lot lately, 'her name'
Her: Heyy
Her: really, why?
My brain - ladies are crazy 😂, she knows why
Me: Why do you have to be so cute 'her name'
Her: She replied "why do you have to be so cute, her name" with a show offy, go-girly, duh looking female flipping hair sticker.
Her: Did you go home?
My brain - the did you go home question feels like she wanted to avoid what I was doing. But the hair flipping sticker though...

Did that appear needy? I sent that from a place of confidence. I wanted to stand out from other guys so she wouldn't assume I am just a friend.

[Oliverlogan263]

Eh I wouldn't say that was too needy or simping dude. Sounds like you guys have been flirting back and forth for a while, so some compliments are all good. As long as you own it with confidence and don't grovel, you're good.

Her reply flipping her hair kinda shows she liked it too I think. And asking if you went home yet seems like she was just making conversation, not shutting you down.

My advice would be keep it light and fun like that. Tease her back with the compliments so she knows you're joking but also mean it. Don't put her on a pedestal, just act like you think she's cute. And don't get all serious - keep it playful banter.

As long as you don't start pouring your heart out constantly or begging for her attention, you're setting a good vibe. Seems like it's working so far! Keep it up, maybe try hanging out for real soon too. You got this bro.

[Jamesier]

Thanks man.

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re welcome man

[slatyb]

Are you dating? Have you asked? If not, why not? Stop messing around, ask for what you want, and get an answer.

[Anonymous]

Who else finds giving blowjob unpleasant? Particularly the forced one!

[VictorMachiavelli]

You’re over-analysing things. She likes you, ask her out on a date.

[Jamesier]

😂😂 I will eventually. Thanks

[VictorMachiavelli]

Fuck eventually, you wait too long you'll lose your chance either because some other guy asked her out before you did, or she thinks you're a pussy, or both. Shoot your shot today.