So I am horrible at reading signs from girls. I miss them all the time. Both good and bad. I have in the past not realized a girl like me or was flirting with me, I was told after "dude she was flirting with you" and I was like huh 🤷♂️. I also have missed signs I was bugging girls at times. How many guys and girls are the same at missing signs from the opposite sex?
I started off bad. I’d grade myself now as a C plus. I have Asperger’s, so I was born with pretty shite ability to read body language (flirting); and to correctly interpret other signs of interest or how to hit on people appropriately. Half the time I get it wrong. Other times I’m spot on. I’ll never be good at reading people. I’m just not as useless at it as I started off.
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Im probably bad at assuming someone is flirting. Like people be legit flirting and then claiming they were just being friendly. The lies lol
I'm absolutely oblivious to any girls being attracted to me. My exes always used to tell me how much attention I get and I just never believed them because I never saw it myself. Even my friend would say "Yo that girl's checking you out." And I'd be like, "Nah she's not man." A girl would literally have to go up to me and say she's interested in me for me to see anything.
I notice the most minute signs but since I prefer being single. I don't act on any of them. I remember noticing a sign that lasted a fraction of a second (most guys would miss it). When I didn't act on it, the girl became really frustrated and let out this huge sigh. It made me wonder how many signs like this women expected men to notice.
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I admit I am super bad with it because my natural default setting is they don't like me, they can't like me. The only time I actually think a guy likes me is if he says something sexual. Which is completely wrong because a guy who does that doesn't actually like me either he just wants to use someone. So I have no idea how to deal with men besides as friends. My best bet is to stay away from all males forever lol.
Same I´m bad at reading body signs in terms that a person is interested in me or in anyway positive towards me. I get it when they are negative though.
Who knows what most men are saying. I gave up trying to understand years ago. I only know one guy that makes total sense 100% of the time, and that is my husband. The rest — I don't even bother trying to understand them.
I always just assume she's being friendly until she's taking my pants off.
I am expert at knowing if someone likes or not. That's intuition for me.
I used to be terrible but I think I've gotten better.
I’m not very good at it.
As far as I understand, no. Women want nothing to do with me.
Apparently I'm awful too
Women have signs?
I can’t tell from either sex I’m so bad at it
I am terrible at it
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