My boyfriend flirts with other girls but yet, still loves me..?

[Anonymous]

ill admit, I get jealous when I see him flirting and talking with other girls. why does he still love me? those girls are way more pretty. when he says to me that he will always love me, do you think he means it? he doesn't seem to think he is flirting but it definitely is..

[Eiffelgirl21]

flirting is definitely wrong..and you are completely normal to get jealous...I think, if you love someone you are bound to get jealous a little of something. If he thinks he isn't doing anything wrong and you think there is NO way to prove to him in words what he is doing...Let it all out..IF you honestly feel like crying when you talk to him, then do it..he needs to know how much it's hurting you. IF that doesn't seem to work...give him a taste of himself. Don't be obvious...but, in a few weeks hang out with him and another guy and flirt with the guy. Giggle, smile, tell the guy how funny he is..and blah blah blah. Or..walk out with a guy after class..where you know for sure your boyfriend will be there watching you..and laugh and giggle while saying buy to him...that will bother your boyfriend and make him think about what he is doing. I am pretty sure. I am sorry. And, I know it hurts..I seriously HATED my high school years... Best xxxx

P.S- It doesn't mean they are better than you..most likely he is just really friendly! But, it is still wrong because it gives the girls a vibe that he is interested.

[Asker]

thaankyou so much :)

[Eiffelgirl21]

of course! good luck xxxx

[Asker]

thankyou xx

[Anonymous]

he does love you. some people can't help but flirt with the opposite gender, it has nothing to do with his feelings for you. it's just who he is and always will be, he's a flirt

[Asker]

thats true and I think in a way its just who he is .

[Jay_So_Lovely]

I honestly don't think teen age boys have the mental and emotional capacity to love...but aside from that, I think this is something that you should be asking him...right?

[Asker]

yeah , right. thankyou

[Anonymouseo]

Some people are just friendly I guess? You should sit down and redefine what flirting is with him. For me for example, I like to tease and be cheeky for fun but at the end of the day I value quiet time with someone I love the most. To me those who I can sit quiet and comfortable with is someone who I truly love and feel comfortable around.

[sixstring]

The way I talk to most women is often perceived as flirting. After a party 10 girls turn out to have the impression that I was hitting on them, though it'd be just one I actually flirted with. So he might be telling the truth that he's not (consciously) flirting with them.

But if he really is, it's got nothing do with you.

[louise111]

If he really is flirting with them and purposely doing it, it has everything to do with her because they are a couple he shouldn't be out flirting with other girls! If he wants to go out and do that then he should be single!

[sixstring]

I agree with you there, you shouldn't flirt with other people while in a relationship. But it still has nothing to do with her. If he's like that, he could be banging Scarlett Johansson and still flirt with other girls.

By the way, I see much more girls flirting with other guys even though they're taken than the other way around.

[MrzSushiiBunnii]

Some guys are just nice, but if it's obvious flirting then that's not cool.

[marcellababy]

LOL. I say you put him on a leash and start training him before it becomes a habit.

[louise111]

Its the only thing you can do! They don't grow up

[marcellababy]

BRAVO

[Eddieguitar]

well, flirting doesn't mean anything. I flirt with some girls just to practice and for the hell of it. Maybe there is something unique about you that he likes.