Do you think my cousins friend would find it creepy if I followed him on IG?

[leahthuyhaling]

hello, i don’t have many female friends to talk about guys stuff and wanted to come on here to ask a question. i went to my cousins bday party on Saturday and thought one of his friends was cute, i didn’t talk to him or even try to, but when we played card games he was sitting next to me and we talked very briefly and i was kind of drunk so I don't know if i came off annoying but he accidentally spilled water on me, and when the game was over i was cleaning up the tables and he asked if i needed help i told him no i got it, and he said he wanted to apologize for spilling water on me, i told him that, thats really sweet and that he didn’t need to apologize because it was all good. I don't know if he was trying to get a conversation going or he really felt like he owed me an apology, anyway i just thought he was really cute and had a good vibe to him, and I don't know if it would be creepy of me to follow him on IG, what do you guys think?

[SueShe]

It always depends on the motive behind an action.

If you want to follow him because you find his posts interesting, then there is nothing creepy in following him. I mean, I suppose that most of the people follow others on social media because they find the content interesting.

If on the other hand, you want to follow him because you have something else up your sleeve, then it may come across as creepy.

I suspect that your motive is not so much because you like his posts but because you have other motives since you placed this question under the "Flirting" topic.

[leahthuyhaling]

my motive is just follow him and see what kinda things he posts on his story and maybe see if i can get to know him better?

[SueShe]

And how do you interpret "know him better"?

[leahthuyhaling]

messaging him

[spartan55]

I think you are s fool for not letting him help you clean up. That was a perfect chance to hangout and get to know him. Instead you gave him the stiff arm for some weird reason. Then you called him 'sweet' so he thinks he has no shot with you for sure. Then you are worried about looking creepy? Lol... 😂

[TommyMountainFigure]

Yep it's fine. Just when you add him, say this:-

"I'm the girl you spilt water on at (insert your cousin's name) party. Just to show there was no hard feelings I thought I'd add you on here"

I see nothing creepy in that. whatsoever!

[ChicoFromThe305]

Girls making the first move is comfortable for a guy, i think it's only common for women to find it creepy when being hit up out of nowhere, to men it just triggers curiosity.

[Staximus]

Guys aren't girls. We generally don't get creeped out by girls unless they are psychos.

[LiamJHayden]

Not likely, but is it really worth stressing over? Just do it and if he gets weird unfollow.

[Vermillion30]

As long as your not posting pictures of his house. You're probably good.

[Twalli]

It shouldn't be, but probably mention who you are, so he remembers

[noohair]

Sounds ok. I am not into the whols social media thing. It looks fake to me.

[underling]

I doubt the person would think it was creepy

[strateguy632]

guys would be happy you did that

[leahthuyhaling]

I don't know his bday party was Saturday and I don't know if i were to do it later on it would be creepy

[slatyb]

No, I don't. Do you want a date? Just ask him.

[Nikki1989]

Who cares? It is only Instagram.

[JayBones]

Usually their girlfriends

[MrDaveAPSI]

Might wonder why, but, I don't think it'd be weird

[Bobby88t]

No just follow him:)

[laly520]

sounds fine

[riverrat3]

He may like it