Why do men start flirting with me when they find out I’m humble or insecure?

[Anonymous]

Im talking about people who have known me for a while and made a berth around me or acted quite aloof or even rude who would all of a sudden act super nice or even flirty with me.

[spartan55]

I'm not following this. Humble and insecure are different things. And how would they find out you are those things if they avoid you?

[Asker]

If they are forced to be in the same room with me

[spartan55]

Can you explain how you are humble and insecure at once?

[jahaims]

It's easy to manipulate insecure people

[Asker]

So they are not actually attracted to me?

[MrDaveAPSI]

To make you feel better about yourself

[Asker]

Jesus

[Anonymous]

Maybe they think you’re easy

[Asker]

Im not easy :/

[Opinion Owner]

They are just assuming that but don’t really know so they flirt to see what happens

[Asker]

So they were never interested in me and just want an easy lay?

[Opinion Owner]

That’s hard to say, everyone has a different agenda